343 – What You Don’t Know in the Bedroom Can Hurt You and Your Marriage

“Knowing is not enough we must apply. Willing is not enough we must do.” —J W Von Goethe When you don’t know what works in the bedroom (or what doesn’t) you may be paralyzed wondering… Does my spouse like this? Is this position OK? Are they initiating? Is this a good time? Think about this […]

3 Bite-Sized Tips to Improve Your Communication Skills

Has communication in your marriage seen better days? Worried that you may not be able to make it with your partner? If so, you may need to improve your communication skills within your marriage. Improved communication skills can take your relationship with yourself and your spouse to new heights. It can be a difficult process […]

342 – Why Knowing Her Menstrual Cycle Is Important to Your Sex Life

“In all things there is a law of cycles.” —Tacitus (Roman Historian) It is absolutely critical that you understand the female menstrual cycle for your sex life and for your marriage. A woman’s body is absolutely amazing and it’s hard wired to ebb and flow as the hormones fluctuate each and every month. As a woman’s hormones […]

What If You Could Have Your Cake And Eat It Too

“Playing safe is very risky.” —Seth Godin What do you look back on with regret? Do you have moments in your life that if you could, you’d do it way differently? Would you go back and have your cake and eat it too? Two of the worst words in the English language can be, “What […]

341 – Stop Those Old, Comfortable and Ineffective Patterns

“Marriage doesn’t have the power to bind-only the actions of two people can do that. Forever and happy endings aren’t a given.” —Leah Mercer You can make changes to your marriage no matter how long you’ve been married. For us it was at the 11 year make that we got radical when we started and completed […]

3 Simple Ways to Improve Yourself and Your Relationship

Marriage is one of those things that can get more challenging the longer you’re in it. You want a marriage that is constantly growing better, stronger and more extraordinary… but you may not know what to do right now in your own life to accomplish this. We’ve been married for almost 20 years and there have […]

340 – 5 Stimulating Senses

“When you start using senses you’ve neglected, your reward is to see the world [and your marriage] with completely fresh eyes.” —Barbara Sher Your marriages may be experiencing some struggles due to the fact that you are loving each other with only one or two of the 5 senses you have. You may have fallen into what’s comfortable for you in […]

7 Things We Wish We Knew Before Getting Married

Hindsight is always 20/20. Foresight is a bit less than that. Oh, let’s say, 20/400. Often times, looking forward into the unknown with less than clear vision, can put us on a collision course with things we could have otherwise avoided. The problem with bad vision is there is so much it affects. You may […]

339 – Sex Before Marriage

Never judge someone on their past because they are no longer in that stage of life. Sex before marriage can be a roadblock to deep sexual intimacy. If you had sex before marriage you may have feelings of guilt, shame, and resentment. On the other side your spouse may have had sex before marriage with other […]

5 Signs Your Marriage Is Headed For A Divorce

Divorces cost more than money. You can’t put a price on the pain that “split holidays” with kids causes, how it feels to move out of your home, or watching your spouse date new people. There are many “silent” costs of divorce that you’ll have to pay if you resolve your marriage. Please consider these, […]