In marriage there come times when our words wound the one we love the most.


Many times we don’t realize the lasting effects these words have on our spouse, but in many cases they do.

Days, months, and even years later the messages are being played over and over like a broken record.

It’s difficult to have true intimacy when these messages are continuously filling our head.

Stripping away all the layers so that we can get to the root of the problem is necessary for each of us to have the intimacy we desire.

The negative messages, verbal & non-verbal, need to stop so that we can clean out the garbage in our minds and start moving forward in our intimacy together.

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Remember back to your wedding day. We’re not talking about just the ceremony and reception. We want you to remember how you felt. Your marriage was going to last forever. You were sure of that. And then…reality set in. You think you can deal with it, and maybe you can – for a while. You still love your spouse, but it’s just not the same. Is it just a part of life? Do you let that fire die into just a smoldering pile of ashes? You don’t have to!

Grab Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage today!

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2 thoughts on “078: WHAT DID YOU SAY?

  1. Great podcast this week! And HAPPY BIRTHDAY Alisa! I’m not married (Alisa-I had emailed you a while back and I think you know my background), but I’m still trying to learn from married christian couples. I don’t have a lot role models to look up to but I feel like you 2 are filling that role even via a podcast. You’ve reminded me that my future husband will marry me because he loves me and thinks I’m beautiful and wants to be intimate with only me. He wants to see me naked because of those very reasons! I need to work on getting over my insecurities now so that I can bless my husband, our marriage, myself and GOD with my body. Easier said than done, but getting in the right mind set now will help. Hope yall have a great week!

  2. Julie,

    Thank you for the birthday wishes and for your comments. It is very humbling to read that we are role models. We work every day on our marriage and as you know some days are better than others. Keep focusing on creating that extraordinary relationship and you will see amazing results.