Make your bedroom a space where you can unwind and connect sexually with your spouse.

11 Must Have Items You Need In Your Bedroom

If your bedroom is similar to ours, there are times when it can get overrun with laundry (dirty and clean), household items, piles of “stuff,” and other things.

All of this can take away from you and your spouse relaxing and connecting sexually.

We’ve been there ourselves.

Over the years, we have come up with a list of must-have items that you should consider trying with your spouse.

At some point in time over the last 25+ years, we have tried each of these must-have items. Some we are using right now; others we’ve used in the past for a season. And there are some we’ll most likely pull out again.

Right now, your bedroom might not be what you expected when you got married. No worries! You can make a change.

11 Must Have Items You Need In Your Bedroom

It’s time to pick one or more of these must-have items so you can add some excitement and adventure to your bedroom.

1. Sound + Sleep Machine

A white noise machine is a game changer. Whether you want to block out noises from beyond the bedroom or cover up sounds of your own, this machine provides privacy and limits distractions. It can also help the two of you experience better sleep with fewer interruptions. As a result, you can both feel more rested and be your best selves for each other.

2. Himalayan Salt Lamp

Salt lamps can instantly set the mood. With a warm orange glow and adjustable brightness, this lamp can help you and your spouse get in the mood and initiate sexual intimacy with the flip of a switch.

3. Überlube Luxury Lubricant

Überlube is a high-end luxury lubricant that transfers sensation while reducing friction. It feels amazingly silky and performs as long as you’re using it. Plus, a little will go a long way. This is our favorite lube—and it’s a favorite among many other couples in the ONE Family for a good reason.

4. Bedroom Adventure Bundle

Enhance your sex life by incorporating fun and easy-to-use toys. The Bedroom Adventure Bundle includes four Screaming O products, heart-shaped tea light candles, and more. Keep all your toys, lubes, and other accessories organized in the Zappa Toy Bag.

5. Essential Oil Diffuser

One must have item for a relaxing and inviting bedroom is an essential oil diffuser. Additionally, when you choose a specific oil for intimate moments with your spouse, that scent will remind you of them each time you smell it.

6. Silky Soft Luxurious Bed Sheet Set

You spend a lot of time in your bed, both sleeping and… not sleeping! So make it enjoyable. Investing in a good set of sheets is a must, and you don’t have to spend a fortune on it.

7. Sexy Games

Need some inspiration for sexual intimacy? Get your hands on a sexy game. From sex dice to Tic-Tac-To the Bedroom, you can enhance your time together without having to come up with new ideas all by yourselves.

8. Fractionated Coconut Oil Lubricant

Coconut oil has plenty of uses, which makes it a must-have item for your bedroom. First, you can use it to massage your spouse and explore physical intimacy. Second, you can incorporate it as a sexual lubricant. And best of all, it won’t stain your sheets or leave an odor.

9. 7 Days of Sex Challenge

This book provides a fun game-plan for busy couples like you to reboot your intimacy.  It eliminates the stress of figuring out what you need to do for 7 days that will be new and creative to try. While you may try it to jump-start your sex life, you’ll enjoy it for the deeper connection it will foster.

10. Portable Electric Space Heater 

To create the optimal conditions for exploring your physical and sexual intimacy with your spouse, you’ll need control over the temperature. During the cold winter months, consider setting up a tower space heater by your bed to help keep you warm. 

11. Liberator Sex Furniture 

Finally, a sex wedge or pillow is a bedroom must-have. Liberator creates high-quality, functional furniture for intimate positions. There’s something for everyone, such as the Flip Ramp and Wedge Ramp Combo.


11 Must Have Items You Need In Your Bedroom

Which Must Have Items Will You Add to Your Bedroom?

As you go through these make sure that you grab your spouse and talk about which one or two would be the best match for both of you.

Whatever you choose make sure to use them.

You don’t want these sitting in a pile in the corner of your bedroom…

…you picked these up to be able to enhance your bedroom as you relax and bring pleasure to each other.

Use them! Most of all have fun together.

Note: We advise that you only use these items with your spouse. These are for both of you to enhance and explore your sexual intimacy together.

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