Make your bedroom a space where you can unwind and connect sexually with your spouse.

11 Must Have Items You Need In Your Bedroom New

If your bedroom is similar to ours there are times when it can get overrun with laundry (dirty and clean), household items, piles of “stuff”, and other things.

All of this can take you away from relaxing and connecting sexually.

We’ve been there ourselves.

Over the years we have come up with a list of must have items that you should consider trying with your spouse.

At some point in time over the last 18 years we have tried each of these must have items. Some we are using right now, others we’ve used in the past for a season and there are some we’ll most likely pull out again.

Right now, your bedroom might not be what you expected when you got married.

No worries, you can make a change.

This is the time to pick one or two of these must have items so you can add some excitement to your bedroom.

11 Must Have Items You Need In Your Bedroom

  1. Sensation Massage Oil
  2. Sound + Sleep Machine
  3. Scalp Massager
  4. Silky Soft Luxurious Bed Sheet Set
  5. Natural Air Purifying Himalayan Salt Lamp
  6. Aromatherapy Essential Oils
  7. Micro Fleece Plush Blanket
  8. SureSlide Dimmer Switch
  9. 7 Days of Sex Challenge
  10. Ultra Touch Finger Vibrator
  11. Fractionated Coconut Oil Lubricant

11 Must Have Items For Your Bedroom

As you go through these make sure that you grab your spouse and talk about which one or two would be the best match for both of you.

Whatever you choose make sure to use them.

You don’t want these sitting in a pile in the corner of your bedroom…

…you picked these up to be able to enhance your bedroom as you relax and bring pleasure to each other.

Use them! Most of all have fun together.

Note: We advise that you only use these items with your spouse. These are for both of you to enhance and explore your sexual intimacy together.

For more items that you can use inside and outside your bedroom check out our Amazon Shop today!

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  1. In your podcast you mentioned that you have “rules” so to speak – so that you can be intimate anytime and not have to feel the pressure that it will lead to sex. The ability to freely hug, kiss, and be romantic without the necessity that one person goes straight towards “oohh, we’re having sex.” I totally relate to the feeling that I can’t even touch my husband never mind kiss him because I am afraid that it can’t just be “that” – it implies something more. Of course that oversimplifies things, but I would love to know if you have an article or video or podcast that gets more specific about how to set those guidelines so that we can be more freely intimate and romantic. I know it interferes with our closeness. Thanks.

  2. Can I suggest another item? The Liberator Wedge and Ramp. These are pillows for sex that are awesome!
    I got them last year and it’s been incredible for improving intercourse. It’s amazing the difference 7 degrees makes! I buy them for friends as anniversary presents.

  3. It doesn’t look like Good Clean Love makes the “Good Clean Love Body Candy” any longer and it’s no longer available on Amazon. Have you tried the Organic Coconut Pleasure Balm: Tropical and if so what did you think?

    • Hey Pete,

      Thanks for bring this to our attention. That’s a bummer because that is some good stuff. We’ve haven’t used the coconut pleasure balm, but for those who like coconut that sure does look like a treat.

      Love you guys.