As newlywed couples, you may be wondering “what’s next”. After the excitement of your engagement, wedding, and honeymoon, it’s important to keep that excitement going!

Over the years we have heard from so many newlywed couples who are ready to connect sexually and yet they’re not sure what to do. Make sure to grab 19 Questions to Amazing Sex to start the conversation.

After you’ve answered a few of the questions it’s now time to jump in and try something new. Please note that learning new ways to pleasure each other sexually takes some time. Some ways you’ll love and others you won’t.

It’s OK. We’ve been there ourselves.

Here’s the thing… you have to get started! You have to step out and build your physical and sexual intimacy from the start of your marriage.

By building a strong base of physical and sexual intimacy early on, you’ll not only communicate better but also feel stronger as a couple. Here are a few ways that you can get started today. 

The Liberator Flip Ramp

liberator flip ramp

The Liberator Flip Ramp is a supportive, rocking pedestal for your partner, It’s perfect for providing support for more and different sex positions. Best of all it can be camouflaged as a stylish ottoman or seat that blends seamlessly into your bedroom decor.



The high-end luxury lubricant, Überlube is designed to transfer sensation while reducing friction. Überlube is silky and performs as long as you’re using it. When Überlube stops being manipulated, it starts to dissipate, leaving skin soft and moisturized. 

Sound+Sleep Machine

sound+sleep machine

Sound+Sleep Machine This Adaptive Sound system listens to your environment and provides 30 rich and immersive non-repeating sound environments for better sleep, relaxation, and sound masking

Adult Sex Dice

sex dice

Adult Sex Dice This set of Adult Sex Dice Set also comes with a 36-Position Instructional Booklet. These entertaining dices offer endless possibilities. Take your love life to a whole new level.

Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoris Stimulator

Satisfyer Pro 2

Add a little bit of pizzaz to your routine! The Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoris Stimulator non-contact pressure-wave technology provides feelings of suction and pulsations, similar to the sensations you feel during oral sex. It’s easy to use and a great “toy” for first-timers. 

Screaming O RingO X3

screaming O ring O

The Screaming O RingO X3 helps create firmer and harder erections with more intense sexual satisfaction. 

The Vagina Bible

vagina bible

If you want to learn more about “how things work” OB/GYN, Dr. Jen Gunter delivers the definitive book on vaginal health called The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina: Separating the Myth from the Medicine. She answers the questions you’ve always had but have been afraid to ask—or couldn’t find the right answers to.

Zappa Toy Bag

sex toy bag

The Zappa Toy Bag is the bag to hold all of your toys, lubes, and other accessories without having to worry about prying eyes or spills. Easy to clean and use and perfect for placing in your nightstand. 

Himalayan Salt Lamp

Himalayan Salt Lamp

This Himalayan Salt Lamp is a Levoit kana Himalayan salt rock and is hand made. It will help create ambiance through its amber glow and provide a calming atmosphere to help create a sense of peace and relaxation.

Position Pack

sex positions

10 of the best sex positions from beginner to advanced. Each will encourage you and your spouse to try something beyond the missionary position. The Position Pack is a must-have for all newlywed couples. 

She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

she comes first

In the world of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword!

Are you ready to bring some excitement to your bedroom? Start with two to four of these items to bring excitement to your bedroom. Over time you can then add to your collection.

In no time, you’ll have your physical and sexual intimacy in sync and flourishing as a couple!

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