As a couple, you may wondering “what’s next” when it comes to your sexual intimacy. You’ve had times of excitement and then they fade away and yet, it’s important to bring excitement into your bedroom!

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Over the years, we have heard from so many couples who are ready to connect sexually and yet they’re not sure what to do. Foremost, grab 19 Questions to Amazing Sex to start the conversation. Strengthening your emotional intimacy will do wonders for your sexual intimacy.

After you’ve answered a few of the questions, it’s now time to jump in and try something new. Please note that learning new ways to pleasure each other sexually takes some time. Some ways you’ll love and others you won’t.

It’s OK. We’ve been there ourselves.

Here’s the thing… you have to get started! Step out and build your sexual intimacy at different times and seasons of your marriage.

By building a firm base around your emotional and sexual intimacy throughout your marriage, you’ll not only communicate better, but also feel closer as a couple. Here are a few ways that you can strengthen your sexual intimacy inside and outside the bedroom starting today.

The Liberator Flip Ramp

liberator flip ramp

The Liberator Flip Ramp is a supportive, rocking pedestal for your partner, It’s perfect for providing support for more and different sex positions. Best of all it can be camouflaged as a stylish ottoman or seat that blends seamlessly into your bedroom décor.



The high-end luxury lubricant, Überlube is designed to transfer sensation while reducing friction. Überlube is silky and performs as long as you’re using it. When Überlube stops being manipulated, it starts to dissipate, leaving skin soft and moisturized. 

Sound+Sleep Machine

sound+sleep machine

Sound+Sleep Machine This Adaptive Sound system listens to your environment and provides 30 rich and immersive non-repeating sound environments for better sleep, relaxation, and sound masking

Adult Sex Dice

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Adult Sex Dice This set of Adult Sex Dice Set also comes with a 36-Position Instructional Booklet. These entertaining dices offer endless possibilities. Take your love life to a whole new level.

Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoris Stimulator

Satisfyer Pro 2

Add a little bit of pizzazz to your routine! The Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoris Stimulator non-contact pressure-wave technology provides feelings of suction and pulsations, similar to the sensations you feel during oral sex. It’s easy to use and a great “toy” for first-timers. 

Bedroom Adventure Bundle

Turn on the fun with the Bedroom Adventure Bundle! All of your Bedroom Adventure items can be housed in the Zappa Toy Bag. This bag can hold all of your toys, lubes and other accessories without having to worry about prying eyes or spills.

The Vagina Bible

vagina bible

If you want to learn more about “how things work” OB/GYN, Dr. Jen Gunter delivers the definitive book on vaginal health called The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina: Separating the Myth from the Medicine. She answers the questions you’ve always had but have been afraid to ask—or couldn’t find the right answers to.

Zappa Toy Bag

sex toy bag

The Zappa Toy Bag is the bag to hold all of your toys, lubes, and other accessories without having to worry about prying eyes or spills. Easy to clean and use and perfect for placing in your nightstand. 

Himalayan Salt Lamp

Himalayan Salt Lamp

This Himalayan Salt Lamp is a Levoit Kyra Himalayan salt rock and is hand made. It will help create ambiance through its amber glow and provide a calming atmosphere to help create a sense of peace and relaxation.

Position Pack

sex positions

10 of the best sex positions from beginner to advanced. Each will encourage you and your spouse to try something beyond the missionary position. The Position Pack is a must-have for all newlywed couples. 

The Penis Book: A Doctor’s Complete Guide

An unflinching, comprehensive guide to everything from sexually transmitted infections to the science of blood flow, The Penis Book prominently features an easy-to-follow holistic five-step plan for optimum penis health, including plant-based eating recommendations, information on some penis-healthy foods, and suggested exercises for penis wellbeing.

Are you ready to bring some excitement to your bedroom? Start with two to four of these items to bring excitement to your bedroom. Over time you can then add to your collection.

In no time, you’ll have your emotional and sexual intimacy in sync and flourishing as a couple!

Watch the video below to rekindle the spark and restore the connection in your marriage today!

In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.

Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!

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