13 Ideas For Spicier Foreplay

Looking for some sexy new ideas for foreplay? We’ve got you covered!

Sexploration is an important part of your Sexual Intimacy Pillar. As you try new things together, you and your spouse can learn more about each other, explore your desires, and build deeper connection.

Remember, foreplay is a key element of sexual intimacy, which also includes romance, initiation, and intercourse. However, many couples forget the value of foreplay in the lead-up to sex.

With these 13 sexy ideas for foreplay, you can take time to focus on each other before jumping straight into the act.

You and your spouse should both feel pursued and desired. Passionate, seductive foreplay allows your minds and bodies to prepare for mind-blowing sex. So don’t rush it!

13 Sexy Ideas for Foreplay

If your foreplay has grown a bit tiresome (or worse, you completely skip it), these 13 exciting ideas for foreplay are for you:

1. Blindfolded Foreplay: Take turns blindfolding each other. Then, explore each other’s bodies and try different touches and kisses. Being blindfolded can heighten your other senses, making each moment feel exhilarating.
2. Sensual Desserts: Feed each delicious fruits or treats, such as chocolate-covered strawberries, cake pops, or whipped cream. As you do, look deep into each other’s eyes for extra connection.
3. Be a Tease: Tease each other with light touches and kisses on sensitive areas, letting the tension build up before you jump to intercourse.
4. New Toys: Introduce sex toys into your foreplay. You can pick them out together or buy some as a surprise for your spouse (as long as you’ve communicated about it first!).
5. Get a Fresh Perspective: Sex furniture positions your bodies in new, thrilling ways. Get a cushion or ramp so that you can elevate your regular foreplay routine with new angles and sensations.
6. Strip Tease: Perform a slow strip tease for your spouse, letting the anticipation build with each article of clothing you remove. Alternatively, you can undress each other slowly.
7. Set a Sexy Mood: Looking for an easy way to enhance your foreplay? A great place to start is with your bedroom atmosphere. Before initiating sex, dim the lights, turn on some sultry music, or light some scented candles.
8. Intimate Massages: Use massage cream that melts into warm, silky oil that can be used in all your sensitive areas. Give each other slow, sensual massages, focusing on erogenous zones.
9. Hot and Cold Play: Alternate between using ice cubes and warm breath to stimulate each other’s skin.
10. Sexy Photoshoot: Take intimate photos of each other to build excitement and connection. You can use your phone (just make sure the photos are stored in a secure folder) or use an instant Polaroid camera.
11. Play a Kissing Game: Enjoy some playful kissing by turning it into a game. For example, you could use some sexy dice to determine where you will kiss. Or challenge yourselves to make out for a certain amount of time before touching anywhere else.
12. Get a Hotel Room: Sometimes, it’s easier to try new things outside of your usual environment. Book a hotel room for one night where you plan to explore each other’s bodies and explore sexual intimacy together, such as steamy shower foreplay or gentle caresses in a luxurious bath.
13. Create a Masterpiece: Pick up a LOVE IS ART kit so that you can create a one-of-a-kind abstract painting while being intimate with one another during foreplay (and intercourse!).

The Passion You Crave Is Possible

Reigniting passion doesn’t have to feel complicated or out of reach. Whether you want to bring more spark to your daily life or turn up the heat in the bedroom, you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Intimacy Mastery members get exclusive guides and podcast episodes to deepen connection and confidence in your sexual intimacy. Explore resources like “Daily Sexual Intimacy Boosters That Work” and “The Getaway Guide to Great Vacation Sex,” and more—plus episodes answering your real questions about desire and connection.

Intimacy Mastery members get exclusive guides and podcast episodes designed to deepen connection and confidence in your sexual intimacy. Discover guides like “Daily Sexual Intimacy Boosters That Work” and “The Getaway Guide to Great Vacation Sex,” plus exclusive podcast episodes answering YOUR sexual intimacy questions.

These resources and more are waiting for you in Intimacy Mastery to help you build the connection you’ve been craving.

Ready to reignite your passion and rediscover each other? Join Intimacy Mastery today.

Reigniting passion doesn’t have to be complicated—or out of reach. Whether you want to bring more spark to daily life or turn up the heat in the bedroom, you don’t have to do it alone.

Intimacy Mastery members get exclusive guides and podcast episodes to deepen connection and confidence in your sexual intimacy. Explore “Daily Sexual Intimacy Boosters That Work,” “The Getaway Guide to Great Vacation Sex,” and more—plus episodes answering your real questions about desire and connection.

Your next level of passion is waiting.
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