Elevate your Valentine’s Day experience this year with 14 creative date ideas!


Your Valentine’s Day date plans should be as unique as your relationship. Some years, Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to go all-out with your spouse on an extravagant date. Other years, you might need to keep things simple. 

These 14 Valentine’s Day date ideas can be modified to fit any budget, location, and preference. 

Remember, Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to celebrate your love and marriage. It’s a great chance to create new memories and build your 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

14 Valentine’s Day Date Ideas to Romance Your Spouse

Whether you go out or stay home this Valentine’s Day, check out the creative ideas below and find one you can make happen! 

1. Go to a Tasting

Do you both like chocolate? Are you wine lovers? Have a craving for street tacos? 

Doing a tasting with your spouse can be a fun experience for Valentine’s Day. You can easily plan this date idea to do at home, or you can attend a tasting event somewhere in your town. 

Look up local coffee shops that do a coffee flight, go to a mixologist to try different mocktails, or purchase a chocolate-tasting kit. In fact, check with your favorite restaurant to see if they offer any tasting menus! 

All of these options provide a fun experience for you and your spouse to try new food to drink in a special way. 

2. Escape Room

Want to test your communication skills this Valentine’s Day? Then this date idea is for you! 

With an escape room, the two of you can practice your problem-solving skills. Better yet, the activity will give you something to talk about for days to come as you recall the challenge. 

The rush of racing against the clock and the satisfaction of completing the challenge can make for a very memorable date. Plus, it’s a creative way to break away from the standard “dinner and a movie” date night and enjoy working together as a team in a new and exciting way. 

3. Have a Sexy Craft Night

Turn your lovemaking into art with the Love is Art Romantic Canvas & Paint Kit. With this kit, you can create a one-of-a-kind abstract painting while being intimate with one another.

Your canvas can be stretched, framed, and hung on the wall as a lasting reminder of your shared love and passion. 

4. Take Unique Photos 

This Valentine’s Day, capture your love in a meaningful way through photos. 

Get your photo taken using a unique method such as tintype. Alternatively, you could get a drawing of the two of you in a silhouette or caricature style. This date idea creates a special memory of these unique photo processes while also giving you a one-of-a-kind piece to take home.

For the more traditional route, book a local photographer to take pictures of the two of you together. You could take photos at your favorite spot in town, at home, or in nature. 

5. Spend the Night at a Hotel

Next in line for creative Valentine’s Day date ideas is a mini overnight getaway! 

An overnight getaway helps you reconnect with your spouse without distractions. For example, you can get a break from household chores and spend some time away from the kids. 

Additionally, a new space can spark sexual intimacy. For instance, as you look for unique hotels or vacation rentals, search for a place with a beautiful tub or shower for bathing together. Or perhaps you’ve been wanting to try sex on a balcony. A night away can provide new opportunities for sexual intimacy that aren’t possible at home. 

Disclaimer: Please obey all local laws in your area. We understand that laws vary from city to city and state to state. We do not condone any activities that would be considered illegal.

6. Enjoy a Themed Dinner 

This year, revamp your typical dinner date by trying a themed dinner. 

You can easily do this Valentine’s Day date idea at home. For example, make breakfast for dinner, recreate your favorite childhood meal, or do a DIY pizza night. You can even go all-out with decorations! 

If you’d like to head out of the house for a meal, get creative with a retro diner, an authentic German restaurant, or a board game cafe. 

Bonus Tip: Search for “unique restaurants near me” to get some ideas! 

7. Visit a Museum or Immersive Art Exhibit

Whether the two of you are art enthusiasts or simply looking to broaden your horizons, a museum is a great Valentine’s Day date idea. Immersive art experiences have also become popular in recent years! 

Spend some romantic quality time together, wandering hand-in-hand through a gallery. The museum atmosphere can lead to interesting conversations and new opportunities to connect on a creative and intellectual level.

For couples who want to add an element of competition to this date, turn your visit into a scavenger hunt! Challenge each other to find the most romantic piece of art, count how many loving embraces you spot in the pieces, or look for a painting that reminds you of your relationship. 

8. Spa Day

Are you looking for a relaxing Valentine’s Day date idea? A spa day is an excellent choice. 

For the ultimate relaxing date, schedule a couples massage or visit a spa with a steam room, hot tub, and lounge. 

You can also easily recreate the spa atmosphere at your home. Draw a bath with salts or bubbles. Light some candles and dim or turn off the lights. Then, you and your spouse can focus on each other without the distraction of phones and other devices. 

Bonus Tip: If you opt for an at-home spa experience, clean your bathroom at least one day in advance. That way, you can fully enjoy your Valentine’s Day date without worrying about tidying up. 

9. Bookstore and Coffee

If you’re looking for sweet and subtle date ideas this Valentine’s Day, this one is for you! 

Find a local bookstore and spend some time looking at books. You can peruse the shelves with coffee in hand or head to a coffee shop afterward. 

If you both like to read, set a budget for each of you to pick out some new books. You could surprise each other with new books, pick out your own, or find a book you can read together. 

If the bookstore or cafe you choose has comfortable seating, spend some time after your date reading or discussing your new books. 

10. Recreate Your First Date

What better way to celebrate Valentine’s Day than recreating your first romantic date? This year, take a walk down memory lane

If you live in the same town as your first date, head back to the exact landmarks. If you’re in a different location, capture the atmosphere of your first date to the best of your ability. It doesn’t have to be perfect! This Valentine’s Day date idea is all about remembering where you’ve been as a couple and cherishing those memories. 

11. Have an Outdoor Adventure

February can be a chilly month in some regions. But if you have nice weather this Valentine’s Day, enjoy some time together outside! 

If you like being active together, you can hike a new trail or enjoy a bike ride around town. If you simply want to enjoy nature, have a picnic together at your favorite spot or go for a walk in a nearby park. 

For couples who love the outdoors, this is one of the best budget-friendly Valentine’s Day date ideas! 

Bonus Tip: Check the weather report a few days before Valentine’s Day. If the weather looks nice, plan an outdoor adventure!

12. Go Dancing

Whether you love to dance or want to learn, Valentine’s Day is a great excuse to get out on the dance floor with your spouse. You can attend a dance class (many places will offer a free class before an event), visit a local dance hall for line dancing, or enjoy live music and dancing at a local venue. 

Dancing with your spouse is a fun way to try something new and enjoy a different form of physical and recreational intimacy. Plus, you can probably get some great photos while you’re there to remember the date! 

13. Attend an Art Class

This Valentine’s Day, head to an art studio to create something heartfelt. Many studios offer painting classes for couples where you each paint half of a canvas that comes together to form a full painting.

You can also do this activity at home by purchasing a DIY couples painting kit. For example, there are kits with romantic beach scenes or colorful nature scenes

At the end of this date, you’ll have created something special to hang in your home. And each time you look at your art, you can remember the quality time and connection you experienced while making it. 

Bonus Tip: Don’t have any wall space to hang a painting? Consider going to a pottery class instead! The two of you can paint mugs, plates, or other items to place around your home. The outcome can be both beautiful and useable! 

14. Date Night Challenge

Have you seen the popular “Date Night Challenge” videos on social media? This particular date activity challenges you and your spouse to pick out items for each other. Essentially, you head to a store with your spouse, split up, and purchase special things for your spouse from various categories, such as: 

  • Favorite snack
  • Favorite drink
  • A game to play together
  • Something in their favorite color
  • Something that reminds you of them

You can add a time limit or budget for the challenge. Then, enjoy the reveal once you get home! At the end of the Date Night Challenge, you should have a variety of snacks, drinks, and activities to enjoy together. 

Take Your Pick!

When choosing from these Valentine’s Day date ideas, the most important element is intentionality. A great date doesn’t just happen. You have to put some time and effort into planning it. 

You can use this holiday to strengthen your marriage, whether you go all-out or keep the date modest. Depending on the date idea you choose, you can modify it to fit your budget or take the DIY approach. 

However you spend this Valentine’s Day, make your date one to remember. 

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