170: WHAT’S WRONG WITH MY MARRIAGE…I AM

There are times in your marriage when everything seems to not be going as you planned.

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It’s easy to point the finger at your spouse for all that is happening and yet the issues may be with YOU.

Yes, you may be what’s wrong with your marriage.

Most times it is easier to lay the blame on your spouse. Why do you have to go through all the work to change yourself when your spouse can do it.

This week Tony & Alisa share times in their marriage when one of them was the problem in their marriage. They share how they have looked at their issues and how they have been able to overcome them.

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6 thoughts on “170: WHAT’S WRONG WITH MY MARRIAGE…I AM

  1. As soon as I saw the title of this one, I’m like Hmmm. Must share with my wife. Not even half way through, im like… This is what I’ve always done . Trying to improve my wife rather myself. I’ve decided that I’m not going to tell my wife anything about this and start looking at myself and start changing myself. Perhaps that’s the change over wanted in so many years. Yeah. If she notices stone good stuff in me and also me, I’ll let her know. But not by myself. Great podcast guys. Keep them coming. Keep saving marriages. You are doing God’s work. God bless all souls.

  2. Hello, again.

    I’m listening to this podcast, and I am surprised to find I’m *there*. 🙂

    You mention the wedges that I purchased. This is the set that we purchased, and are still using: http://www.relaxtheback.com/sleep/bed-wedges/contoursleep-bed-wedge-system.html

    You can see that there are more that Relax the Back provide, but the system works great for us.

    Just to give you an update, we are having more limitation in what we are able to do because my wife is now experiencing arthritic pain in her shoulder, which means that a position that is very intimate for us, is now not possible, as it causes shooting pain down her arms. But we still work to have intimacy, work to find ways that we can love each other.

    Keep doing good work, as we are still out here, listening.

    In Christ,
    Chuck

    • Hey Chuck,

      You are always with us when we come across folks who are experiencing physical ailments in their marriage.

      Thank you for sharing what you have been using. It’s a great system that many couples need to know about so that they can experience the closeness they desire during sex.

      It’s inspiring to know that even though new limitations have presented themselves the two of you are continuing to find new positions that will work.

      Keep it up.

      We love you guys.

  3. Its early so I dont know if my husband is going to listen on his own but, due to recent issues that have come to light, I have simply asked him if he would listen with me to one podcast once a week on date night- before we do anything else. He has agreed and it has opened up some great dialogue for us. For those who had questions about how to get their husbands to listen. I guess for me I am blessed bc he loves me and is a warrior for our marriage. We are overcoming some major issues in our marriage and it is such a blessing to know we are not alone. Thanks for being so transparent. I am really excited to see our marriage transforming, even through pain and discomfort, I know we will be in a better place soon. You are apart of that. God Bless you friends.

    • I had started about a couple weeks ago listening to the podcasts trying to figure out how to bring my husband and I closer, improve our marriage. Its early so I dont know if my husband is going to listen on his own but, I have simply asked him if he would listen with me to one podcast once a week on date night- before we do anything else. He has agreed and it has opened up some great dialogue for us. For those who had questions about how to get their husbands to listen. I guess for me I am blessed bc he loves me and is a warrior for our marriage. We are overcoming some major issues in our marriage and it is such a blessing to know we are not alone. Thanks for being so transparent. I am really excited to see our marriage transforming, even through pain and discomfort, I know we will be in a better place soon. You are apart of that. God Bless you friends.