So often you find yourself in making advances on your spouse with the sole purpose to have sex.


You’re touching your spouse for one thing only and it’s not appreciated.

What transpires is either you getting accepted after numerous advances or you get rejected.

Either way you feel as if your spouse really isn’t interested in having sex with you.

What if you focused on building a connection without the expectation of having sex? Building this connection for the sake of being close to your spouse will lead to much more.

This week Tony & Alisa share how you can connect with non-sexual touches so you can have the sexual intimacy you desire. They outline what you should be doing to connect and those special touches that will enhance your marriage.

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2 thoughts on “176: HOLD MY HAND

  1. Hey guys, great podcast.

    I just wanted to share with you something that my wife and I have found very powerful. I guess it would be what you could call intimate touch.

    While cuddling we often find that we will touch/hold each other in an intimate way that is not meant to lead to sex. Example she may lay her head on my belly and hold my penis in her hand while watching TV, or I will cup her breast while we fall asleep. Of course it helps if you don’t wear anything to bed!

    Anyway- GREAT podcast, keep up the good work!

    God Bless you for all you do!