219: I LOVE YOU, BUT I’M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU

There are nine words, when said in your marriage, that are a sucker punch to the stomach: “I Love You, But I’m Not In Love With You.”

I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You

These words convey that you or your spouse are no longer willing to put forth any effort into your relationship.

“In love” is really about the idea of being in love with the ideal spouse. However, loving your spouse is on a whole other level. It’s knowing what they look like when they don’t have any makeup on or when they have had a rough day at work. It’s honoring the vows that you took when things were good and also when times are challenging.

This week, Tony and Alisa share what you can do so this painful phrase is not uttered in your marriage. If it has already been said, don’t worry. They have been there too.

If you need help in a specific area, please consider these resources:

I Love You But I’m Not In Love With You Masterclass

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