You are uniquely made as there is no one else on this earth that is like you.


Even though this is true, you have a personality type that can be learned to better understand yourself and your spouse.

The Ennegram with it’s nine personality types is a tool that should be used by you so that you can grow in your life and marriage.

In this week’s show Tony and Alisa talk about how personality types impact perception when it comes to the high desire spouse and low desire spouse.

Wisdom of the Ennegram: The Complete Guide to Psychological and Spiritual Growth for the Nine Personality Types

Understand Yourself, Understand Your Partner: The Essential Ennegram Guide to a Better Relationship

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  1. Hello! I have just started listening to your podcast and I really love what you guys are doing. This podcast was especially interesting because I just finished a course at my church called “Wise Counsel”. It’s a course designed to find out about yourself, God and how we can help others by becoming a Lay Counselor in our church (about 3000 in membership). A large part of our study was on the Enneagram. Very fascinating! One of the lead Counselors in our church said that by her second counseling session with a couple she has them take this personality test. Many times the couple has come back to say how this changed their marriage and they no longer need the counseling. They have a better understanding of their spouse. Another book that I would recommend is called “The Enneagram Made Easy” by Baron and Wagele. This made the test very easy to understand. Keep up the good work guys!