Your to-do list is a mile long as the holidays approach and the end of the year is right around the corner.
You have meetings, parties, shopping, last minute errands, end of the year projects, travel, kids out of school, and much more that needs to get done.
There is so much to do and as a result, your sexual intimacy gets pushed aside for this “season”.
To another day, another week, or maybe you’ll wait until next year.
Yes, you’ll celebrate New Year’s together.
Hugging, kissing and then starting the new year cuddled together under the sheets. Right?
Hopefully, but not always, especially if you have put your marriage and your sexual intimacy on the back burner.
Take these 3 creative ways to squeeze in sex no matter where you are to celebrate your holidays.
Take Some Time For An Afternoon Getaway
After all the presents have been opened and the family has enjoyed their Christmas meal scoot out of the house for a bit.
A tradition for us is to go for a walk after the Christmas meal with the family.
Then it’s off for a quick drive to where we are staying to enjoy one another.
Once there it’s on to the second suggestion…
Make Things Happen With The Quickie
During the holidays you may not have the time that you usually have when making love.
Embrace the quickie to enjoy one another as you release the sexual tension from those romantic text messages you’ve sending one another throughout the day.
Make this easy on both of you by wearing clothes that are easy to work around.
Men, wear loose fitting pants or shorts and boxers. Better yet go commando for the ultimate quick access.
Ladies, wearing a dress or a skirt is the easiest way for you and your husband to steal away for a quickie.
Hot Running Water Decreases Your Stress While Improving Circulation
Yep, it’s time for the two of you to jump in the shower for some alone time.
In addition to relaxing you and increasing circulation, guys this is a plus, the noise of a shower will drown out your sex time.
Whenever you are planning on having sex in the shower it helps to have some verbal foreplay to get ready.
Make sure to build up the sexual desire in both of you before taking off your clothes for a hot water experience.
When you are intentional about your marriage and sex during the holidays the smiley faces 🙂 come out as you experience something fun together.
This holiday season take some time to connect sexually in a way you haven’t done in the past.