3 Deep Penetration Sex Positions to Try This Week

Ready to try something new and exciting in the bedroom? These three sex positions can help you connect with more passion and deep penetration.

But before we dive into the specifics, let’s address something important: Great sexual intimacy isn’t just about new positions. It’s about connecting more deeply, building anticipation, and exploring new things together.

Your preferences change as you grow together. Unless you’re willing to try new things, you might miss out on amazing new methods of connection, especially in your sex life. Every couple is different, so explore what works specifically for the two of you.

If your spouse seems hesitant about trying something new, that’s okay. There are many ways to enhance your connection before exploring new positions:

• Set a romantic mood with lighting and music
• Try a high-end luxury lubricant or other fun elements
• Have sex at different times of day or in new locations
• Play sexy games that build excitement

Important rule: Only go as far as the most conservative spouse feels comfortable.

If you’re the nervous one, remember that it often takes time and practice to get comfortable with unfamiliar experiences. Don’t let initial hesitation hold you back from deeper sexual intimacy with your spouse.

Now, let’s explore three sex positions positions that many couples find create opportunities for deep penetration and renewed passion.

Sex Position #1: The Anvil

The Anvil is a variation of the classic Missionary position that allows for much deeper penetration and enhanced clitoral stimulation. You can easily transition into and out of this position during intercourse.

What the Wife Does:

• Lie on your back as you would in Missionary position
• Spread your legs and pull your knees toward your chest
• With your husband’s help, position your calves or ankles on his shoulders on either side of his neck
• Communicate immediately if the penetration becomes uncomfortable

What the Husband Does:

• Position yourself over your wife, supporting your weight on your hands rather than your elbows
• Help guide your wife’s legs to rest on your shoulders
• Use a gentle back-and-forth motion to stimulate her clitoris with your pubic bone
• Focus on this rubbing motion rather than just thrusting in and out
• Pay attention to her comfort level and adjust depth as needed

Key benefit: This position allows for simultaneous deep penetration and direct clitoral stimulation, creating multiple pleasure points for the wife.

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Sex Position #2: Leg Glider

The Leg Glider offers a side-by-side approach that many couples find comfortable while still allowing for deep penetration. This position requires some flexibility but can be modified based on your comfort levels.

What the Wife Does:

• Lie on your left side with your left leg, arm, and side against the bed
• Rest your right leg on top of your husband’s left leg
• Raise your right leg toward the ceiling (or bend it to the side if more comfortable)
• Use your right hand to steady yourself on the bed or rest it on your husband’s body
• Tell your husband if you feel any cramping in your legs

What the Husband Does:

• Position yourself so your wife’s right leg can rest comfortably on your left leg
• Be mindful not to put too much pressure on her raised leg
• If you’re larger, be especially careful about penetration depth
• Hold the base of her right leg or her right arm to help pull her toward you for deeper penetration

Key benefit: This position allows for intimate face-to-face connection while providing a different angle for penetration that many couples find pleasurable.

Sex Position #3: Banana Split

The Banana Split uses the edge of your bed and requires both of you to maintain balance, making it more of an adventurous experience. This position is excellent for couples who enjoy trying more creative approaches to their sexual encounters.

What the Wife Does:

• Sit on the edge of your bed with your legs spread apart
• Lean backward from your waist, placing your hands on the bed for support
• Keep your balance while your husband enters you
• Once comfortable, you can gently thrust against your husband’s movements

What the Husband Does:

• Stand facing your wife as she sits on the edge of the bed
• Enter slowly and gently to avoid knocking her off balance
• Begin with gentle thrusting motions
• Once you’re both comfortable, grasp her waist or thighs and help pull her toward you with each movement
• Be mindful not to put excessive strain on her back and arms

Key benefit: This position creates a completely different dynamic and visual experience while allowing for deep penetration and easy access for both of you.

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Making Deep Penetration Sex Positions Work for You

Remember, the goal isn’t perfection on your first try. These positions may feel awkward at first, and that’s completely normal. Focus on communication, patience, and finding what feels good for both of you.

Tips for success:

• Start slow to build up your confidence
• Talk about what feels good and what doesn’t
• Adjust the positions based on your body types and flexibility
• Embrace laughter and playfulness, especially if things don’t go according to plan

Go Beyond New Positions to Create a Stronger Marriage

New positions can make your marriage more exciting. But the best intimacy happens when you both feel close and connected in all areas of your marriage. These positions work amazing when you have strong trust, deep love, and real emotional closeness.

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