Over 12,075,840 minutes. It’s the total number of minutes we have been husband and wife.

3 Positive Decisions You Can Make Today

That’s a heck of a lot of time to make positive decisions.

Over these minutes and years, we have made choices and positive decisions that have affected us and our marriage for the better.

One of these came after we went through a low season in our marriage.

The other two were put into place so that we would experience the extraordinary marriage we desired.

We hope these three positive decisions we consciously make in our marriage can help yours… no matter how long you’ve been married.

1. Take Divorce Off the Table

After two incidences we decided to take the word divorce out of our vocabulary once and for all.

Now when issues arise, we know that neither of us is going anywhere. We’re going to work through them together, even if that means we seek help.

Feeling like you and your spouse are in danger of the “D word?” The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Black Box is the framework we built that saved our marriage twice, and will help you take divorce off the table for good.

2. Talk About Taboo Topics

Especially your sex life.

We would discuss sex in the moment while in bed and yet there is more to our sexual intimacy.

Sex is beautiful in the marriage bed, so we needed to talk about it before we even got to bed.

Now we ask and answer questions about our sex life outside the bedroom, which has enabled us to have the best sex in the bedroom in the 19 years of marriage.

Here are 19 questions you can ask to turn up the heat between your sheets right away.

3. Schedule Sex

Single-handedly scheduling sex has allowed us to experience the joy we both desire in our sexual intimacy.

No more rejection, begging, or wondering when we are going to have sex. It’s scheduled and we’re ready.

If you’re feeling like your partner is more like a roommate than a lover, you need to take the guesswork out of when you are going to get some.

Take this 7 day challenge.

Look over the list again and pick one or two that resonate with you.

How could putting these to work in your marriage today change your marriage this year? How about over the next 5-10 or 20 years?

The marriage you’ve been praying for can start today.

Watch the video below to rekindle the spark and restore the connection in your marriage today!

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