“Desire creates havoc between two people when it is the ONLY thing between them or when it’s what’s missing.” —Mignon McLaughlin


Have you ever experienced:

  • Lack of sexual desire
  • Low libido
  • No libido
  • A take it or leave it attitude
  • No expression of desire
  • No sexual connection.

A sexual connection with your spouse is a primary need. Unfortunately, a lack of sexual desire is impacting your marriage and the reasons for it are varied. It could be from:

  • Stress or anxiety
  • Health issues
  • Resentment
  • Rejection
  • Kids in the bedroom
  • Being over committed
  • Unresolved forgiveness.

Whatever the reason may be lack of sexual desire has always been addressed as “his problem” or “her problem” and yet how often do you stop to think that it’s really OUR problem.

When there is a lack of sexual desire in your marriage this creates a divide, it builds a wall, it separates the two of you. When this happens you can begin to have feelings of:

  • Anger
  • Loneliness
  • Doubt
  • Fear
  • Negativity
  • Resentment.

Instead of the two of you becoming more unified as a married couple a lack of sexual desire can have the two of you feeling more divided than ever. It can have you questioning your marriage and your role in it.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

In this week’s show Tony and Alisa talk about the impact that a lack of sexual desire has on you, your spouse and your marriage.

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Other Resources:

328 – The Intimacy Lifestyle

332 – Releasing Resentment

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  1. You missed a big one with me. I’m the high desire spouse and the issue is more that my wife thinks her low level is the norm and correct and, dare I say it, Christian. That I am somehow wrong or out of specification for being the way I am. There is no need to change because her level is right and I am sex obsessed. BTW, I would be thrilled with 2x a week.
    We’ve been married for 25+ years, I love my wife but have actually thought about divorce because of this.