“Being sensual in your marriage doesn’t end on the honeymoon, your marriage needs all 5 senses working throughout.” —Anonymous

Sensuality is one of those words that can be vague for many couples.

For the purpose of this show we are going to define sensual as being in the moment with all of your senses.


We will honestly say that we are not always “in the moment” with one another. In fact we have permission in our marriage to call each other out when we are not.

This happens when we are not in tune with each of our 5 senses. These are:

  • Hearing
  • Sight
  • Touch
  • Taste
  • Smell

Looking over this list you are probably thinking to yourself… no problem.

I hear my spouse. I see them. I do touch them. I might taste and smell the but, it’s a little harder.

Each one is important to your marriage and yet when one, two or more are neglected it can put a wedge between you and your spouse.

What happens when you are going through the motions and not being sensual.

You might starting hearing things like:

  • Um, what did you say, I wasn’t paying attention.
  • You don’t ever look at me.
  • We never hold hands anymore.
  • I can’t remember the last time that we kissed.

Losing your sensuality in marriage happens because you and your spouse are not being intentional about it.

You have a responsibility to your marriages to get back in the game. To engage all of your senses and to make your marriages extraordinary.

In this week’s show Tony and Alisa talk about what you can do to be sensual and how you can share these ideas with your spouse.

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