“It takes 237 muscles to fake an orgasm, but only 15 to say, “It’s called a clitoris and it’s right here.”” — Viral Meme
For all of the great movies that the film industry has produced over the decades, they have done marriages a huge disservice by disseminating lies about female orgasms.
Real damage is being done across the world: women and men believe that their sex lives are insufficient because the wife doesn’t seem to be able to orgasm properly… during vaginal intercourse during her husband’s climax.
Wives: approximately 75% of you do not experience vaginal orgasms, so if this is your experience, you are very much normal.
Husbands, do not think you are doing something wrong if you cannot bring your wife to orgasm this way.
Every woman’s body is slightly different and there are all sorts of sexual preferences and feelings, however, the truth is that the clitoris contains 8,000 nerve endings and the only real function is for sexual pleasure (for comparison, that’s over double the number of nerve endings in a man’s penis). For most women, it is through clitoral stimulation that orgasm is reached.
There are so many desires, preferences and feelings that accompany sexual intimacy for each woman, and we’re not here to give you a step-by-step guide to sex with her. We do want to challenge each married couple to open up to each other and learn one another.
Wives, you husbands want to please you, but you need to give them guidance (even though they don’t like to ask for directions).
Talk about it with your spouse. Here a few questions to kick start the conversation (please just don’t do it in your bedroom).
- How important is it to the wife to experience an orgasm, and how often?
- How have you experienced orgasms previously? Is there anything that makes a difference between them?
- Where do you want to be touched, and how?
Lastly, never fake an orgasm. It reinforces a lie, severs trust and is disrespectful. Breakthroughs are based upon honesty.
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