You have the power to build your spouse up with the words that you speak over their life.

Unfortunately, over time you may get distracted with all that is happening in your life that you forget to speak positive words over your spouse.

When you hold back from showering your love with positive words both of you are impacted.

In our own marriage we have experienced the benefit of using positive words over each other. When life is spoken into your spouse, you’ll be surprised at the transformation that will begin to occur.

At this time you may be thinking that you don’t know what word best describes your spouse.

This is where these 47 positive words come in to place.

As you read over the list of positive words, pick 1-3 that would be easy for you to use on a daily basis.

You’re going to have to be bold when you first start. Take the bold step to speak life into your spouse and watch them grow.

  1. Amazing
  2. Special
  3. Beautiful
  4. Affectionate
  5. Sexy
  6. Dependable
  7. Compassionate
  8. Patient
  9. Supportive
  10. Irreplaceable
  11. Fantastic
  12. Loyal
  13. Caring
  14. Confident
  15. Romantic
  16. Reliable
  17. Courageous
  18. Smart
  19. Handsome
  20. Awesome
  21. Gorgeous
  22. Determined
  23. Faithful
  24. Lover
  25. Passionate
  26. Authentic
  27. Bright
  28. Adventurous
  29. Protector
  30. Provider
  31. Strong
  32. Humorous
  33. Fun
  34. Delightful
  35. Outgoing
  36. Captivating
  37. Muscular
  38. Dedicated
  39. Leader
  40. Inspirational
  41. Thoughtful
  42. Articulate
  43. Respectful
  44. Integrity
  45. Blessing
  46. Cute
  47. Magnetic

There you have it 47 positive words that you can speak over your spouse.

Before you click away are you going to actually pick one word that you can begin to speak over your spouse?

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Change happens in your marriage when you are willing to take action to do something that you didn’t think you could do.

Change happens when you step out in faith, knowing that what you say may not have a response and yet you continue to speak life into your spouse.

It’s time for you to be the change in your marriage.

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  1. This was just what i needed to do something different for my marriage. My husband got a card from me with roses just because. We have only been married one year and we argue so much. It was nice to know I can still put a smile on that handsome face of his. In the card I wrote all 45 words titled it, “Looking at you through my eyes, this is what you are to me.” Even though he is a man I need him to know I value him, and I appreciate him, and I love him. Thank you so so much for helping me see the smile that lit up my world once more. Thanks to you guys I got to bring back what I thought was lost.