546: CHRISTMAS (EVE) MAGIC

“Christmas magic is silent. You don’t hear it… You feel it. You know it. You believe it.” —Anonymous

It’s the most wonderful time of the year
With the kids jingle belling
And everyone telling you be of good cheer
It’s the most wonderful time of the year

And with it comes Christmas Eve festivities.

  • Leaving cookies and milk out for Santa
  • Christmas Eve services
  • Wrapping (and assembling) presents
  • Trying to get the little ones to bed with all the excitement
  • Family in your house or being at family
  • Wishing/hoping/praying for that Christmas magic

With all that’s on your plate, it’s easy to see why “couple time” is often overlooked on this day of the year. 

Just because it’s easy to understand why it happens, doesn’t mean it’s okay that it does. 

It’s time to take back Christmas Eve and make a little Christmas magic tonight. 

But what does that look like? How can you possibly take time out of the craziness to focus on who you are as husband and wife?

Just as much as this day is all about the kids, gifts and cheer it’s really your night, if you let it be. It’s an opportunity to spoil each other with affection and attention. Make each other the best gift of all. 

It’s the most wonderful time of the year right? 

In theory yes, but often you mean that as it applies to certain areas of your life. Your marriage is the one relationship that doesn’t feel so wonderful in most cases because everything else seems to be taking priority.

But you don’t have to be like everyone else AND it doesn’t have to be complicated. 

What is one thing that you can do today to make your marriage magical? What is one thing that you can do to make your spouse feel like a priority? Start with that and you’ll start to see opportunities for some Christmas magic.

So let’s make a little Christmas magic.

At the end of the day, adults are kids who have grown up (hopefully). At our core however, we still want experiences. We still want that extra special something. We still want treats.

It’s the most wonderful time to make some Christmas magic for you and your spouse.

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