“I’m just a girl, standing in front of a boy asking him to love her.” —Notting Hill

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Romance has a lot of different definitions. It’s also a word often shaped by the images you see either on the big screen or the little screens you hold all day long.

As we go deeper in this series, Romance Defined, it’s important to recognize that one of the biggest stumbling blocks for couples when it comes to romance is how romance is defined in your own marriage

That’s because romance is not a one size fits all.

When trying to sort this out, you need to discuss what you both want. Let’s start by talking about what your wife wants.

First, it’s important for ladies to know that he can’t romance you if he doesn’t know what you like or want. In the same spirit, you can’t tell him what you like if you don’t know yourself. 

The reason why this is so important is that having husbands play guessing games to try to figure out what you want, doesn’t invoke success. Wives need to embrace this and then share with their husbands what they want. 

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This is a win-win for both of you. He knows what you need in the romance department and you get what you’ve asked for.

Getting to a place where you both understand what your wife wants, takes a willingness to listen and a willingness to implement. 

Husbands, when she shares what she wants, store this information in your romance toolbox. The next time you’re romancing her, look at your list of what she’s has shared and make it happen.

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