“Hershey’s makes a million kisses a day. I’m just asking for one.” —Anonymous

kissing patterns

Lips on lips. 

That intimate moment means so much, and yet, this intimate moment can change over the years. 

From your first kiss with your spouse, filled with so much anticipation, fireworks, and emotion, to those “just because” kisses many times since. 

A kiss means so much. 

His lips. Her lips.

From soft and sweet to passionate and intense. 

But how has it changed over the years since you’ve been married? Has it changed at all for both of you? Can it become better? Is it like the myths about sex that it has to get worse over time?

Talking about kissing is like talking about sex. If you are engaged in having an extraordinary marriage, then at one point, you’ll need to learn to talk about all areas of your marriage.

Including kissing.

Your kissing patterns can change over the years. It can become routine, less passionate, or even more passionate. Over time, there can also be a lack of intentionality about kissing between the two of you. 

It’s time to explore what your kissing patterns can look like with your spouse. No matter where you may be on the kissing spectrum, it’s a great time to explore how you can connect through kissing.

To be intentional about any area of your marriage requires a conversation and a plan. Kissing is no different!

Listen to all 4 episodes of The Kissing Game series now!

603: The Kissing Game: Part 1 — Our Kissing Patterns

605: The Kissing Game: Part 2 — The Science of a Kiss

607: The Kissing Game: Part 3 — What Keeps Us From Kissing

609: The Kissing Game: Part 4 — Your Kissing Challenge

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