“No one can go back in time and change what has happened so work on your present to make yourself a wonderful future.” —Anonymous


New year, new beginnings to focus on. It’s a natural thing to do as you look at the possibilities for the upcoming year. 

Every year has its challenges, some years (like this one) have more than others. This has been a year where due to uncertainty many of us have felt like we’ve had less control over our lives. 

From special mandates and lockdowns to a whole slew of events. There have been many times when it has felt like other people were dictating how you could live your life.

When it comes to your marriage, you have the ability to take a stand and ask yourself, “What can I do?”. From this one simple questions you can kick-start change. 

This is the year for you to ask (and then act upon) this one simple question. It’s also our hashtag for the year!


It’s easy to look at your spouse or the circumstances you are in and say “Well if this changed or if he did something or if she did something then I would…” 

But what if you were able to kick-start this year with a vision

What if your vision for what you wanted in your marriage wasn’t just something in your head. What if it was something on your refrigerator or bathroom mirror? 

By taking time to sit together, decide your goals, and then display them so you can both see them, that’s when you kick-start change. Plus by seeing these daily, you’re reminded of the commitment you’ve made to one another. 

Base your goals around the 6 Pillars of Intimacy to set your marriage up of success. To better understand the pillars of intimacy grab your copy of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy now

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