“Hearing you moan is the sexiest sound ever. —Anonymous


Have you ever heard a silent sex scene? Probably not. 

Whether in a movie or other sitcom, there’s always vocalization. From a moan, heavy breathing to all out screams.  

While men often moan from sheer pleasure (it just feels that good) women moan for a variety of reasons.

These include boredom, pain, just to make their husband feel good and even because they are really enjoying how their husband is stimulating them. 

On the flip side, sometimes they just don’t vocalize at all because they know the kids are in the house or it’s awkward or embarrassing. 

Women also may not make noise/moan because they are not being stimulated.

Knowing all of that, is it any wonder that you may feel like your sex life is just a little confusing? 

Lack of vocalization from either spouse can create confusion, doubt and insecurity around your sexual intimacy. 

As extraordinary couples you need to step into a place where you bring your emotional intimacy along for the ride when you are engaging in your sexual intimacy.

When you are not verbally engaged in the moment with your spouse you are selling yourselves and your marriages short. Who wants to go through the mental exercise of asking a million questions (either out loud or in your head) every single time that you have sex?

Doubt does nothing for a person’s confidence. It inhibits who you are. It can make you irritable or withdrawn. Definitely not a recipe for an extraordinary marriage. 

It’s time to get real and get in the moment. It’s time for your marriage sex ed to go to a new level. Start exploring what you are capable of and not what society says you have to do (or not do). This is no one’s marriage but your own.

Live it, authentically!

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