“The greatest gifts are not wrapped in paper but in love. Plus maybe something silky or sexy.” —Anonymous

sexy little Christmas

You may be familiar with the Christmas tune which goes like this:

Have yourself a Merry little Christmas,
Let your heart be light
From now on,
Your troubles will be out of sight

Well, instead of a “Merry little Christmas” how about having yourself a sexy little Christmas?

But what exactly does it mean to have a sexy little Christmas?

This is the time of the year where the focus for many is on the tree and the gifts and all that needs to be done to make the season magical. It’s easy to fall into Christmas, being just another 24-hour period for the two of you.

Between travel and having guests around, it can slip your mind that in this gift-giving season, one of the greatest gifts you can give your spouse is yourself.

It’s likely that between remembering the reason for the season — Jesus and attending church, you’ve got the spiritual intimacy in focus on things like:

The physical intimacy aspect of seeing more people, giving more hugs and cuddling in front of the fire.

Financial intimacy shows up with what you are spending or not.

There is no shortage of opportunities for recreational intimacy with Christmas parties, Christmas lights, watching Christmas movies, and more.

But your sexual intimacy and even your emotional intimacy can get pushed to the side, especially in that Christmas eve/Christmas day window.

The culprit? Busyness and lack of intentionality with the season.

This is where setting expectations (emotional intimacy) and keeping sexual intimacy in the forefront of your mind can make all the difference.

It can be as easy as one sexy thing:

  • Wear a sexy nightie
  • Take sexy photos
  • A surprise candlelit dinner at home with music
  • A 7 Days of Sex Challenge
  • Sex in a unique position
  • Wrap yourself up in a bow and only a bow
  • Toys we could use together
  • Sex under the Christmas tree or in the glow of the Christmas tree lights
  • A foot rub and a body rub
  • Give sexy underwear

You are your spouse’s greatest gift, don’t let the busyness or distractions of the season keep you from sharing that with your spouse.


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