684: CAST VISION TO MAKE THIS YOUR BEST YEAR YET
“A vision is not just a picture of what could be; it’s an appeal to our better selves, a call to become something more.” —Rosabeth Kanter
It’s here! A brand new year full of promise and expectation.
Where will you be at the end of this year?
What will have happened in your marriage this year?
How will each of your 6 Pillars of Intimacy be stronger because of what you have done this year?
The definition of insanity most often quoted is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. This is especially true in marriage.
If you want this year to look different from last year, you need to cast a vision for those changes. Now it’s time to make this year BE different.
Proverbs 29:18 says that “without vision the people perish.” Now no one wants that!
The marriage paraphrase of this passage says that “without vision, a marriage perishes, a couple falls into being roommates feeling utterly disconnected.”
That’s why you need to cast a vision in the 6 Pillars of Intimacy for this brand new year is so important.
You can start by thinking about what you want to experience in the next 30 days. How about the next 60 days? This whole year? You can also ask questions like “what can I do right now?”
You can also work together and figure out what you can do together as a couple to create your year ahead.
Don’t be afraid to be specific. Some examples of that could be those moments when you are specific and you decide where to allocate your emotional, physical, and financial resources.
Things like scheduling a coffee break for each week this month or hugging or kiss when leaving for work and coming home.
You can also explore what your marriage will look like and feel like when that happens. Make sure you paint a clear picture and envision it with all of your senses.
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