“The bigger the challenge, the bigger the opportunity.—Anonymous

summer sex challenge

Summer is here!

With that comes changes in schedules, vacations, the kids around and the opportunity for your marriage to take a back seat, unless you are intentional and decide to take action so that this doesn’t happen.

It is possible. It’s so easy to get caught up in the chaos of summer!

The question is, what’s that going to look like for the two of you?

How are you going to focus on a specific pillar or two or three to strengthen your marriage?

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If you are already feeling the pressure of “everything summer” then it’s time for the two of you to take on a sex challenge.

Why? Because it’s about more than just sex.

We know it’s easy to think, when you first hear about a sex challenge, that it’s all about sex.

It’s actually about so much more! From evaluating how you are interacting in every area of your marriage to strengthening those pillars, it’s time to focus on being intentional about romance and foreplay and variety!

How do you get started?

It’s important to look at your calendar and yet not be ruled by your calendar. Meaning: DO NOT BE SO BUSY you don’t make time for one another. It sounds tricky, and yet when you realize what making your spouse a priority could do for your marriage, things will fall into place.

The beautiful thing about understanding that sexual intimacy isn’t just sex but also includes initiating and foreplay is that you have many, many more options and ways to commit to the experience.

It’s also a significant chance to look at all of your pillars of intimacy.

Think “how are you being physical intimate (non-sexual touch) with one another,” “how are you having fun with one another,” and even “how are you praying with your spouse?”

Sex is the catalyst to be intentional about every area of your marriage. A sex challenge is a chance to reset and prioritize just the two of you.

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