812: OUR FIRST KISS

“The thought of our first kiss always makes me smile.” —Anonymous

There’s a single moment that changed your life: your first kiss with your spouse.

Whether it was on your front porch, at a high school dance, in the car, or even on your wedding day, that kiss was the first of many.

For such a significant moment, you might not have thought about it in years.

The details might seem fuzzy. Who leaned in first? What happened afterward?

Talking about your first kiss means remembering the excitement and anticipation you felt. It’s a chance to re-live the moment, connect with your spouse, and encourage others who hear the story.

Here’s why it’s so powerful to talk about your first kiss:

In that moment, you had no idea the kind of impact that kiss would have.

You couldn’t have imagined all the highs and lows you would face as a couple. Since that moment, you’ve grown as individuals and as a couple. Your love has also grown.

So, looking back and remembering the stories is incredibly meaningful. In fact, this story of your first kiss becomes even more memorable as the year goes on.

It’s not enough to just think about your first kiss. You need to talk about it.

If you’re like us, the emotions will come flooding back. You’ll remember the excitement. You might even tell the story with a smile on your face.

For some of you, your first kiss just felt right. You might remember how your spouse smelled or the way their lips tasted. Or perhaps you can recall how it felt to know this was a milestone in your relationship. The sparks were flying.

Even if your first kiss didn’t happen smoothly, it was the moment that changed everything for you two. In other words, it’s special.

And it’s special to more people than just the two of you. These stories matter to your kids. They matter to other couples who need encouragement.

Since your first kiss, you have worked as a team. Undoubtedly, you’ve faced pain and disappointment. But you’re still here to tell the tale.

So tell it.

Be willing to share the story of your first kiss.

In a world full of negativity toward marriage, remembering the positive is a gift to all of us.

Don’t minimize your story!

Instead, shine a light on this moment when you felt butterflies and your palms got sweaty. Your story matters, no matter how “boring” you might think it is.

Anything that changes your life is worth talking about.

And the excitement that you remember about your first kiss is contagious.

It can wake you and your spouse up from just going through the motions. Instead, you can explore ways to bring those emotions of your first kiss back into your daily life.

Your story can also inspire others. It’s a testament to how you have built a real relationship. Additionally, it’s a reminder that marriage is worth fighting for.

So think back. Reminisce. Talk about it with your spouse or text them, “Remember our first kiss?”

It’s these simple moments that changed everything. Don’t forget to remember them!

Resources

The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us

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