845: Where Do I Get Help
“Courage isn’t just standing alone, it’s also reaching out when you need it.” —Anonymous
It feels like we’re too busy to connect… My spouse has a lower desire than me… We struggle with physical discomfort in the bedroom…
When you have questions, it’s one thing to know that you’re not alone. But what every couple really needs to know is how to get help for the challenges in their marriage.
Among the ONE Family, 62% of wives cite communication as their top challenge, whereas 68% of husbands reported sexual intimacy concerns.
But what does that look like specifically?
Many wives in the ONE Family struggle with:
- Feeling emotionally disconnected and unheard.
- Struggling to communicate needs effectively.
- Wanting deeper spiritual and emotional intimacy.
- Feeling stuck in surface-level interactions.
- Being unsure how to rebuild trust and connection.
Husbands, on the other hand, are:
- Frustrated by lack of sexual intimacy.
- Caught in cycles of conflict and shutdown.
- Unsure how to understand their wife’s perspective.
- Wanting to be a better leader but lacking framework.
- Feeling alone in their marriage struggles.
Sound familiar?
You know what The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® are, but you don’t know how to master the skills needed to make them extraordinary in your marriage.
For years in our own marriage, we knew that we had problems. Of course, we thought that if we ignored them, they would go away or that if we gave it enough time, they would work themselves out.
When that didn’t happen, it nearly wrecked our marriage.
We didn’t realize how crucial emotional and sexual intimacy were for our marriage—and we certainly hadn’t mastered them.
Ultimately, that’s what has become a challenge for so many.
We’ve seen your emails, heard your voicemails, and read your DMs. We’ve spoken with many of you at live events, where you say, “I don’t know how to bring the 6 Pillars into my marriage. We haven’t mastered what we need to do.”
We’ve heard you. And we’re excited to tell you that something BIG is coming soon for the ONE Family.
As you get ready for what’s next, here’s what we want you to do:
- Think about the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®.
- Reflect on which ones you need to master.
- Have a conversation with your spouse about what mastery in these areas could do for your connection.
If you’re ready to get help for your specific marriage challenges, stay tuned.
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