12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS COUNTDOWN FOR YOUR SPOUSE

Christmas is that time of year when you place that special present under the Christmas tree, waiting patiently for your spouse to open it with all their excitement.

All your searching comes down to this one day for you to enjoy giving something special. This year how about doing something a little different. How about having some fun as you lead up to Christmas with your very own 12 Days of Christmas.

If you need that perfect gift for under the tree we have a number of Christmas gift idea guides for you below.

[INFOGRAPH] HOW BOUNDARIES ENGENDER TRUST

It may sound backwards at first, but the data is clear — couples who have defined, shared boundaries regarding interactions with people of the opposite sex have fewer trust issues than those who don’t.

Think of it like installing a fence around the backyard before letting young kids out to play. The fence sets a perimeter that both keeps out unwanted dangers while allowing kids the freedom to know what space is safe for unrestricted fun.

[INFOGRAPH] HOW IMPORTANT IS ROMANCE?

Romance is pretty self-explanatory, right? Wrong!

“So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me… everyday.” — The Notebook

ONE Extraordinary Marriage conducted an anonymous online survey to uncover what’s really going on in marriages. Here’s what we found.

What seems to come so naturally and be more potent than drugs while dating can become elusive as a couple spends years and decades together.

[INFOGRAPH] SEX & ORGASMS

(the ONE-honest truth)

There’s probably not many people you speak with about your sex life completely, openly and honestly. Nothing is wrong with that — what you do in the bedroom is between you, your spouse and God.

But, because there is a huge knowledge gap, most of us assume everyone else is either just like us, or just like the media shows it. Let’s be honest – neither are true.

That’s where the power of the ONE family can help us all out! We conducted an online survey on sex & orgasms and thanks to hundreds of you who completed it, we can share what’s REALLY going on in married bedrooms.