“Knowing is not enough we must apply. Willing is not enough we must do.” —J W Von Goethe When you don’t know what works in the bedroom (or what doesn’t) you may be paralyzed wondering… Does my spouse like this? Is this position OK? Are they initiating? Is this a good time? Think about this […]

“In all things there is a law of cycles.” —Tacitus (Roman Historian) It is absolutely critical that you understand the female menstrual cycle for your sex life and for your marriage. A woman’s body is absolutely amazing and it’s hard wired to ebb and flow as the hormones fluctuate each and every month. As a woman’s hormones […]

“Marriage doesn’t have the power to bind-only the actions of two people can do that. Forever and happy endings aren’t a given.” —Leah Mercer You can make changes to your marriage no matter how long you’ve been married. For us it was at the 11 year make that we got radical when we started and completed […]

“When you start using senses you’ve neglected, your reward is to see the world [and your marriage] with completely fresh eyes.” —Barbara Sher Your marriages may be experiencing some struggles due to the fact that you are loving each other with only one or two of the 5 senses you have. You may have fallen into what’s comfortable for you in […]

Never judge someone on their past because they are no longer in that stage of life. Sex before marriage can be a roadblock to deep sexual intimacy. If you had sex before marriage you may have feelings of guilt, shame, and resentment. On the other side your spouse may have had sex before marriage with other […]

You’ve been sharing with your wife that she is beautiful to you inside and out.  You see her as this amazing, incredible gift from God. A gift that honestly you cannot wait to unwrap. You want her to realize that it’s not a sin to acknowledge her own beauty and sensuality without feeling dirty and yet your wife doesn’t see herself as […]