472: MAKE UP SEX

“Every couple fights. Just make sure that the make up sex ALWAYS lasts longer than the fights.” —Anonymous

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Question: Do you use make up sex (and 65% of you do) as a temporary band-aid or an effective tool for growth?

Sex is a powerful connection, and especially after an argument when you each have heightened emotions and hormones, sex can become all the more potent.

471: THE DANGER OF ISOLATION

“Isolation is the enemy of improvement.” —Tony Wagner

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Isolation is a powerful weapon that can destroy even the best of projects, people, and relationships. We were not meant to live in isolation because of how damaging the effects can be.

Healthy relationships tie us together with other people who can support, encourage and equip us to grow.

470: WHAT COLOR IS YOUR UNDERWEAR

“The best color in the world is the one that looks good on you.”Coco Chanel

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When we first got married, our underwear was nude, white, or black. It was functional and plentiful, but we didn’t give much thought to how to use color to romance our spouse.

We’re so glad that has changed.

469: THOSE SWEET BEDROOM SOUNDS

“Music can change the world because it can change people.” —Bono

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The ONE family totally called us out as we were preparing for this show. As you guys know, we are all about trying again if something doesn’t work great the first time.

Years ago, we had sex with music on and it was a disaster. Alisa found herself distracted by the lyrics and it has been off the table ever since.