New goals keep you focused on great things to come.
You look intently at the weight that is dropping each time you stand on the scale, at the alarm clock that will wake you up earlier to be in prayer, or at the attic that will get organized this time for sure.
Cleaning your house, dropping the extra weight, or changing a less than efficient behavior can take top billing on your list of things to change.
It’s so easy to think of cheating in terms of the BIG action.
Really it’s all of the little ones that cause the break in the relationship…
The text messages. Secret email address.
You can’t put a price on the pain that “split holidays” with kids causes, how it feels to move out of your home, or watching your spouse date new people.
Divorces cost more than money.
There are many “silent” costs of divorce that you’ll have to pay if you resolve your marriage. Please consider these, and recognize that love is one of the most challenging things to fight for but ALWAYS worth it.