570: WHY IS INITIATING SEX SO DIFFICULT

“The easiest thing to do is to react. The second easiest thing to do is to respond. The hardest thing to do is initiate.” —Anonymous

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Have you ever stopped to ask yourself what keeps you from initiating sex in your marriage?

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself what keeps you from initiating sex in your marriage?
Depending on who you ask, there can be a lot of reasons why initiating seems so difficult. Maybe you’re frustrated that you are always the one who initiates. Maybe you just feel too tired or distracted to get things going. Or maybe you don’t realize that you are not initiating sex.

567: STEP INTO A SEX CHALLENGE: PART 3 — PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER

“Love is about growing as a couple, learning about each other, and sticking together.” —Anonymous

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Starting a sex challenge is not just about having sex. It’s about setting yourself and your marriage up for success so you experience a new connection both emotionally and physically. 

For some, in the early years of marriage, sex can be less about the emotional connection and more about the physical needs you both have. 

5 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE

When it comes to your sex life, even the most deeply committed and head-over-heels-in-love couples can go through periods when intimacy happens less or not at all.

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Many times there is an obvious and logical reason it occurs. These can be for the birth of a baby, a financial setback or a hectic schedule that has you feeling disconnected. And sometimes it just seems to happen, but that doesn’t mean you have to stay in that stuck place. 

It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married for 5 days or 50 years, here are 5 ways to improve your sex life.

565: STEP INTO A SEX CHALLENGE: PART 2 — WHAT YOU NEED TO CONSIDER

“I can give you a six word formula for success. Think things through – then follow through.” —Eddie Rickenbacker

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Committing to a sex challenge means committing to more than having sex. It means talking about what a sex challenge will look like for you as a couple. 

Although there’s something amazing about just jumping into something without really knowing what you are doing, you may want to sit down together to discuss a few things before you get started.