dating routine

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.” —Albert Einstein Let’s talk about your dating game as a married couple. Your “recreational intimacy” is the way the two of you spend your time together. Maybe this is an area of your marriage where you can really see an…

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celebrate

“Track your small wins to motivate big accomplishments.” —Teresa Amabile To celebrate something means you honor and recognize achievements or “wins” you have experienced in your life.  In marriage, it’s important to celebrate the wins you experience together. Sadly, we live in a world where there is so much negativity that we need to be…

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handling finances

“Sometimes it’s not about the money but rather the process of managing the money.” —Anonymous As you move through the seasons of marriage, it’s easy to fall into a comfort zone. It’s easy for the different intimacies to become a routine, and for you to become complacent. One of those intimacies, prone to falling into…

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color blind

“God is not color blind or culture blind.” —John Gray * This is a topic that we have never discussed on the show, and we want to say from the beginning that we might not get it right but that doesn’t mean we aren’t going to tackle it. Color and race are being seen and…

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feedback loop

“Get a feedback loop and listen to it. When people give you feedback, cherish it and use it.” —Randy Pausch A comfort zone is a behavioral space where your activities and behaviors fit a routine and pattern that minimizes your stress and risk. It’s something that provides you a state of mental security.  As much…

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her cycle

“When a woman tells you she started her period the correct response is NEVER “well that explains it”.” —Anonymous A women’s cycle is often an overlooked topic in marriage.  Beyond how long it lasts, there’s a lot more to it. Including the impact of her cycle on your marriage. 

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never thought

“Your blessings may come in unexpected ways.” —Neil Andersen In marriage, there are times when life happens. It also happens in ways you may have never imagined.  You may find yourself having conversations or asking or doing things you’d never imagined you would be doing for your spouse.

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