Before You Walk Out The Door
Or Your Spouse Does...
Make A Plan To Save Your Marriage
In many cases, some time apart may be needed to save a marriage.
If your marriage is at that point, don't let it happen without a plan.
Things May Be Down To The Wire
The situation at home has become tense.
Maybe you’ve had enough of your spouse’s antics, or your spouse has had enough of yours.
Whatever the case, the situation may seem grim and impossible to resolve.
Tempers are flaring, hurtful things are being said, there is pain, sadness and drama in the home.
Perhaps Things May Have Gotten To The “Point Of No Return”
You may both be at the point where at least a separation is being considered.
If this is the case, understand that your situation is not unusual.
Annually, millions of couples experience what you're going through.
And as hopeless as things may seem, it doesn't mean it's over.
Because no matter what you think or feel right now, your marriage CAN still be saved!
As long as you and your spouse are open to having a dialogue, there is still a chance.
Take Action... Before Any Separation Occurs
Before embarking on a separation period, it's important to have an execution plan.
Hashing out an effective execution plan or better yet, a “contract” is critical.
It will give both of you the ability to work on yourselves, the right way.
While at the same time figuring out how to work on the marriage together.
Here's The Harsh Reality...
Without an effective plan of action before separating, your chances of finding solutions go down... significantly!
And that's why we developed...
The Contract of Reconciliation
- Get a clear picture of the state of your marriage and the reconciliation process that will work for you!
- Boldly discuss the topics and issues that you have both struggled with in the past!
- Re-discover the intimacies in your marriage that you both may have long forgotten about!
- Develop a plan to commit to each other again!
- Develop a plan to streamline the reconciliation process!
Here's A Negotiable Contract And Execution Plan
One that you and your spouse can use to work out the terms of a separation period.
It provides an opportunity to outline the important prevailing issues and topics.
It outlines what will need to be discussed and/or negotiated... with love, respect and civility.
The Contract Of Reconciliation is an effective, proven tool.
It will help you both gain a clear view of the current situation and the state of your marriage.
It will help you and your spouse outline what steps will need to take to be taken.
Outline Terms, Conditions And Reasons For Taking Time Apart From Each Other
Marriage professionals agree...
With some empathetic and mature discussion, a temporary separation can be helpful.
It can actually be a healthy step towards repairing your marriage.
It all boils down to mindset.
Make the purpose of the separation to get back together!
The Contract Of Reconciliation Is
More Than Just An Execution Plan
You get all the necessary questions and topics that need to be covered.
It outlines all the important issues with understanding, honesty and respect.
Just go over each item and answer/discuss each one, as candidly as possible.
Do it first individually, then together with your spouse.
As you complete each section of the contract, initial it and proceed to the next.
This provides a structured, methodical and civil way to cover all the currently unresolved issues.
It also encourages and fosters progress.
This process allows you to discuss each of the issues and work on solutions.
The Contract Of Reconciliation
Is Field-Tested And Proven!
We have utilized this strategy and approach on countless client couples, with positive results.
It's the perfect tool for couples who have recently separated or are considering taking time apart.
Couples in this zone truly need a way to resolve issues and reconcile their differences.
So they can figure out how to repair their marriage.
Once these issues and prevailing questions are effectively discussed, progress can be made.
You and your spouse will be better able to get your marriage back on a healthy track.
Here's what the Contract Of Reconciliation covers:
- Emotional intimacy and related issues/problems - (19 items/questions to answer/discuss)
- Recreational intimacy - (5 items/questions to answer/discuss)
- Financial intimacy - (4 items/questions to answer/discuss)
- Physcial/sexual intimacy - (3 items/questions to answer/discuss)
- Pornography issues - (5 items/questions to answer/discuss - if it’s been a factor in the marriage)
- Spiritual intimacy - (2 items/questions to answer/discuss)
- Family & Friends - (4 items/questions to answer/discuss)
- Have other questions or items to discuss? Each section includes an area for your own questions/issues!
The Contract Of Reconciliation Will Guide And Document The Entire Process
With a working document between you and your spouse, there is accountability.
You have an effective way to communicate clearly and honestly, through the whole process.
This eliminates misunderstanding and helps build mutual trust between both parties.
This Is A Proven Strategy That Has Helped Countless Couples
“The Contract of Reconciliation was a God send. My wife and I were considering separation when we picked this up. By going through the Contract of Reconciliation we were going to stay together as we worked on ourselves and our marriage.”Ben W., Indiana
“My husband and I were separated for some time. We wanted to get back together, but didn't know what to do. Luckily we found ONE Extraordinary Marriage and the Contract of Reconciliation. Having gone through this it allowed us to actually talk about things that we needed to know to get back together again. I'm glad we did this because now our family is together with no talk of divorce.”Susan J., California
Remember, It's Important To Be Honest And Empathetic About The Problems That Are Affecting Your Marriage...
It's the only way that you and your spouse will be able to find the solutions!
And how can you feasibly do that?
By putting all the cards on the table, so to speak.
By following a structured process, you can work together to find solutions.
Contract Of Reconciliation helps set the stage for open, civil and frank discussion.
But most importantly, it puts you and your spouse in the right mindset to see resolution.
When you're both in the right, your chances of success rise significantly.
Take It From Us, We've Been There
Long before we became successful marriage coaches, we were just like you.
Another couple struggling to keep the marriage from falling apart.
We too had to battle with the prospect of separation and even divorce.
Luckily, we learned the importance of discussing the issues... with transparency and honesty.
It Didn't Only Make A Huge Difference For Us, But For Our Clients As Well
When there's structure and accountability, it's much easier to find solutions.
Best of all, with cooler heads, more civility and... less drama.
Cover all the issues and work on the solutions:
- No need to “guess” what the overriding problems are...
- Finally cover all the “touchy” issues, including sex and intimacy...
- Finally talk honestly and openly about financial problems or issues...
- Finally tackle the spiritual issues or problems in the marriage...
- Find out if family and friends are part of the problem or the solution...
- Use this opportunity to spell out any specific issues between you or your spouse...
- And much more.
Bonus: We'll Share How To Use
The Contract Of Reconciliation
To Get Maximum Results
As a special bonus, we include a 30 minute audio session.
We discuss how-to properly take this tool and use it effectively to get things on the right track!
Do The Work To Get Past Any
Needed Separation Period
Work on getting back to a loving, happy marriage – with love and understanding!
This Contract Of Reconciliation can help you get there!
Here's What Some Of Our Clients Have To Say...
“Lost and not sure what to do about my marriage I found Tony & Alisa. They gave me the hope I needed to know that my marriage was worth the fight. That all started when my husband and I decided to go through the Contract of Reconciliation. It's been a game changer for our marriage!”Michelle S., Texas
“My wife had an emotional affair and I was devastated. What to do to get back on track? The Contract of Reconciliation did this for us. We were able to have a way to know if we were moving closer together. Glad we did this as it saved our marriage.”Matt P., Germany
Get Contract Of Reconciliation
For Only $19
It's An Incredible Value
Our Strategic Coaching Sessions covering this material costs $125 per hour and 2-3 sessions to go over everything.
But for this downloadable PDF version and bonuses, you won't pay anything near that!
Get Contract of Reconciliation For a Fraction of the Cost of One Strategic Coaching Session
Get Your Marriage Back On Track
You really can't lose with this marriage-saving communication tool.
In fact, we are so sure that you will get several times your money's worth from Contract Of Reconciliation.
Try It Risk Free!
Take a full 30 days to see if Contract Of Reconciliation helps you and your spouse get communications and problem-solving back on track.
If you decide that it isn't worth at least 10 times what you paid, and doesn't prove to be a handy tool to improve your discussions, no problem. We will insist that you get every penny back.
No questions asked. There is absolutely NO RISK to you.
“Being separated doesn't mean you can't get back together. When my husband and I didn't know if we would get back together we picked up the Contract of Reconciliation as a last ditch effort. The process that we went through was amazing. After 4 months apart we finally are under the same roof again.”Shauna M., Illinois
There is only one reason that this resource won't work for you.
If you just buy it, download it, and do nothing else.
If you buy our product, we ask that you make us one promise.
If you do, we think you will be surprised at the progress that you and your spouse will make, it really is that simple.
If you don't see progress, improvement or aren't satisfied for any reason, then simply request your money back.
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and Let the Healing Begin
PS. Contract of Reconciliation is the result of tons of research, experience and field-testing. It has been tested and proven by countless clients. Remember, you're protected by an iron-clad guarantee.
Love you guys.
Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo
Our Personal Story
We’ve been married for 19 years and they weren't all happy.
Our “bumps in the road” were actually mountains in our eyes.
We knew that in order to get to the other side, keep our family together, and experience a loving, intimate marriage… we needed to dig deep and address our circumstances head on.
Dealing with it all was our commitment to each other.
Together, we overcame Tony’s 18-year addiction to pornography, the loss of a child at 18 weeks, debt in excess of $50,000, poor communication, lack of collective interests and questioning trust.
But, the key word here is “together”.
Since those days a lot of things have changed.
We’re now the founders of ONE Extraordinary Marriage, best selling authors and hosts of the world's #1 Marriage Podcast.
But the most important thing… if we can do it, so can you.
We look forward to bringing more intimacy and connection to your marriage.