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Learn How-to Honor Your Spouse and Your
Marriage Through Effective Communication!

Most Marriage Experts Agree:

The Key to a Happier, More Functional
Marriage is Better COMMUNICATION!


If you have been wishing that you and your spouse can communicate better, argue less and gain a better understanding of each other's feelings, then please read on.

Having worked with literally thousands of couples over the years as marriage coaches, we have come to understand one important common denominator that rang true all too often:

For most couples, communication is a major hurdle.

Let's face it. Without clear, drama-free and two-way communication, a marriage can go nowhere fast.

In fact, in a recent survey of marriage counseling professionals, lack of communication skills are considered the number one cause of divorce!*

In the same survey, counseling professionals agreed that improving communication skills reduced the chances of divorce by 65%!

So it's clear...

If most couples dealt with that proverbial elephant in the room, poor communication, the chances of resolving other issues in the marriage increase significantly.

This is something that marriage counselors as well as coaches like us have proven time and time again. The data cannot be disputed.

Before you can restore proper communication, it's extremely important to take a necessary first step:

Accept that there is a problem with the way you perceive your spouse and vice-versa.

Improving communication gets you both on the same side.

Especially when the mission is to find workable solution to prevailing, challenging issues.

Here's a fact: people change over time. They evolve...

One thing that many married couples don't realize is that constant change can cause them to behave differently with each other over time.

When behavior evolves, so do communication patterns!

A major problem is that due to daily life, work and other forces, couples just lose touch with each other. They can easily diverge on to different tracks.

It doesn't take long for avoidable and even manageable issues to get aggravated. Simply due to the fact that there is no healthy communication.

This was a hard lesson for us to
learn in our own marriage!

Tony & Alisa Looking at Each Other

Long before we became marriage coaches, we too were a married couple struggling to stay together, like many others.

During the course of our 17 year marriage, we learned the importance of improving communication in order to save our marriage.

Because for a time, healthy communication of any form was virtually nonexistent.

It was probably one of the biggest challenges we had to face head-on. Especially in order to truly give our marriage a fighting chance.

A lot of hard work, brutal honesty and empathy was needed to finally get on the right path to healthy communication.

Our efforts paid off and made all the difference.

But it didn't only make a difference for us!

Since becoming a highly-successful marriage coaching team, we've come to understand one concept all too well. Improving communication is perhaps the biggest challenge that most couples face.

We also know if communication improves, the marriage almost always improves right along with it.

In fact, this point has been proven to us time and time again.

This is why we developed...

He Zigs, She Zags:
Get Your Communication on the Same Path

  • Get back on the same wavelength with your spouse...
  • Learn and respect the value of communicating effectively with your spouse...
  • Understand the importance of grace...
  • Restore the essential emotional connection with your spouse...
  • Learn to choose your battles...
  • Develop a system of communication that you both can agree on and work with!
  • Develop lasting solutions to the issues by truly listening to each other...
  • Restore honesty, openness and transparency with one another...
  • And much, much more...

It's a bit ironic isn't it?

In this day and age, communication has never been easier or more instantaneous than it is right now. Thanks to amazing technology, of course.

Yet, despite these incredible advantages, communication continues to be a very real problem for couples. Especially couples who are desperately trying to make their marriage work!

Here's a point that is often lost...

Despite the ease and speed of communication, the basics of communication are still fundamentally important.

Unfortunately, in a world of endless distractions, life's fast pace, media and time-wasting attention grabbers, this point often gets muddled and hard to remember.

Time to break the pattern, and reopen the channels!

We will show you how to get you and your spouse back on track. Simply by focusing on the basic tenets of proper communication, improving listening skills and other key elements. While at the same time, taking the time to learn how to focus and eliminate all the possible distractions.

Look, no matter the current state of your marriage, whether you have been married for a short time, or gone beyond your 20-year anniversary... improving communication will make all the difference.

For couples with kids, especially younger ones,
healthy communication is critical.


Because as most of us already know, raising a family is not easy.

It puts incredible strains on a marriage that may already be fragile in the first place. When kids are younger, their needs are greater. This means more attention and focus is demanded on the parents.

This in turn means less time and attention that couples can apply to themselves and managing their marriages. It's an age-old story, and a vicious cycle.

If you don't have kids yet and are considering them, here's something to consider...

If the level of communication is poor or somewhat difficult now, things almost always get worse when kids are added to the equation. Count on that.

Get your communication on the same track, then
keep it there. In a short time, the difference will amaze you.

We are communicating better then ever before because now we are not just "going through the motions" when we talk. By talking clearly to one another we are having huge breakthroughs in our marriage.

- Julie B., Florida

He Zigs, She Zags is amazing! There is no fluff, no unrealistic expectations, just down to earth, practical advice on having an incredible, Christ centered marriage.

- Hannah W., Indiana

Talking is vital!

Let's go back to the fundamentals. You have to be able to talk with your spouse effectively and openly, in regards to all areas of your marriage.

Whether it's about what is going on in the bedroom (or not going on!), or the household finances...

Without a clear, open and productive dialogue, only problems will ensue.

Understand that if there is any level of unease or difficulty in communication, it places a tremendous amount of undue and unnecessary stress on the marriage.

It can also easily drain and exhaust both parties. All too often, it happens to the extent that apathy kicks in.

Apathy is never a good thing in a marriage.

Just trust us on this one...

It isn't good for you, your spouse, and definitely not the kids (if you have them).

He Zigs, She Zags will show you and your spouse how to effectively take control of the communication in your marriage. Best of all, to avoid apathy!

With everything happening with couples and families these days, whether it's career or home-related, communication is more important than ever.

Invest the time and effort needed to improve communication now, and it will pay off dividends for the marriage for years to come. No question about it.

This program will help you and your spouse avoid the all-too-common pitfalls and dangers due to poor communication.

Don't let it destroy your marriage!

The He Zigs, She Zags program gives you the tools and skills to learn how to communicate effectively. Best of all, in a no-pressure, loving way.

With just some easy to follow exercises and guidelines, you will find your ability to communicate improve significantly.

Once communication improves, all other aspects of the marriage will improve as well.

Especially when it comes to the sexual intimacy department!

I got married 7 months ago and as a newlywed I can honestly say there is no play book or instruction manual to prepare you for this thing called marriage. He Zigs, She Zags has been our play book when it comes to our communication. I just wanted to message you guys and say THANK YOU. You are making a difference in our marriage!

- John C., Oregon

Our tested and proven Couple Communication Method has helped thousands of couples worldwide.

They have a newfound ability to experience not only a higher plane of communication, but a new level of emotional intimacy as well.

And yes, we can help you and your spouse make this happen too.

With our proven techniques, you can be on the way to better communication - in as little as two hours!

He Zigs, She Zags has given us a crazy quick way to connect and get right to fun, deep and meaningful conversations. Each session has helped my wife and I gain insights on the best way to dive deep into our emotional intimacy. With 3 kids and not much time it has been awesome to be productive with the little time alone that we have.

- Tom F., California

Here is what you will learn:

  • How to effectively set up a State of Our Marriage conversation over any topic or issue...
  • How to allow yourself to open up to, trust and be vulnerable with your spouse at all times...
  • How to properly use “I feel”, “I heard”, and other key expressions when they are needed most...
  • How to diffuse any argument or eliminate tension, with a simple change in your body language...
  • How to initiate real change in your conversations by listening to understand, and not interrupting...
  • How and when to extend grace, even when you don't feel like doing it...
  • And much more!

Learn and apply our proven methods...

Build a solid foundation that your marriage can thrive on...

Now and in the future!

Here is what you get with the He Zigs, She Zags program:

  • Full-length, download-able multimedia presentation (Length: 2 hours)
  • Audio version for listening while driving or otherwise on the go!
  • Transcript and slides in PDF format to read along or for easy reference.
  • Eight download-able individual sessions (video and audio) which include:

- Introduction
- Choose Your Battles, Choose Your Time
- Open Up & Be Vulnerable
- Use “I Feel”
- Palms Up
- Listen to Understand, Not Interrupt
- Extend Grace
- Q&A

  • Several additional tools, including-

- Six cheatsheets, one for each course module
- Six worksheets to track your progress, one for each course module
- Six 30-minute audio podcasts that accompany each course module

  • And more unannounced bonuses!

The He Zigs, She Zags program gives you everything you and your spouse need to start improving communication, starting today.

Take the first important step – acknowledge the problem!

Believe it or not, this is often the hardest step for most couples to take!

Due to pride, ego or just plain denial, couples simply refuse to admit that there is a problem in communicating in the first place.

Or worse, one spouse will think that the problem is with the other, but not with him or her.

Remember that in a marriage, you're in it together!

This means being honest, taking responsibility for your role and for your part of the problem. Then committing yourselves to taking the necessary steps to fix it.

All too often, many divorces happen simply because one spouse “checked out” or has given up. By simply developing a wall of indifference to the problem, the other spouse may become angry and resentful.

Experts agree...

Do the hard work, make the effort to restore open communications, and you give your marriage a real chance of being saved.

Stay open to finding solutions...

Then do what you can to get your spouse to do so too!

Simply getting your spouse to the table to try to come up with a strategy and/or plan is often enough to start taking action.

But this requires... communication.

Start with a frank, non-confrontational discussion about the state of communication in your marriage.

Ask your spouse to come aboard with you on the He Zigs, She Zags program, then give it a sincere try.

Since there are no expensive/time-consuming marriage counseling or couples therapy sessions involved, making the right choice should be easy.

What's more, you will be able to work the program together, in the privacy of your own home and individually, at your own pace.

This dramatically improves your chances for success.

Make the decision together to improve
communication and save your marriage!

The He Zigs, She Zags program will give you the tools and skills you need.

Get your marriage on the right path to better dialogue, understanding and finding solutions.

This much is clear...

When a couple is on the same page and committed to a lasting solution, virtually any problem can be overcome.

No matter how hopeless things may appear, with the right skills and dialogue, you can fix your marriage with effective communication!

Good communication skills are learned...

While communication may appear to be natural and smooth for some people, it typically is not.

In most cases, effective communication skills need to be learned.

People are simply not born with a sophisticated set of skills to communicate, particularly when it comes to doing so within a marriage.

Our personalities and quirks often get in the way. They can adversely affect our ability to communicate properly.

By taking the time to understand this, and learning how to effectively manage to communicate in any condition or situation, real improvements can be made.

Couples can better interact and solve the very real problems that adversely affect their marriages.

Ultimately, the results can be nothing short of incredible. You will find yourselves having more fun, laughing more and just plain getting along better. You and your spouse will find yourself connecting at a new level, with no arguing or bickering. To put it as plainly as we can, your marriage will be happier.

We know this, because we have seen it work for thousands of clients.

This is how we know we can help your marriage!

Gain the skills and knowledge to better communicate,
without expensive counseling or therapy!

Here's an interesting revelation:

Most couples already know they have to improve their overall communication with their spouses.

So if they know that it needs to be done, why don't more of them do it?

Simply put, for many couples, real life gets in the way!

Think about it...

For couples juggling careers, kids, and all the related activities and responsibilities of daily life, it's hard to make time and spare the resources to effectively deal with problems!

Never mind the time required to commit to counseling and therapy, or the expense!

With marriage counseling costing up to hundreds of dollars per session, many couples simply cannot afford to go.

For others who work crazy hours with their jobs or professions, time is more the issue than money. There simply is not enough time and coordination available for couples to work on their marriages.

So dealing with the issues simply get put off, often until it's too late.

He Zigs, She Zags helps couples help themselves -
without the expense/time requirements of counseling or therapy!

For some couples, there is no doubt that intensive counseling may be necessary to save a marriage. If it even can be saved.

Yet for most, just having the right program or blueprint to follow in order to re-establish proper communication is sufficient for real change and real improvement!

That's what He Zigs, She Zags delivers!

Since getting married just over a year ago we realize that most of our issues stem from lack of communication. We have always said that we knew each other like the back of our hands, but without good open communication that isn't true. He Zigs, She Zags has allowed us to actually talk about these issues openly and has made a huge difference in our young marriage. These days everyone communicates through electronics, and we were no exception, and when it came to disagreements we would keep everything bottled up until we were at work and then text each other our frustrations. Now we hardly text at all, we wait until we are together and talk, about everything. He Zigs, She Zags has really shed a light on how communication is key to a successful relationship.

- Lori M., New York

Give Your Marriage the
Fighting Chance It Deserves!

Take advantage of our program to improve your marriage,
starting in just a matter of hours!

Best of all, at an incredible value!

Our standard live 4-session coaching program for He Zigs, She Zags costs $500 or more, depending on the number of students. But for this downloadable media course version, you won't pay anything near that price.

In fact, you will pay a fraction of the cost of just one live session!

For a highly limited time

He Zigs, She Zags

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Make No Mistake...

With all this value, knowledge, and actionable information
packed into a proven program, you really cannot go wrong.

In fact, we are so sure that you will get several times
your money's worth from He Zigs, She Zags,

that we will take ALL THE RISK.

You get a full 30 days to give the He Zigs, She Zags Program an honest try.

If you decide that it won't help you and your spouse significantly improve
your communication skills, as well as your overall marriage, no problem.

We will insist that you get every penny back.

No questions asked!

There is absolutely NO RISK to you.

I want to thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for He Zigs, She Zags. Since going through the program it has been a true blessing for me and my husband. We have learned so much through the COUPLE Communication Method as we begin to have an extraordinary marriage. Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! May God bless you for giving this blessing to us and others.

- Tamika B. , Texas

Thank you for being so open and honest about your marriage. The struggles, the celebrations, and just the way you do life with marriage is simply amazing. I have learned so much from you both while going through He Zigs, She Zags. Since starting the program my outlook on how I communicate with my wife and my marriage has changed dramatically. Like the difference between night and day. Again, thank you so much for not shying away from the tough topics in marriage. You guys ROCK!!!

- Chad J., Louisiana

You now have a decision to make...

Either take the necessary step to initiate a real, lasting change in your marriage...


Keep doing what you and your spouse are doing now, hoping things will just get better...

Come along with us on this journey,
and we'll make you one promise...

Every couple who takes action and commits to this program will get results.

Your communications will improve in a matter of days. You will find yourselves finally being able to solve those problems that have been plaguing your marriage.

There is only one reason that it won't work.

If you just buy it, download it, and do nothing else.

If you buy our product, we ask that you make us one promise.

Pay attention, put what you learn to action.

If you do, you will see results and improvements, it really is that simple.

If you don't see improvement for any reason, then simply request your money back.

Get Instant Access Now,
and Let's Do This!

Love You Guys!

Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo

PS. Everything we teach you in He Zigs, She Zags has been tested and proven by countless clients. This program is nothing less than a blueprint to transform your marriage. Remember, you're protected by our iron-clad guarantee.

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