There’s probably not many people you speak with about your sex life completely, openly and honestly. Nothing is wrong with that — what you do in the bedroom is between you, your spouse and God.

But, because there is a huge knowledge gap, most of us assume everyone else is either just like us, or just like the media shows it. Let’s be honest – neither are true.

That’s where the power of the ONE family can help us all out! We conducted an online survey on sex & orgasms and thanks to hundreds of you who completed it, we can share what’s REALLY going on in married bedrooms.

Some things confirmed what we already knew, but some things surprised us. You will find yourself in some of these numbers; but no matter whether you’re in the majority or minority, know that you are not alone.

Every marriage and spouse is unique. That’s why we love what we do here at OEM so much — there’s no one right method to do marriage, sex, or life, and we get to learn from each other.  

One caveat: We share this with you so that you can see the diversity of sexual intimacies and be encouraged to grow together – not to be a barometer of how “good” you and your spouse are (we have a whole show dedicated to the comparison trap).  

If there’s an area you want to grow in, let us help you! Check out some of our resources below, or learn more about the Position Post. The monthly magazine for married couples with tips and insights on communication, sex, romance, date night, and more…

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Crank Up Your Sex Drive

Lack of Sexual Desire

Jump Start Your Sex Drive with Libido Boosting Vitamins and Minerals

Sexually Satisfied

Honor Your Words

Being Sensual

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