IT’S TIME TO FEEL AWKWARD AND OUT OF PLACE

Conversation is essential in your marriage.

It's Time to Feel Awkward and Out of Place

The joy, pleasure and connection it brings to you and your spouse is amazing. Yet, when it comes to truly connecting emotionally, getting past the surface talk, and into the deep intimate conversations…

Well, it’s been awhile.

OK, maybe you’ve had a deep conversation more than once since those early days when you first met.

But there is still a lack of connection that you desire in your marriage.

The reason is that you and your spouse connect very differently. You sense it.

We are no different…

The first 10 years of our marriage we would clash like oil and water when we would try to take our conversations to a deeper level.

Tony would ask question after question, waiting for a reply. Pressing for an answer.

Alisa would sit there, get frustrated and shut down. It was like a power outage of epic proportions.

Not a healthy way to move past the surface talk and into deeper conversation.

Even though you and your spouse may have different ways that you express your desires once you understand this connecting becomes easier.

On our weekly podcast, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, we hear from many of our listeners that the struggle for a deeper intimacy is real.

Believe us when we say it’s tough to get started.

We get it, it’s hard to know where to start the conversation. It feels awkward and uncomfortable.

To help you get started on what to talk about check out 101 Proven Questions for Couples.

These questions will help the both of you discuss areas beyond work, the kids, and other activities.

Schedule time on your calendar for your marriage. It’s important that you both realize how vital this is to your marriage.

By putting each other on your calendars and holding to this time it shows the value you place on your spouse and your marriage.

Find a morning, afternoon, or an evening to go through these questions. Pick one to start off and progress from there.

Of the utmost importance is that both of you are taking time to honestly answer each question.

This isn’t a contest to get through all the questions as quickly as possible. In fact try just one or two questions a day. Listen to your spouse as they open up about their desires are for your marriage.

You may feel out of place or awkward when you start asking and answering these questions about sex, finances, spirituality, friends, family, and much more.

It’s normal and OK.

If you desire to have a deeper connection as well as more passion and romance with your spouse then you need to take off the masks.

For more advice on how to strengthen your marriage, check out He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path today!

Watch the video below to rekindle the spark and restore the connection in your marriage today!

In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.

Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!

Disclosure of Material Connection: Some of the links in the post above are “affiliate links.” This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, we will receive an affiliate commission. Regardless, we only recommend products or services we use personally and believe will add value to our readers. We are disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Medical Disclaimer: The content of this article & website is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended as, nor should it be considered a substitute for, professional medical advice. Do not use the information on this website for diagnosing or treating any medical or health condition. If you have or suspect you have a medical problem, promptly contact your professional healthcare provider.