5 WAYS TO RUIN DATE NIGHT

You’re finally getting out on a date night with your spouse. It’s been months since the two of you have been able to get one in and yet this weekend you are getting away. Just the two of you at your favorite restaurant as you love on each other.
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011: OUR BEGINNING…HOW THE ROMANCE STARTED

We step back in time to talk about how it all started for us. It was the summer of 1994 when Alisa came to the University of Colorado at Boulder on an internship program. I was a student, cook, and maintenance man around the fraternity house where she was staying.
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009: ARE YOU DATING YOUR SPOUSE?

You’ve heard everyone talk about it…but are you doing it? Date night that is. Low budget or over the top, spending time with your spouse is critical to the life of your marriage. Listen as we talk about some of our most recent date nights and what you can do to make date night a…
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VALENTINE’S DAY RANT

I’m not into Valentine’s Day. Never have been and I don’t think I ever will. It’s a Hallmark holiday in my opinion. Something put on our calendar to make us feel compelled to show our love, usually with gifts, to the one that matters most. Our spouse. My question is, shouldn’t we be showing our love  to…
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DEBT SUCKS!

Do you and your spouse ever discuss finances outside of the when the bills are due? I mean sit down pull out the BUDGET, we call it a Cash Flow Plan, and talk about your finances. Which one of you is the Spender? How about the Saver?
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7 DAYS TO AN ON FIRE MARRIAGE

Each of us desires to be more romantic in our marriage. You may be in a loving relationship, but you don’t know the first thing about how to romance from the heart. Sure, you can say, “I love you,” just fine, but all those wonderful, romantic ideas just seem to escape you.
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MORE…40 DAYS TO A MIND BLOWING MARRIAGE

“I need to think about it.” WHAT!!! He had to think about it? C’mon I had just said yes to making love to him for 60 days!!! What in the heck did he have to think about? It turns out that he had some of the same questions that I did.
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40 DAYS TO A MIND BLOWING MARRIAGE

It’s time we came clean with how we find ourselves writing this blog and even talking about marriage. It all started back in August 2008. Tony and I were about to lead a small group on intimacy and had stumbled across an interview with two couples who had done what would seem virtually impossible.
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