The holiday season is here, and with it comes the search for the perfect gift for your spouse. In this gift guide for married couples, you’ll discover some of the most romantic gift ideas to express your love and deepen your intimacy this holiday season.


Presents can be a powerful, tangible expression of your love. Whether it’s a small, meaningful gesture or an extravagant surprise, the thought and effort put into selecting a gift for your spouse can convey your love in a profound way.

Gift-giving can affect all of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®. Keep these pillars in mind as you select gifts for your spouse. With a bit of intentionality, you can celebrate the holidays and strengthen your marriage for the year to come.

Married Couples Gift Guide

Check out the ideas below to WOW your spouse this holiday season. From artisan charcuterie boards and empowering apparel to sexy games and more, you’re sure to find a romantic gift that your spouse will love.

Sexy Board Games 

Sexy board games have been all the rage among the ONE Family recently, and for good reason! These romantic games are a fun way to deepen your intimacy and grow closer to your spouse.

Tic-Tac-To The Bedroom Game
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If you’re new to sexy board games, try out the Tic-Tac-To the Bedroom Game. With 50 sexy questions, 28 foreplay activities, and 28 intimate sex activities, it can help the two of you deepen your emotional and sexual intimacy in fun and unique ways.

Love Battleship

gift guide for couples - love battleship (1)And if you’re a fan of the classic battleship game, Love Battleship is for you! This game is perfect for a date night when you want to forget about everything happening around you and just have a good time.

GIFT TIP: Looking to get your hands on two sexy board games for one great deal? Check out the Sexy Board Game Bundle!

Surprise Date Cards

gift guide for married couplesAnother favorite sexy game is Surprise Date Cards. These 52 unique dating cards—26 for each spouse—can bring an element of surprise to your otherwise organized and routine lives.

The Game of Love: Bedroom Board Game

Want to turn your bedroom into the ultimate board game? This next romantic gift has you covered!

The Game of Love

gift guide for married couples

The Game of Love is a blank game board printing onto a fitted bed sheet. Using washable fabric markers, you can fill in each space with a question, activity, gift, or another idea.

When you’re ready to play, you and your spouse will roll the die and move along the game board. The game is endlessly customizable! Plus, your purchase includes access to the Idea Vault, which can provide inspiration as you fill in your game board.

Luxurious Pajamas with a Purpose

Husbands, here’s a unique and romantic gift idea for your wife!

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Token Clothing Co. creates clothing to uplift and empower women. This luxurious pajama line features affirmations printed all over the interior of the garment, touching the wearer’s skin.

The affirmations include phrases such as “I am beautiful,” “I am loved,” and many more.

gift guide for married couples

Many women face limiting beliefs and negative self-talk, but this gorgeous apparel promotes confidence with its sincere affirmations.

Made in the U.S.A, the pajama fabric is a cool, breathable, moisture-wicking french terry modal-cotton blend that drapes beautifully on every shape and size.

Boarderie: Artisan Charcuterie and Cheese Boards

Boarderie gift guide for couples

Is your spouse a “foodie”? Do they enjoy the simple pleasures of excellent food? Surprise them this holiday season with an artisan charcuterie board.

Boarderie ships beautifully-crafted, fully-arranged boards with free shipping nationwide. This is a great gift for any spouse that loves gourmet artistry and delicious foods.

Boarderie gift guide for couples

With a variety of boards featuring cheeses, meats, crackers, nuts, and more, you can select the perfect board for your spouse. The extra thought and effort goes a long way in the romance department.

Gift Guide married couples

Liberator Sex Furniture

If you’ve been wanting to try something new and romantic in the bedroom, the holidays are the perfect time to purchase something from the Liberator collection. It’s a gift for you, your spouse, and your marriage!

From pillows and wedges to ramps and cushions, there are a variety of sex furniture you can gift your spouse this holiday season.

Liberator Wedge Ramp Combogift guide for married couples

For example, the Wedge Ramp Combo has been hailed as the “greatest invention for sex since the bed.” This furniture items helps increase sexual stamina and performance by providing a stable and supportive sex platform using high-density foam inserts.

Liberator Flip Ramp

gift guide for married couplesAnother favorite among the ONE Family is the Liberator Flip Ramp, which is the perfect combination of functionality and discretion. When open, the shape is an inclined ramp that allows for deeper penetration and access. Closed, it is a supportive, rocking pedestal for your partner, ideal for from-behind positions.

Liberator Jaz Motion Sex Pillow


Or are you looking for something more petite and discrete? The Liberator Jaz Motion sex pillow cushion is all about keeping your booty moving and your body stable. It helps support, lift, and elevate your body to connect better with your spouse and keep your bodies aligned.

Check out the full collection of Liberator sex furniture here. 

Überlube: High-End Lubricant

Since romance is a pivotal aspect of sexual intimacy, no romantic gift guide would be complete without Überlube!

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Überlube is a high-end luxury lubricant designed to transfer sensation while reducing friction. It feels amazingly silky and performs as long as you’re using it. When Überlube stops being manipulated, it starts to dissipate, leaving skin soft and moisturized, never wet or sticky.

GIFT TIP: Überlube pairs nicely with a sexy board game or a Liberator sex furniture piece.

How Gifts Impact The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

The holidays shine a unique spotlight on The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, especially when it comes to gift giving. To select the perfect gift, married couples first need emotional intimacy. 

Emotional intimacy is the workhorse of all the pillars. It’s all about understanding and communicating your wants, needs, and desires with each other.

When you know your spouse on a deep level, your gifts can reflect your closeness and connection (in other words, intimacy). In fact, the conversation that happens around gifts and the holidays are necessary to ensure your emotional intimacy remains strong throughout the season.

Gifts impact more than just emotional intimacy, though. Collaborative discussions about budgets and spending can strengthen your financial intimacy. Gifts that promote fun, new experiences will deepen your recreational intimacy. You can find gifts to deepen your physical, spiritual, and sexual intimacy too!

With each of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® in mind, you can choose the best gifts to give your spouse this holiday season.

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