471: THE DANGER OF ISOLATION

“Isolation is the enemy of improvement.” —Tony Wagner Isolation is a powerful weapon that can destroy even the best of projects, people, and relationships. We were not meant to live in isolation because of how damaging the effects can be. Healthy relationships tie us together with other people who can support, encourage and equip us to…
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453: FEAR IS CRIPPLING MARRIAGES

“When we invite fear, doubt or worry to occupy seats in the boardroom of our heart, all kinds of things can wreck the joy of our marriages.” —Anonymous Fear is a natural human emotion. It has a biological purpose to enable us to perceive danger and make wise choices. But it creeps way beyond its…
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[INFOGRAPH] HOW BOUNDARIES ENGENDER TRUST

It may sound backwards at first, but the data is clear — couples who have defined, shared boundaries regarding interactions with people of the opposite sex have fewer trust issues than those who don’t. Think of it like installing a fence around the backyard before letting young kids out to play. The fence sets a…
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421: TELLING YOUR SPOUSE YOU STRUGGLE WITH PORN

“The truth may hurt for a little while but a lie hurts forever.” —Anonymous Tony came into our marriage with an addiction to porn. It started with magazines at a young age and progressed to chat rooms and even trying to pick up women in bars after marriage.
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