In 1996 we said “I Do”. Since then we have experienced life. What’s also incredible is to think that the ONE Family is almost 10 years old! To celebrate, we want to give you the most potent lessons we’ve learned to help marriages find new life. We figured the best way to share this would…

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You can’t put a price on the pain that “split holidays” have on the kids, how it feels to move out of your home, or watching your spouse date new people. Divorces cost more than money. There are many “silent” costs of divorce that you’ll have to pay if you resolve your marriage. Please consider…

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It’s not your husband or your wife that’s the problem. The problem is the problem. Do you remember the part in your vows where it was spoken that the “two become one”?  That piece is talking about the two of you. The two of, now marriage, have became one.

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What’s the risk reward in your marriage? There’s a risk in any relationship between two people. You risk being vulnerable. You risk being rejected. You risk being misunderstood. You risk hurt feelings. You risk anger. You risk silence. You risk the distance growing in your marriage. You risk losing your marriage.

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The truth is that every couple goes through cycles of good times and tough times. The bigger issue is when those cycles last indefinitely and no one takes action. I want out. I don’t want to do this anymore. It’s too hard.

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Do either of these sound familiar… “I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded(husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.” OR “Will you have this woman/man to be your wife/husband, to live together in…

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