headaches

“Some pain you can distance yourself from but a headache sits right where you live.” —Mark Lawrence Headaches can happen right before orgasm and last until after sex. Sometimes it’s a quick headache and other times it can last for a while. If you’ve tried to do an online search on the topic, you’ve more…

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oral sex

“It’s amazing how one little conversation can change things forever.” —Anonymous Sexual intimacy can be a tough conversation for couples to have at times. Many will agree that the topic of oral sex is even more difficult to talk about. Oral sex has a different level of intentionality to it because it’s a conversation that…

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crying during sex

“Tears are words the heart cannot express.” —Anonymous Crying during sex, or “post-coital dysphoria,” happens to many women (42% of women in the ONE family have had this happen). There can be several reasons why a woman might cry during sex or after orgasm: From the intensity of her orgasm to reliving past sexual trauma. …

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her cycle

“When a woman tells you she started her period the correct response is NEVER “well that explains it”.” —Anonymous A women’s cycle is often an overlooked topic in marriage.  Beyond how long it lasts, there’s a lot more to it. Including the impact of her cycle on your marriage. 

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undress

“What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful.” —Brene Brown Do you watch your spouse get undressed? Do they enjoy this? The answer to this question might surprise you.

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sleep naked

“Sleeping naked is good, to sleep naked with you is the best.” —Anonymous Have you ever slept naked? Yep, we are talking no clothes. If you have never explored this as an option, or if you’ve done it in the past and have forgotten how much you loved it, you may want to consider it…

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everyone home

“When you are really in need you think of creative solutions to your problems.” —Anonymous Like many, you may be faced with a similar, but also extended, set of obstacles during the coronavirus pandemic. Similar to summer break or Christmas break, you may now realize that as everyone is always around, there is a whole…

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sanctuary

“To be creative you must create a space for yourself where you can be undisturbed… separate from everyday concerns.” —John Cleese Your bedroom should be your space. It should be a place for you to retreat to as a sanctuary from the stresses of the world. It’s also the space for you and your spouse…

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