EROGENOUS ZONES

722: EROGENOUS ZONES

“Too often we underestimate the power of touch. Especially when it comes to creating arousal.” —Leo Buscaglia Erogenous zones… have you specifically talked about this aspect of sexual intimacy? Let’s backtrack a little. What do you think of when you hear “erogenous zones”
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alcohol and intimacy

719: ALCOHOL AND INTIMACY

“Alcohol is a perfect solvent. It destroys marriages, families and careers.” —Anonymous Did you know a study by the University at Buffalo Research Institute on Addictions (RIA) determined a marriage is more likely to end in divorce if one party is a heavy drinker? Of course, a “heavy drinker” is defined as six or more…
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too tired for sex

718: TOO BUSY OR TOO TIRED FOR SEX

“When someone tells you they are too busy…it’s not a reflection of their schedule. It’s a reflection of your spot on their schedule.” —Steve Maraboli Too busy… too tired for sex. Two phrases that are not great for your sexual intimacy. Let’s be clear, sometimes you are busy. Sometimes you are tired. We’re not talking…
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future

717: WHAT IF YOU COULD CHANGE THE FUTURE

“Nothing we do can change the past but everything we do can change the future.” —Ashleigh Brillant It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married for a month or for 50 years, you can reflect on where you’ve been and you can make a choice on what your future will look like. To do this, you…
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declutter

5 TIPS TO DECLUTTER YOUR BEDROOM FOR GREAT SEX

Your bedroom should be your space. It should be a retreat; a sanctuary from the stresses of the world. It’s also the space for you and your spouse to have those romantic moments together.  Your bedroom is important. Ideally, your bedroom is the place where the two of you sleep, unwind, cuddle, connect emotionally, and…
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solo masturbation

713: WHAT’S THE ISSUE WITH SOLO MASTURBATION

“What’s done in the dark will come to light.” —Anonymous The role of masturbation can take on many facets within your marriage. You may have incorporated masturbation into your marriage because of illness or physical impairments.
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summer sex challenge

710: SUMMER SEX CHALLENGE

“The bigger the challenge, the bigger the opportunity.” —Anonymous Summer is here! With that comes changes in schedules, vacations, the kids around and the opportunity for your marriage to take a back seat, unless you are intentional and decide to take action so that this doesn’t happen. It is possible. It’s so easy to get…
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excuses

706: ARE YOU MAKING EXCUSES TO AVOID HAVING SEX?

“You can have results or excuses, not both.” —Anonymous The problem with excuses is that they often have an element of truth in them. Why? Because they are a way of saying you don’t want to do something that you don’t want to face.
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