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E=I-B+A: The Extraordinary Life Formula

(It’s Even Better Than You Think)

Does your life look like you dreamed it would when you were little?

Are you doing the job you thought you would have?

Does your family look like what you thought it would?

Do your relationships work the way that you want them to?

Many people want to lead lives that are extraordinary. Unfortunately, they are stuck in the day to day routines with little hope of change and even less know-how on what to do to create change.

The Extraordinary Life Formula equips your audience with the specific things that they can do starting today to make that change to the extraordinary.

Extraordinary = Intentional – Busyness + Action.

This keynote is more than just another motivational speech, Tony and Alisa challenge every attendee to engage in practical action to create the life that they desire.

The S.E.X. Talk

Men and women it is OK and even encouraged for you to think about S.E.X.


Because when you hear what S.E.X. stands for you are going to realize that this idea impacts every relationship that you have. It’s not just about the physical act of sex, which is important. It’s about what S.E.X. stands for in everyone’s life.

Alisa will share with your audience specific strategies that they can implement today to :

S – Schedule Time Together

E – Enrich the Relationship

X – eXchange Roles

Each one of these skills, when developed, will create a new dynamic in both  personal and professional relationships.

These specific strategies help men and women navigate this new way of looking at life.

Alisa will help your audience achieve a stronger relationships, increased productivity and laser focus on what they need to do to make things happen for themselves.

Key Takeaways
  • How to let go of the myth of what relationships are supposed to look like.
  • Where to find the time to make their relationships a priority.
  • How to discover new and creative ways to bring the spark to any relationship.
  • Why is it important to both give and take in a relationship.
  • How to incorporate S.E.X. into any of their relationships.

Follow the Yellow Brick Road

You’ve been there…

He’s saying this, you’re saying that and it seems like the two of you can’t even get on the same path to achieve what you want in your marriage.

It’s time to look in the mirror and figure out who you are and what is keeping you from the communication that you desire in your relationship.

Are you the Scarecrow who feels deeply but struggles with thinking she is inadequate?

Maybe you are the Tin Man, someone who has been so hurt by life that your shell is impenetrable, you won’t let anyone close to your heart?

What about the Cowardly Lion who lives in this place of fear, roaring away all who try and come close?

Like Dorothy, each and every woman desires to go home, to that place of safety and love. It takes facing the real you, acknowledging who that woman is and taking the steps to make your life different.

Alisa’s keynote will empower your audience to acknowledge who they are in terms of these characters that are all so familiar.

From this place of empowerment she will provide real life solutions and strategies to enable each and every woman to take her communication to the next level.

Key Takeaways
  • How to schedule your conversations so that they are effective instead of destructive.
  • Why vulnerability is important in relationships.
  • The simple changes you can make to both the spoken language and your body language to change the conversation.
  • How to truly listen.
  • Why grace and forgiveness matter.


He Zigs, She Zags

(It’s Time We Crossed Paths)

It’s time to take control of the communication in your marriage. There is so much that is happening in your life each and every day that if you do not take the time to learn how to best connect with your spouse you are going to struggle for years to come.

  • Connect with your spouse by taking off the masks and telling the truth
  • Communicate on the same playing field
  • Resolve arguments without shutting down
  • Make subtle adjustments so your spouse knows you understand what’s being said
  • Get better battery life with your phone, and grow your relationship

7 Days of Sex

(Take the Challenge)

Life is stressful, but when you are too busy (or tired) to find some time for sexual intimacy, it can really seem unbearable. 7 Days of Sex makes it easy for busy couples like you to find some fun time together because it ELIMINATES the stress of figuring out what you need to do for 7 days that will be new and creative to try.

You’ll be armed with the knowledge on what you need to do to have your own 7 Days of Sex Challenge. Every year our marriages need to be growing and  it is important for you to accomplish something that will set it up for a lot of growth.

For more information on booking Tony and/or Alisa for your next speaking engagement, please contact us.

[About Tony & Alisa]

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo are sought-after speakers and podcast hosts on the topics of sex, love, and marriage. Tony & Alisa share the hardships and triumphs that they have had in their marriage.  Through their stories, energy, and passion they  inspire couples to live an extraordinary marriage.

Each keynote is  going to equip couples with the tools that they need to take action and make the changes needed in their marriage to have amazing sex, love, communication, spiritual growth, and more.

Tony & Alisa use a combination of humor and straight talk to engage your guests and help them to identify the areas in their marriage that are already amazing and those that need a little elbow grease.  They speak to audiences large and small, and pride themselves on being able to interact with your audience.

Tony & Alisa have been featured on Lifestyle Magazine, Marriage Magazine, MSN Living and are the author of two books Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage and 7 Days of Sex Challenge. Their podcast is consistently in the Top 5 under marriage in iTunes with an audience around the world.

Let’s work together to create an outstanding event for your youth conference, church, marriage conference or retreat. Our message can be covered in anywhere from 30 mins to 2 hours, depending on your needs.

For more information on booking Tony and/or Alisa for your next speaking engagement, please contact us.

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