Words have the ability to build up and/or tear down your spouse.

There is one word that can and will strike fear, self-doubt, anger, withdrawal and other emotions…


When the word divorce is thrown around to get your spouse’s attention, to get a reaction, or to get them in line it’s sending a message that is detrimental to many areas of your marriage.

Once the word divorce is said doesn’t mean it’s always going to be said.

We can confidently say that divorce will never be an option for us.

Do you want to “divorce-proof” your marriage?

To do this, there is one crucial conversation you need to have.  

This conversation isn’t just for “struggling couples” — this is also important for healthy and happy couples!

In this video we share…

  • Why using the word “divorce” actually makes getting a divorce more likely — this alone is enough reason to ditch the d-word!
  • The hidden hurt that happens to your spouse every time you use the word divorce
  • The EXACT conversation WE had that took divorce off the table – and what WORDS you can use instead.

If your marriage is at the point where the word divorce has been used so many times that your spouse is about to walk out the door it’s time to take action and save your marriage.

Resources For All Couples Committed To A Thriving Marriage

7 Days Of Sex Challenge: how busy spouses find time to get back into bed together and rebuild their physical intimacy.

Save My Marriage: how to discover the truth, cut through the lies and pain, and stop divorce dead in it’s tracks and rebuild the strong intimate marriage you’ve always wanted — even if your spouse doesn’t want to (the #1 resource we recommend for those on the brink of divorce.

He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication On The Same Path: our best selling program that revolutionizes communication between thousands of couples every year. Plus, learn the #1 way to diffuse tension in every argument.

We hope you loved the behind-the-scenes video and if you’re struggling with any of the points mentioned our resources above are the #1 place to start.

Watch the video below to rekindle the spark and restore the connection in your marriage today!

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