# One Extraordinary Marriage > Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo help married couples build stronger marriages through The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: emotional, physical, sexual, financial, spiritual, and recreational intimacy. They write, podcast, and coach couples, and they train pastors, counselors, and mentors as certified coaches. ## The 6 Pillars of Intimacy guides - [Emotional Intimacy: The Foundation of a Strong Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/guide-to-emotional-intimacy.txt): Emotional intimacy in marriage: what it is, why it matters, and how to build it. Source page: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-emotional-intimacy/ - [Financial Intimacy: Building Unity in Money Matters](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/guide-to-financial-intimacy.txt): Financial intimacy in marriage: money, trust, and building a shared plan. Source page: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-financial-intimacy/ - [Physical Intimacy: The Power of Non-Sexual Touch in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/guide-to-physical-intimacy.txt): Physical intimacy in marriage: non-sexual touch, why it fades, and how to rebuild it. Source page: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-physical-intimacy/ - [Recreational Intimacy: The Joy of Playing Together](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/guide-to-recreational-intimacy.txt): Recreational intimacy in marriage: friendship, fun, and time spent together. Source page: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-recreational-intimacy/ - [Sexual Intimacy: Building a Thriving Sex Life in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/guide-to-sexual-intimacy.txt): Sexual intimacy in marriage: what gets in the way and how couples reconnect. Source page: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-sexual-intimacy/ - [Spiritual Intimacy: The Deepest Connection in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/guide-to-spiritual-intimacy.txt): Spiritual intimacy in marriage: shared faith, prayer, and growing together. Source page: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-spiritual-intimacy/ ## Coaching - [Marriage Coaching](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/marriage-coaching.txt): One-on-one marriage coaching with Alisa DiLorenzo, built on The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: how it works, who it is for, and how to apply. Source page: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-coaching/ ## Emotional Intimacy - [10 Common Marriage Reconciliation Mistakes After Infidelity](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-reconciliation-mistakes-infidelity/): You’ve made the decision to try. After the discovery, the devastation, and the sleepless nights, you’re both still here – willing to fight for your… - [10 REASONS WHY COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR SPOUSE IS IMPORTANT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-reasons-why-communicating-with-your-spouse-is-important/): Small adjustments to the way you are communicating with your spouse, can have a tremendous compounding effect on the quality of your marriage. - [10 THINGS YOU NEED TO LEAVE BEHIND](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-things-you-need-to-leave-behind/): Here are 10 things to leave behind with the rest of the weird, crazy stuff that has happened this past year. - [10 WAYS BICKERING NEGATIVELY IMPACT YOUR LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-ways-bickering-negatively-impacts-your-life/): Bickering can negatively impact your life in more ways than you think. Learn a step-by-step process to eliminate bickering from your life. - [12 Days of Christmas Challenge to Strengthen Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/12-days-of-christmas-challenge-to-strengthen-your-marriage/): Strengthen your marriage this holiday season with the 12 Days of Christmas Challenge. These tips will help you feel close and connected. - [12 Empty Nest Gift Ideas for Married Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/12-empty-nest-gift-ideas-for-married-couples/): Holidays can be hard after your kids move out. Spark joy this Christmas with these 12 empty nest gift ideas! - [12 ROMANTIC IDEAS TO RING IN THE NEW YEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/12-romantic-ideas-to-ring-in-the-new-year/): Celebrate this New Year's with one of these fun romantic ideas that is for sure to leave you both excited for what's ahead. - [13 AWE INSPIRING CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE QUOTES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/13-awe-inspiring-christian-marriage-quotes/): Christian marriage quotes to inspire you and give you hope. Pick the one(s) that speak to you and place them where you can see them and read them each day. - [13 PHRASES THAT TURN YOUR SPOUSE OFF](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/13-phrases-that-turn-your-spouse-off/): There are certain phrases that turn your spouse off. When used they are not going to bring you and your spouse closer together. - [14 CREATIVE VALENTINE’S DAY DATE IDEAS FOR ANY BUDGET](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/14-creative-valentines-day-date-ideas/): With these 14 Valentine’s Day date ideas, you can plan the perfect experience to build romance and connection with your spouse. - [14 Fun Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Married Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/14-fun-valentines-day-gift-ideas-for-married-couples/): Skip the flowers and candy! These 14 creative Valentines Day gift ideas will surprise your husband or wife with something truly special. - [15 Marriage Communication Exercises You Can Start Tonight](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-communication-exercises/): Most couples know they need to communicate better. The trouble is, knowing and doing are two different things. - [15 Ways to Overcome Boredom in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/15-ways-to-overcome-boredom-in-marriage/): Discover 15 practical ideas to shake up your relationship routine and recharge your intimacy to keep boredom out of your marriage. - [16 REASONS WHY I STILL LOVE MY WIFE AFTER 16 YEARS OF MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/16-reasons-why-i-still-love-my-wife-after-16-years-of-marriage/): Still madly in love with your wife? Here are 16 reasons to celebrate why you love her, and how to tell her in ways that matter. - [168 HOURS: YOU HAVE MORE TIME THAN YOU THINK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/168-hours-you-have-more-time-than-you-think/): There are 168 hours in every week. How many are you truly spending to build your marriage? Learn how to set yourself up for success. - [17 POSITIVE DECISIONS WE’VE MADE IN 17 YEARS OF MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/17-positive-decisions-weve-made-in-17-years-of-marriage/): Choices and decisions made in marriage have the potential to impact you and your marriage for many years to come. - [18 DAILY CONNECTIONS TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/18-daily-connections/): When life gets busy, it's important to have daily connections with your spouse. Here are 18 ideas to keep you close and connected. - [22 WAYS TO CHERISH YOUR WIFE ON NATIONAL WIFE DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/22-ways-to-cherish-your-wife-on-national-wife-day/): Make your wife feel loved and appreciated on National Wife Day with these 22 thoughtful ideas. Go celebrate! - [24 MARRIAGE LESSONS WE’VE LEARNED OVER THE LAST 24 YEARS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/24-marriage-lessons/): These are the marriage lessons you can start to use in your own marriage to strengthen communication, build trust and create intimacy. - [25 Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Married Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/25-stocking-stuffer-ideas-for-married-couples/): Need stocking stuffer ideas for your spouse? From romantic to playful, these 25 gifts are perfect for married couples this Christmas. - [28 ROMANTIC CONVERSATION PROMPTS FOR COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/28-romantic-conversation-prompts-for-couples/): With these 28 romantic conversation prompts for married couples, you can strengthen your emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, and beyond. - [28 THINGS WE’RE GRATEFUL FOR AFTER 28 YEARS OF MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/28-things-were-grateful-for-after-28-years-of-marriage/): As we celebrate 28 years of marriage, we're reflecting on 28 things we're grateful for. We encourage you to do the same. - [3 BAD RELATIONSHIP HABITS STEALING JOY FROM YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-bad-relationship-habits-stealing-joy-from-your-marriage/): Wishing you felt more joy and happiness in your marriage? These three bad relationship habits may be to blame. - [3 BITE-SIZED TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILLS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-bite-sized-tips-to-improve-your-communication-skills/): Some of these tips may surprise you. Learn three bite-sized tips to improve your communication skills and your marriage starting today. - [3 INTIMACY KILLERS YOU FACE ON A DAILY BASIS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-intimacy-killers-you-face-on-a-daily-basis/): The things you don’t notice can sometimes rob the most from your marriage. Let us shed some light on the top 3 intimacy killers. - [3 Marriage Lies Keeping You From Deeper Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-marriage-lies-keeping-you-from-deeper-intimacy/): Do you believe some of these common marriage lies? Learn the truth so you can experience the extraordinary marriage you desire. - [3 POSITIVE DECISIONS YOU CAN MAKE TODAY THAT WILL IMPACT YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-positive-decisions-you-can-make-today/): How could putting these positive decisions to work in your marriage today change your marriage this year? How about over the next 5-10, or 20 years? - [3 QUICK TIPS TO A SCREAMFREE DISCUSSION IN 15 MINUTES OR LESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/quick-tips-to-a-screamfree-discussion/): Get ready because it's time for you to have screamfree discussions with your spouse. - [3 REAL BENEFITS OF BEING VULNERABLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-real-benefits-of-being-vulnerable/): Instead of pointing you to a few “simple” tried and true tricks to opening up we are going to point you to the benefits of being vulnerable. - [3 REASONS JEALOUSY IS WRECKING YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-reasons-jealousy-is-wrecking-your-marriage/): Jealousy is dangerous in a marriage. Learn how to identify the root causes of jealousy and restore your emotional intimacy as a couple. - [3 REASONS TO RENEW YOUR VOWS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-reasons-to-renew-your-vows/): Deciding to renew your vows can be a great way to reflect on how far you've come, strengthen your intimacy, and move forward hand in hand. - [3 REASONS YOU SHOULD TALK INSTEAD OF TEXT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/you-should-talk-instead-of-text/): When you put down your phone you might just find, the less you text, the more you’ll connect in all areas of your marriage. - [3 Reasons Your Church Needs to Host a Marriage Conference (And How to Make It Happen!)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-reasons-your-church-needs-to-host-a-marriage-conference-and-how-to-make-it-happen/): Want to know the top three reasons your church should host a marriage conference—and how to make it happen? Read this! - [3 SIMPLE WAYS TO IMPROVE YOURSELF AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-simple-ways-to-improve-yourself-and-your-relationship/): When you Improve yourself and your relationship it doesn’t just impact the two of you. It impacts your kids, extended family and everyone else around you. - [3 SOLID TIPS TO OVERCOME TEMPTATION IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-solid-tips-to-overcome-temptation/): Get out of the grey and back into high definition color. Learn tips to overcoming temptation so your vows and your relationship start to line up once again. - [3 Steps to Handle Conflict Better in Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-steps-to-handle-conflict-better/): Want to know how to handle conflict better in your marriage? Here's what you need to know about conflict cycles and common triggers. - [3 TYPES OF PEOPLE KEEPING YOUR FROM AN EXTRAORDINARY MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-types-of-people/): For the most part people in your life want the best for you. They come beside you, lift you up every chance they get and are encouragers of your marriage. - [3 WAYS TO DEAL WITH PHYSICAL DISTANCE IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-deal-with-physical-distance-in-your-marriage/): Whoever said the phrase, "absence makes the heart grow fonder", must have been talking about their pet cat or dog while they were away. For us our heats ache when there is physical distance in our marriage. - [3 Ways to Decrease the Stress in Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-decrease-the-stress-in-your-marriage/): There are times in your marriage when you are your own worst enemy when it comes to the amount of stress you are experiencing. - [3 WAYS TO ENHANCE COMMUNICATION IN YOUR MARRIAGE STARTING TODAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-improve-communication/): There are three simple ways that you can enhance communication and build emotional intimacy in your marriage starting today. - [3 WAYS TO GET YOUR MARRIAGE MOJO BACK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-get-your-marriage-mojo-back/): There are times when you have your mojo. Then there are times when you are in the valley. Nothing is going your way as you flounder in worry, fear, and despair. - [3 WAYS TO OVERCOME YOUR FEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-overcome-your-fear/): You know what...you can overcome your fear of asking for what you want even if you've been rejected in the past. - [3 WAYS TO SHOW GRATITUDE TO YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-show-gratitude-to-your-spouse/): There are countless ways to show gratitude to your spouse. Deepen your emotional intimacy with appreciation in three easy steps. - [3 WAYS TO TAKE STRESS OUT OF THE HOLIDAYS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-take-stress-out-of-the-holidays/): It's easy to get caught up in the gifts and lose sight of the fact that the holidays aren't about the stuff—they're about the people. - [3 Ways to Turn Wasted Hours Into Quality Time with Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-turn-wasted-hours-into-quality-time/): When you reclaim quality time with your spouse, it's an investment that will pay dividends for the rest of your life. - [3 WORDS TO ENHANCE YOUR EMOTIONAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-words-to-enhance-your-emotional-intimacy/): Words that express your emotions open your heart to your spouses as you dive deeper into your emotional intimacy. - [31 Relationship Holidays to Celebrate with Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/31-relationship-holidays-to-celebrate-with-your-spouse/): From International Couples Day to sexy holidays you never knew existed, discover 31 fun relationship holidays to celebrate with your spouse all year. - [33 Great Ideas to Celebrate National Husband Day](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/33-great-ideas-to-celebrate-national-husband-day/): This National Husband Day, show your spouse that you love and appreciate them with these 33 creative ideas. - [35 Bedroom Games for Couples to Reconnect and Reignite Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/bedroom-games-couples/): The difference between couples who stay connected over decades and those who drift apart often comes down to one simple thing: intentional play. - [4 Powerful Reasons to Start Expressing Gratitude Today](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-powerful-reasons-to-start-expressing-gratitude/): [FREE GUIDE] Expressing gratitude strengthens your intimacy, improves your mental health, and acknowledges the blessings you have. - [4 QUICK TIPS TO IMPROVING COMMUNICATION IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-quick-tips-to-improving-communication-in-your-marriage/): Are you and your spouse great communicators when it comes to your marriage? Learn 4 quick tips to improving communication in your marriage. - [4 Simple Tools for Kinder Marriage Communication](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-simple-tools-for-kinder-marriage-communication/): Every day, your spouse hands you invisible rocks. Sometimes it’s a complaint about the dishes or a story about their coworker. - [4 Things Extraordinary Marriages Get Right (And How to Start)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-4-things-every-extraordinary-marriage-gets-right/): These 4 areas of marriage come up again and again in our coaching calls, inbox, and DMs from couples who are not sure what to do next. - [4 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO KEEP YOUR WEDDING VOWS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-things-you-can-do-to-keep-your-wedding-vows/): Saying your wedding vows and reading them are easy. Doing them is the tough part. Learn four ways to constantly make surethey are living and active. - [40 REASONS WHY YOU ARE AWESOME AND AMAZING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/40-reasons-why-you-are-awesome-and-amazing/): You never get tired of hearing from your spouse how awesome and amazing you are. It's the verbal affirmation that you are being the best spouse to them. - [47 Positive Words to Describe Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/47-positive-words-to-describe-your-spouse/): Looking for words to describe your husband or wife? These 47 positive, meaningful words will help you express love and appreciation for your spouse. - [5 Easy Formats for Couples to Create Meaningful Conversations](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-easy-formats-for-couples-to-create-meaningful-conversations/): Talking all the time but not really connecting? These 5 ideas are perfect for couples who want to experience more meaningful conversations. - [5 HABITS OF HIGHLY HAPPY COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-habits-highly-happy-couples/): Happy couples do not happen by accident. It would seem that highly happy couples have a few things in common which promotes their happiness. - [5 Menopause Myths That Could Be Hurting Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-menopause-myths-that-could-be-hurting-your-marriage/): How long does menopause last? Does it have to suck? Let's bust these five common menopause myths so you can have a stronger marriage. - [5 POWERFULLY SIMPLE WAYS TO REBUILD BROKEN TRUST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-powerfully-simple-ways-rebuild-broken-trust/): Is the cry of your heart to rebuild broken trust (or build more trust)... Learn 5 simple ways to rebuild broken trust starting today. - [5 REASONS FOR COUPLES TO MAKE (OR BREAK) HOLIDAY TRADITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-reasons-for-couples-to-make-or-break-holiday-traditions/): Holiday traditions can have tons of benefits for married couples, as long as you consider these five essential areas. - [5 REASONS TO SAY “I DO” AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-reasons-to-say-i-do-again/): The years have passed since you and your spouse first said, “I do.” Is it time for you and your spouse to say it once again? - [5 Signs Friendship Has Faded in Your Marriage (and How to Get It Back!)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-signs-friendship-has-faded-in-your-marriage-and-how-to-get-it-back/): Friendship is key to a strong marriage. If your spouse feels more like a stranger than a best friend, try these tips to reignite the spark! - [5 SIGNS YOU ARE HAVING AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-warning-signs-that-you-are-having-an-emotional-affair/): An emotional affair is an affair in that you are giving yourself to someone else other than your spouse in the emotional intimacy department. - [5 Signs Your Marriage Is Headed For Divorce (And What To Do About It)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-signs-your-marriage-is-headed-for-divorce/): Worried about divorce? These 5 warning signs reveal if your marriage is in trouble, plus actionable steps to turn things around now. - [5 SIMPLE ACTIONS TO BECOME A POWER COUPLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-simple-actions-to-become-a-power-couple/): Power couples make it a point to do the little everyday things that connect them as a couple. Learn how you can become a power couple. - [5 STATEMENTS THAT DAMAGE YOUR SEXUAL CONNECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-statements-that-damage-your-sexual-connection/): When your spouse feels valued, when they feel desired, when there is a sexual connection it opens up your marriage to experience growth and love. - [5 STEPS TO TACKLE YOUR BIGGEST MARRIAGE ISSUES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-steps-to-tackle-your-biggest-marriage-issues/): Learn the 5 steps to overcome your biggest marriage issues as you begin to experience a closeness with your spouse. - [5 THINGS HAPPILY MARRIED COUPLE DON’T DO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-things-happily-married-couples-dont-do/): Take these lessons to heart and learn what it means to be happily married despite the stresses of life, work, kids and other activities. - [5 WAYS TO PROTECT YOUR EMOTIONAL INTIMACY WHEN FILING TAXES AS A MARRIED COUPLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-ways-to-protect-your-emotional-intimacy-when-filing-taxes-as-a-married-couple/): Filing taxes as a married couple can be stressful. Learn the top five ways to survive the stress of tax season and keep your marriage strong. - [5 WAYS TO REDUCE STRESS AND ENJOY YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-techniques-to-reduce-stress-and-enjoy-your-spouse/): These five techniques are wonderful ways to reduce stress, agitation and anxiety and promote relaxation, calm and peace within yourself and your marriage. - [51 Amazing Things Your Husband Does That You May Not Notice Anymore](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/51-amazing-things/): Celebrate your husband as he is special in his own way to you. - [55 ROAD TRIP QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/55-road-trip-questions-to-ask-your-spouse/): Check out these 55 road trip questions to build closeness and connection with your spouse. Fill the silence with meaningful conversation! - [56 Simple (But Super Effective) Compliments to Encourage Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/encourage-your-spouse/): Looking for compliments for your wife or husband? These 56 heartfelt compliments will encourage your spouse and strengthen your marriage bond. - [6 FORMS OF INTIMACY TO BUILD A STRONG MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-forms-of-intimacy-to-building-a-strong-marriage/): There’s no two ways about it, all forms of intimacy are important. Building a strong marriage needs each of them to thrive. - [6 STEPS TO PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE FROM EMOTIONAL AFFAIRS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-steps-to-protect-your-marriage-from-emotional-affairs/): Learn how to safeguard your marriage and prevent emotional affairs using the The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework. - [6 STEPS TO PUT YOUR MARRIAGE BACK ON THE CALENDAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-steps-to-put-your-marriage-back-on-the-calendar/): If your marriage isn't showing up on the calendar, it's time to put it on there! Here are six ways to prioritize your spouse on the calendar. - [6 Tips for Planning a Vacation for Just the Two of You](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-tips-for-planning-a-vacation-for-just-the-two-of-you/): As you start planning a vacation for just you and your spouse, here are six tips to help you make it a meaningful, romantic getaway. - [6 WAYS TO EXPERIENCE INTIMACY THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-ways-to-experience-intimacy-this-christmas-season/): From exploring your sexual desires to what you can do to refresh and reconnect, this year it’s time to experience intimacy in a new way. - [6 WAYS TO IMPROVE COMMUNICATION IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-ways-to-improve-communication-in-your-marriage/): Do you want better communication in your marriage? Then you need to create a communication framework. And there's a tool to help you do it. - [69 POSITIVE MARRIAGE QUOTES TO INSPIRE AND MOTIVATE YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/69-positive-marriage-quotes-to-inspire-and-motivate-you/): Inspirational & motivational marriage quotes that will encourage you to have an extraordinary marriage. - [7 AWESOME VOWS FOR YOUR WEDDING RENEWAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/awesome-vows/): As you look back on your wedding day, it was an amazing day, and yet you now realize that it's time to renew those vows you said on that day. - [7 Keys to Marriage Success](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-keys-to-marriage-success/): Discover seven keys to marriage success... from service to commitment, connection, and more. - [7 Practical Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-practical-ways-to-strengthen-your-marriage/): Discover 6 simple and practical ways to strengthen your marriage, from conversation starters to fun activities. - [7 REASONS EVERY WIFE NEEDS A MARRIAGE COMMUNITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-reasons-every-wife-needs-a-marriage-community/): Community is essential in every aspect of your life, especially marriage. Here are 7 reasons why every wife needs a marriage community. - [7 SIMPLE WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-simple-ways-to-improve-your-marriage/): Marriage is one of those things that can get more challenging the longer you’re in it. - [7 THINGS WE WISH WE KNEW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-things-we-wish-we-knew-before-getting-married/): There are many things we wish we would have known or learned before we got married but these are some of the biggest ones we've learned since. - [7 Tips for Writing the Perfect Love Note to Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-tips-for-writing-the-perfect-love-note-to-your-spouse/): Want to write a meaningful love note? These 7 tips help you express your feelings in a heartfelt note your spouse will treasure forever. - [7 Ways to Navigate Pregnancy and Infant Loss as a Married Couple](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-ways-to-navigate-pregnancy-and-infant-loss-as-a-married-couple/): October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. Here are 7 ways to protect your marriage as you navigate this heartbreaking journey. - [77 DAY MARRIAGE CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriagechallenge/): The 77 Day Marriage Challenge isn't for the faint of heart, but this challenge is for the couple who is wanting a deeper level of intimacy. - [8 SKILLS YOU NEED TO REVIVE YOUR COMMUNICATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/8-skills-you-need-to-revive-your-communication/): Communication will keep the flames of love, laughter, and intimacy in your marriage growing by connecting at a deeper level of emotional intimacy. - [8 Ways to Deepen Intimacy During Your Bedtime Routine](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/8-ways-to-deepen-intimacy-during-your-bedtime-routine/): Here are eight creative ways to restore your closeness and connection at the end of the day through a couples bedtime routine. - [9 MARRIAGE BOOKS YOU NEED ON YOUR NIGHTSTAND](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/9-marriage-books-you-need-on-your-nightstand/): These are the nine marriage books you should have on your nightstand to take your marriage to the next level. - [9 MEANINGFUL WAYS TO CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS WITH AN EMPTY NEST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/9-meaningful-ways-to-celebrate-christmas-with-an-empty-nest/): Navigating the Christmas season as an empty nest couple can be challenging. Here are nine meaningful ways you can celebrate with your spouse. - [9 THINGS EVERY COUPLE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT CONFLICT RESOLUTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/9-things-every-couple-should-know-about-conflict-resolution/): Conflict doesn't have to harm your marriage. Use these 9 conflict resolution tips to keep your marriage strong amid arguments. - [9 WAYS TO HAVE A SEXY HOLIDAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/9-ways-to-have-a-sexy-holiday/): Don't let the holidays wreck your love life! Here are 9 creative ways to have a sexy holiday season with your spouse. - [9 WAYS TO STAY CONNECTED WHEN YOU ARE LONG DISTANCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/9-ways-to-stay-connected-when-you-are-long-distance/): Learn how to stay connected and build a strong marriage even when you are apart. These will help when you are long distance. - [9 WAYS YOUR MARRIAGE CAN SURVIVE INFIDELITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/9-ways-your-marriage-can-survive-infidelity/): You CAN survive infidelity and come out stronger and more committed than ever before. You can start today with these tips we've used in our marriage. - [[INFOGRAPH] HOW BOUNDARIES ENGENDER TRUST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/infograph-how-boundaries-engender-trust/): Couples who have defined, shared boundaries regarding interactions with people of the opposite sex have fewer trust issues. - [Addiction in Marriage: How to Heal Together (A Guide for Both Spouses)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/addiction-in-marriage/): The moment you discover your spouse has an addiction, everything changes. The trust, the intimacy, the future you imagined – it all feels uncertain. - [Affordable Marriage Retreats: Budget-Friendly Programs That Actually Work (2026 Guide)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/affordable-marriage-retreats/): You want to invest in your marriage, but when you see retreat prices starting at $3,000, your stomach drops. We get it. - [All-Inclusive Marriage Retreats: Your Complete Guide to Hassle-Free Couples Getaways](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/all-inclusive-marriage-retreats/): One of the biggest hurdles couples face when considering a marriage retreat isn’t the emotional work involved. It’s the planning. - [Anniversary Gifts by Year: Creative Ideas for Every Milestone](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/anniversary-gifts-by-year/): Discover creative anniversary gifts by year for every milestone, from newlywed paper gifts to golden 50th celebrations. - [Anxiety in Marriage: Why It Happens and How to Reconnect as a Couple](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-anxiety/): Your heart races. Your mind spirals. You check your phone. Again. - [Back to School: 15 Ways to Rediscover Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/back-to-school-15-ways-to-rediscover-your-spouse/): When was the last time you got curious about your spouse? Here are 6 subjects to study so you can rediscover your spouse this fall. - [Being a Present Husband: Put Down the Phone, Show Up for Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/being-present-as-husband/): He’s sitting on the couch next to her, but he’s not really there. - [Best Christian Marriage Books: 16 Must-Read Books for Faith-Centered Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christian-marriage-books/): When was the last time a book changed your marriage? We can trace specific turning points in our own marriage to specific books we read at exactly the… - [Best Christian Marriage Podcasts in 2026: Top Shows for Couples Who Want More](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christian-marriage-podcast/): You’re driving to work, folding laundry, or lying in bed unable to sleep when you hear it—another couple talking honestly about the very thing you’re… - [Best Intimacy Positions for Couples with Back Pain: A Marriage-First Approach](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/positions-for-back-pain/): Back pain has a way of showing up at the worst possible moments. - [Best Intimacy Positions for Plus-Size Couples: A Body-Positive Guide for Connected Marriages](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/positions-plus-size-couples/): If you’ve ever wondered whether your body limits what’s possible in the bedroom, this guide is for you. - [Best Marriage Books According to the ONE Family](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/best-marriage-books-according-to-the-one-family/): Looking for your next read? Here are the top marriage books according to the ONE Family. Pick one out with your spouse and get reading! - [Best Marriage Retreats 2026: A Couple’s Guide to Proven Programs](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/best-marriage-retreats-2026/): When was the last time you and your spouse stepped away from daily life long enough to actually breathe? - [Biblical Marriage: Building a Faith-Centered Partnership](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hub-biblical-marriage/): What Is a Biblical Marriage? Biblical marriage is a covenant relationship between a husband and wife, designed by God to reflect His love and… - [Biblical Submission in Marriage: What It Really Means (And What It Doesn’t)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/biblical-submission-marriage/): Few words in marriage trigger stronger reactions than “submission.” For some wives, the word brings up images of silenced opinions and suppressed dreams. - [Blended Family Marriage: Building Connection Amid Stepfamily Challenges](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/blended-family-marriage/): Introduction The first time his ex-wife called during our dinner, I felt it immediately—that familiar tension in his jaw, the quick apology, the way he… - [Books on How to Be a Better Wife: 15+ Must-Read Books for Marriage Growth](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/books-on-how-to-be-a-better-wife/): You’re not looking for a book to “fix” you. You’re looking for a book to help you grow. That’s a beautiful distinction. - [Can a Marriage Survive Infidelity? The Truth About Recovery](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/can-marriage-survive-infidelity/): The discovery changed everything. In an instant, every memory is questioned. Every future plan becomes uncertain. - [CAN YOU SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE WHEN YOUR SPOUSE HAS FALLEN IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/my-spouse-has-fallen-in-love-with-someone-else/): If you spouse has fallen in love with someone else this often happen because needs aren’t being met--emotional needs, physical needs, and other needs. - [Christian Marriage Counseling: How to Find the Right Help for Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christian-marriage-counseling/): You’ve tried praying about your marriage problems. You’ve tried talking. You’ve tried the books and podcasts. - [Christian Marriage Retreat: Finding a Faith-Based Program That Fits](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christian-marriage-retreat/): You want more than techniques for your marriage. You want transformation rooted in something deeper than self-help. - [Christian Wedding Vows: Sacred Promises That Shape Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christian-wedding-vows/): The moment you speak your wedding vows changes everything. Standing before God, your family, and your future spouse, you make promises that go deeper than… - [Communication in Marriage: 8 Skills to Actually Be Heard by Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/communication-in-marriage/): Sixty-five percent of divorces cite poor communication as the leading cause. - [Communication in Marriage: The Complete Guide to Finally Being Heard](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hub-communication-marriage/): Why Communication Is the Foundation of Every Strong Marriage You can love someone deeply and still feel completely alone in your marriage. - [Conflict Resolution in Marriage: 7 Ways to Fight Fair and Grow Closer](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/conflict-resolution-marriage/): Every couple fights. The difference between couples who thrive and couples who drift apart isn’t whether they have conflict. It’s how they handle it. - [COUPLE WITH YOUR SPOUSE FOR A LASTING CONNECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/couple-with-your-spouse-for-a-lasting-connection/): Today we can stay connected to our spouse by texting/sexting, email, chat, Skype, phone calls, snail mail, Twitter, Facebook, and Pair. - [Couples Therapy Retreat: A Complete Guide to Reconnecting Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/couples-therapy-retreat/): There’s a difference between needing a vacation together and needing to work on your marriage together. A couples therapy retreat offers both. - [DAVE RAMSEY SAVED OUR SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/dave-ramsey-saved-our-sex-life/): That’s right, Dave Ramsey Saved Our Sex Life! You might be wondering how a financial guy like Dave Ramsey, best selling author of Financial Peace , who… - [DEBT SUCKS!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/debt-sucks/): Do you and your spouse ever discuss finances outside of the when the bills are due? - [Destination Marriage Retreats: Renew Your Marriage in Paradise](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/destination-marriage-retreats/): Table of Contents 1. What Are Destination Marriage Retreat s? 2. Is a Destination Retreat Right for Your Marriage? 3. - [Devotions for Married Couples: How to Start (Even When It Feels Awkward)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/devotions-for-married-couples/): You know you “should” do devotions together. Maybe you’ve even tried a few times. But here’s what actually happens: Life gets busy. - [DO YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE EFFECTIVELY DEAL WITH THE “BIG ISSUES”?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/big-issues/): Far too often, couples are scared stiff to tread the dangerous waters of the big issues. - [DO YOU WANT YOUR SPOUSE TO MAKE A CHANGE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/do-you-want-your-spouse-to-make-a-change/): You may sometimes feel like you don’t have much “power” in your marriage, you have a massive amount of influence though... IF you can make a change. - [DOES A “HONEY DO LIST” HELP OR HURT YOUR MARRIAGE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/does-a-honey-do-list-help-or-hurt-your-marriage/): Discover the top reasons why couples use a Honey Do List. Plus, learn 3 ways to keep your marriage strong while getting things done. - [DS 046: What Do You Talk About on a Walk and Talk if There Aren’t Any Problems?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-046-what-do-you-talk-about-on-a-walk-and-talk-if-there-arent-any-problems/): Getting out and moving can be one of the best things you do for your emotional intimacy. Learn how to make it part of your everyday life. - [DS 047: How Can I Share the ONE Podcast With My Spouse?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-047-how-can-i-share-the-one-podcast-with-my-spouse/): There are a number of ways you can share the show so that your spouse is most receptive to listening. - [DS 051: How Do We Deal With the Exhaustion From All That We Have to Do?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-051-how-do-we-deal-with-the-exhaustion-from-all-that-we-have-to-do/): We are in a world where the fear of missing out or fear of disappointing someone drives us to say yes to way more than we are able to handle. - [DS 057: How Can We Fight Better?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-057-how-can-we-fight-better/): Arguments, disagreements and fights are going to happen at times and yet if you want to fight better, consider the tone and timing of your conversations. - [DS 059: Why Is It So Hard for My Husband to Meet My Needs?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-059-why-is-it-so-hard-for-my-husband-to-meet-my-needs/): Expectations around needs are one of the biggest struggles that a couple faces. - [DS 061: Should I Talk to My Husband If The Only Way That I Can Orgasm Is With Clitoral Stimulation?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-061-should-i-talk-to-my-husband-if-the-only-way-that-i-can-orgasm-is-with-clitoral-stimulation/): You and your spouse should be talking about sex. It’s important for couples no matter how long they have been married to talk about their sex lives. - [DS 063: Why is it Taking So Long to Fix Our Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-063-why-is-it-taking-so-long-to-fix-our-marriage/): During this time you have to learn how to be married to one another all over again and you have to do it while healing from the hurts. - [DS 064: How Can the Intimacy Lifestyle Make Sex Easier For the Low Desire Spouse?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-064-how-can-the-intimacy-lifestyle-make-sex-easier-for-the-low-desire-spouse/): One of the challenges that many couples face is that one spouse wants sex more than the other. - [DS 065: What Can I Do If My Husband Yells at Me In Front of Our Child?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-065-what-can-i-do-if-my-husband-yells-at-me-in-front-of-our-child/): There is a difference between having an argument and yelling to belittle or demean someone. - [DS 067: How Do We Share with Family That My Husband is Going to be a Stay at Home Dad?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-067-how-do-we-share-with-family-that-my-husband-is-going-to-be-a-stay-at-home-dad/): Learning to create your own family unit, with your own traditions, values and ideals is one of the most challenging things that a couple can do and yet… - [DS 070: How Can We Possibly Get Along When It Seems Like We Have Grown So Far Apart?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-070-how-can-we-possibly-get-along-when-it-seems-like-we-have-grown-so-far-apart/): When you are in a place where you feel you are far apart you may have to start at the beginning and truly get to know your spouse once again. - [DS 071: How Do You Know When You Are Ready to Have Kids?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-071-how-do-you-know-when-you-are-ready-to-have-kids/): Getting ready to have a baby is first and foremost about making your marriage relationship strong. - [DS 072: How Does One Say That They Want More Sex Without Saying It?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-072-how-does-one-say-that-they-want-more-sex-without-saying-it/): You have made it clear that you would like to have more sex and yet your spouse isn’t responding. - [DS 077: How Can New Parents Make Sure They Are Still Putting in Time For Their Relationship?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-077-how-can-new-parents-make-sure-we-are-still-putting-in-time-for-the-relationship/): The number one thing to keep in mind even from the earliest days is that y our marriage is your child’s first model for what marriage looks like. - [DS 078: Is There Such a Thing as Falling Out of Love?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-078-is-there-such-a-thing-as-falling-out-of-love/): The idea of falling out of love refers to love as a noun but love is a verb. - [DS 079: What Do You Do When You Get to the Point When You Have Nothing to Talk About Anymore?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-079-what-do-you-do-when-you-get-to-the-point-when-you-have-nothing-to-talk-about-anymore/): There can be a lot of reasons why the two of you aren’t talking and different seasons of life may lead to this time right now. - [DS 080: How Do We Deal With Addiction In The Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-080-how-do-we-deal-with-addiction-in-the-marriage/): The process of becoming clean and sober and having a healthy marriage is just that, a process, but like all processes it needs a beginning. - [DS 082: How Do We Juggle Different Work Schedules?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-082-how-do-we-juggle-different-work-schedules/): There are a lot of couples in the ONE family with different schedules. - [DS 089: How Can I Help My Wife Shut Off Her Brain in the Bedroom?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-089-how-can-i-help-my-wife-shut-off-her-brain-in-the-bedroom/): There is a lot that is going on that there are times when the brain has a hard time focusing in on the one next to you. - [DS 090: How Do I Get My Husband to Wear His Wedding Ring?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-090-how-do-i-get-my-husband-to-wear-his-wedding-ring/): The wedding ring is a circle which has no beginning or end and is therefore a symbol of infinity. It is endless, eternal, just the way love should be. - [DS 091: How Can We Make Our Words and Actions Our New Normal If We Didn’t Grow Up That Way?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-091-how-can-we-make-our-words-and-actions-our-new-normal-if-we-didnt-grow-up-that-way/): When the path isn’t clear it’s time to cast a vision that both you and your spouse what to reach for together. - [DS 092: What is the Best Way to Lovingly Explain What I Would Like My Wife to Wear When it Comes to Our Sexual Intimacy?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-092-what-is-the-best-way-to-lovingly-explain-what-i-would-like-my-wife-to-wear-when-it-comes-to-our-sexual-intimacy/): Discussing your sex life is not a one and done conversation. Healthy marriages talk about their sexual intimacy and all its many aspects on a regular… - [DS 097: How Can We Do The Coffee Break If We Are Long Distance?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-097-how-can-we-do-the-coffee-break-if-we-are-long-distance/): The Coffee Break is like a business meeting for your marriage where you talk about everything from love to logistics. - [DS 099: How Can We Keep Intimacy Alive When a Spouse Is Deployed Overseas?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-099-how-can-we-keep-intimacy-alive-when-a-spouse-is-deployed-overseas/): No matter the circumstances you may be facing you can continue to make your marriage extraordinary when your spouse is deployed. - [DS 100: Am I Out of My Mind for Changing My Mind About Having Kids?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-100-am-i-out-of-my-mind-for-changing-my-mind-about-having-kids/): Kids are a big conversation for couples and it’s not a one time conversation. - [DS 108: How Can I Help My Spouse Disconnect From Work and Connect With Me?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-108-how-can-i-help-my-spouse-disconnect-from-work-and-connect-with-me/): When work gets in the way of your marriage it may be time to set the vision for your marriage. - [DS 113: How Do We Keep Our Marriage Strong When We Are Living Paycheck to Paycheck](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-113-how-do-we-keep-our-marriage-strong-when-we-are-living-paycheck-to-paycheck/): Finances plays a role in every marriage and knowing how to keep it strong through all seasons is vital to long term fulfillment. - [DS 114: Is It Wrong for a Husband or Wife to Tell Their Spouse That They Should Lose Weight?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-114-is-it-wrong-for-a-husband-or-wife-to-tell-their-spouse-that-they-should-lose-weight/): You’re not each other’s parents instead you are each other’s spouses. Treat each other with the level of respect and care bestowed upon a married couple. - [DS 76: How Do You Stop Your Spouse From Lying?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-76-how-do-you-stop-your-spouse-from-lying/): Some people lie out of habit, what started out as “a little white lie” or difficult has now become routine. - [Embracing Menopause: 3 Must-Have Habits for Midlife Wives](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/embracing-menopause-3-must-have-habits-for-midlife-wives/): Embracing your menopause journey is a game-changer! These three powerful tips can help you navigate this transition with joy and confidence. - [Emotional Connection in Marriage: How to Rebuild Intimacy When You Feel Like Roommates](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-importance-of-emotional-intimacy-in-your-marriage/): Learn how to rebuild emotional connection in marriage when you feel like roommates. Discover 7 warning signs and 5 practical steps to restore intimacy. - [Emotional Connection in Marriage: What It Is and How to Build Deeper Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/emotional-connection-in-marriage/): You share a bed, a mortgage, and a calendar packed with kid activities and work deadlines. But when was the last time you felt truly seen by your spouse? - [Emotional Intimacy: The Foundation of a Strong Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-emotional-intimacy/): What Is Emotional Intimacy? Emotional intimacy is the closeness and connection created through sharing your feelings, thoughts, and desires with your… - [Emotionally Distant Spouse: Why They’ve Withdrawn and How to Reconnect](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/emotionally-distant-spouse/): What Does an Emotionally Distant Spouse Look Like? Your spouse is sitting right next to you on the couch, but they feel miles away. - [Empty Nest Marriage Problems: How to Reconnect and Rebuild Your Marriage When Kids Leave Home](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/empty-nest-marriage-problems/): The house is quieter now. The chaos has shifted. Last week, your youngest drove away to college. - [Empty Nest Syndrome and Marriage: How to Reconnect (and Thrive) When the Kids Leave](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/empty-nest-syndrome-marriage/): Alisa told me something recently that surprised me. “I’m jealous of our friends who are already empty nesters,” she said. - [Feeling Alone in Marriage? How to Bridge the Emotional Distance](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/feeling-alone-in-marriage/): You can share a bed, eat meals together, and raise children side by side — yet still feel completely alone. - [Feeling Off Despite “Normal” Labs? These Hidden Midlife Health Issues Can Strain Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/feeling-off-despite-normal-labs-these-hidden-midlife-health-issues-can-strain-your-marriage/): Hidden midlife health issues can drive a wedge between husband and wife, especially when the labs come back as "normal." Here's what to do. - [Focus on the Family Marriage Retreat: Complete Guide to FOTF Marriage Programs](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/focus-on-the-family-marriage-retreat/): When your marriage needs help, one name keeps coming up in Christian circles: Focus on the Family. - [Forgiveness After Betrayal: The Messy Path to Healing Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/forgiveness-after-betrayal/): Forgiveness. It’s the word everyone tells you is the answer—but nobody tells you how incredibly hard it actually is. - [GOING DEEPER: 3 MARRIAGE TIPS FROM A PAGEANT COACH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-marriage-tips-from-a-pageant-coach/): Learn what you can do to make your marriage extraordinary from a pageant coach who has won on the stage and now in her marriage. - [GOING DEEPER: HOW BEING TRANSPARENT CAN CHANGE YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-how-being-transparent-can-change-your-marriage/): Learn how being transparent with one another can be hard and yet it’s the most important thing you can do with your spouse. - [GOING DEEPER: MY FEELINGS COME FROM ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-my-feelings-come-from-me/): It's no surprise but when we are dealing with feelings we need to take a look at the person in the mirror first and foremost. - [GOING DEEPER: OVERCOMING OFFENSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-overcoming-offense/): Marriage has a perfect design BUT for every minute that you hold an offense you lose a minute or more of loving on our spouse. - [GOING DEEPER: REHAB THE ART OF CONVERSATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-rehab-the-art-of-conversation/): Conversation doesn’t have to be difficult and it doesn’t have to hurt trying to come with questions. The two of you can have meaningful conversation about life in and out of the bedroom. - [GOING DEEPER: SETTING UP YOUR MARRIAGE FOR GREAT SUCCESS!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-setting-your-marriage-up-for-great-success/): Are you willing to continue to work on yourself and committed to growth, no matter what stage of marriage you are in to have success? - [GOING DEEPER: TALKING ABOUT THE “F” WORD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-talking-about-the-f-word/): “One of the biggest red flags is not talking about your finances.” — Leslie Abrigo Talking about money is one of the most difficult areas for couples. - [GOING DEEPER: THE SECRET TO HAPPILY EVER AFTER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-the-secret-to-happily-ever-after/): The little things done consistently have a compounding impact on your marriage. Happily ever after is created in the small practical actions done over time. - [HAVING AN EXTRAORDINARY MARRIAGE IS MORE THAN LUCK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/having-an-extraordinary-marriage-is-more-than-luck/): An extraordinary marriage is about more than just luck. A marriage requires you to take action to strengthen your pillars of intimacy. - [Healthy Boundaries in Marriage: The Foundation for True Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-boundaries/): Most couples think boundaries create distance. They picture walls going up, separateness increasing, intimacy decreasing. - [HOW TO AVOID RESENTMENT WHEN ONE SPOUSE RETIRES BEFORE THE OTHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-avoid-resentment-when-one-spouse-retires-before-the-other/): When one spouse retires before the other, resentment can build. Here are three things to look out for so you can protect your marriage. - [How to Be a Better Communicator as a Wife: 7 Skills to Actually Be Heard (and Hear Him)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-be-a-better-communicator-wife/): You’ve read the articles. You know you should “communicate better.” But what does that actually look like when you’re frustrated, exhausted, and feeling… - [How to Be a Better Husband and Father: A Complete Guide to Showing Up for Your Family](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-be-a-better-husband-and-father/): Most men I talk to want to be great husbands and great fathers. But here’s what happens: you get pulled in opposite directions. Work demands more. - [How to Be a Better Husband: A Complete Guide to the 6 Areas That Matter Most](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-be-a-better-husband/): Every husband wants to be good at it. But here’s the disconnect: wanting to improve and knowing HOW to improve are two different things entirely. - [How to Be a Better Husband: Daily Habits That Transform Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hub-better-husband/): What Makes a Great Husband? Let me tell you what I’ve learned after 25 years of marriage and coaching thousands of men: being a great husband isn’t about… - [How to Be a Better Listener Husband: 10 Practical Ways to Really Hear Your Wife](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-be-a-better-listener-husband/): You come home after a long day, and your wife starts telling you about something that happened. - [How to Be a Better Wife: A Practical Guide to Loving Your Husband Well](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hub-better-wife/): What It Really Means to Be a Great Wife If you searched “how to be a better wife ,” I already know something important about you: you care deeply about… - [How to Be a Better Wife: Practical Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage and Deepen Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-be-a-better-wife/): The fact that you’re searching “how to be a better wife” tells me something important about you: you care. You’re not content to coast. - [How to Build Up Your Husband: What He Actually Needs to Hear](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/building-up-your-husband/): Most wives genuinely want their husbands to feel valued. But what many don’t realize is that men and women experience affirmation very differently. - [How to Encourage Your Husband: 9 Practical Ways to Build Him Up](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-encourage-your-husband/): When was the last time you intentionally encouraged your husband? Not a quick “thanks” as he walked out the door. - [How to Encourage Your Wife: 12 Ways to Build Her Up Every Day](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-encourage-your-wife/): When was the last time you intentionally encouraged your wife? - [How to Fix Your Marriage After Infidelity](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-fix-marriage-after-infidelity/): The discovery of an affair changes everything. In an instant, the foundation of your marriage cracks. Every memory gets reexamined. - [How to Forgive Your Spouse (Even When You’re Still Angry)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-forgive-in-marriage/): Struggling to forgive your husband or wife? Learn practical steps to let go of resentment and rebuild trust in your marriage. - [How to Know If Your Marriage Is Over (An Honest Assessment)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-know-if-marriage-is-over/): Searching “how to know if marriage is over” takes courage. You’re not looking for marriage advice. - [How to Make Love Last: 7 Marriage Hacks You Need to Know](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-make-love-last-7-marriage-hacks-you-need-to-know/): Want to know how to make love last in your marriage? Discover our top seven hacks, from asking good questions to doing a sex challenge! - [How to Reconnect With Your Spouse: Breaking Free From Roommate Syndrome](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-reconnect-with-spouse/): You share a house, a bed, maybe kids. You handle the logistics of life together like a well-oiled machine. - [HOW TO RESET YOUR MARRIAGE IN 7 DAYS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-reset-your-marriage-in-7-days/): Transformation in your marriage can begin with a few simple steps. Learn how to reset your marriage in 7 days. - [How to Respect Your Husband: Practical Ways to Show Real Admiration](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-respect-your-husband/): Your husband probably doesn’t struggle to feel useful. He struggles to feel valued by the one person whose opinion matters most—you. - [HOW TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE WHEN MY SPOUSE WANTS A DIVORCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-save-my-marriage-when-my-spouse-wants-a-divorce/): In your marriage there may have been a moment in time or a specific reason why the love you once had for your spouse deteriorated to the point where your spouse is now asking for a divorce. - [How to Save My Marriage: A Step-by-Step Guide When You’re Ready to Fight for Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-save-my-marriage/): If you’re searching “how to save my marriage” at 2 AM, you’re not alone. - [How to Save Your Marriage: A Compassionate Guide to Crisis Recovery](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hub-save-your-marriage/): When Your Marriage Is in Crisis You never imagined you would be searching for help to save your marriage . - [How to Seduce Your Husband: Confident, Playful Ways to Reignite Passion in Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-seduce-husband/): Seduction isn’t manipulation. It’s an invitation. It’s saying “I desire you” in a language that builds anticipation and deepens connection. - [How to Show Love to Your Husband: 25 Meaningful Ways That Actually Work](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-show-love-to-husband/): You cook his favorite meals. You keep the house running. You ask about his day. But somehow, he still doesn’t seem to feel loved. Sound familiar? - [How to Show Love to Your Wife: Daily Habits and Meaningful Gestures That Actually Work](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-show-love-to-wife/): You already love your wife. That’s not in question. But here’s the harder question: Does she feel loved by you? - [How to Spice Up Your Marriage After 20 Years (It Gets Better, Not Worse)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/spice-up-marriage-after-20-years/): After 20 years together, most couples assume passion and excitement are just part of what you lose with time. - [How to Stop Arguing in Marriage: Practical Strategies to Fight Fair and Build Stronger Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-stop-arguing-marriage/): Introduction The dishes are still in the sink. Again. And suddenly you’re not talking about the dishes anymore—you’re dredging up stuff from three months… - [HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE WHEN IT FEELS LIKE YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T CARE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/strengthen-your-marriage/): Discover how to strengthen your marriage even if it seems like your spouse does not want to make an effort. - [How to Support Your Husband: 8 Ways to Be His Partner](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/supporting-your-husband/): Your husband might not say it, but he needs your support more than he lets on. I know this because Tony has told me. - [How to Support Your Wife: The Practical and Emotional Way](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-support-your-wife/): Introduction Your wife doesn’t need you to fix everything. She needs to know you’ve got her back—emotionally and practically. - [HOW TO TALK ABOUT SEX WITH YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-talk-about-sex-with-your-spouse/): Extraordinary couples know how to talk about sex. If you feel awkward talking about sex, learn how to get the conversation started today. - [How to Talk to Your Spouse: A Guide to Vulnerable, Effective Communication](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-talk-to-spouse/): Most couples don’t have communication problems. They have vulnerability problems. - [HOW TO THRIVE AS EMPTY NESTERS WHEN YOUR KIDS FLY THE COOP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-thrive-as-empty-nesters-when-your-kids-fly-the-coop/): Not sure how to embrace your new season as empty nesters? Discover 5 tips for thriving as a married couple when your kids fly the coop. - [Intensive Marriage Retreat: What to Know Before You Go](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/intensive-marriage-retreat/): An intensive marriage retreat is a concentrated, multi-day counseling experience designed to create breakthrough in struggling marriages. Learn what to expect, how to prepare, and how to choose the right program. - [Intimacy in Your 30s: How Marriage Changes (And What to Do About It)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/intimacy-in-your-30s/): You’re building your dream life. The house. The kids. The career. - [Is My Marriage Worth Saving? How to Know When to Fight for Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/is-my-marriage-worth-saving/): It’s 3 AM and you’re staring at the ceiling again. The same question loops through your mind: Is my marriage worth saving? We know that question. - [IS PHONE ADDICTION THREATENING YOUR MARRIAGE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/is-phone-addiction-threatening-your-marriage/): Is phone addiction a problem in your marriage? Here's how to set clear boundaries and restore intimacy in your relationship. - [IS THERE HOPE FOR MY MARRIAGE THIS CHRISTMAS?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/is-there-hope-for-my-marriage-this-christmas/): Many couples ask themselves the devastating question: “Is there hope for my marriage?” These stories from the ONE Family prove there is hope. - [IS YOUR MARRIAGE ON THE BRINK OF DIVORCE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-do-you-know-if-you-should-stay-or-go/): Thousands of couples have been exactly where you are wondering if they should stay or go and have found their way back to a thriving marriage. - [IS YOUR MARRIAGE TRAPPED IN THE DREADED “NOTHING ZONE”?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/nothing-zone/): For many people, the problem with their marriage is the dreaded nothing zone. Simply put, the problem is that there is nothing happening in their marriage. - [IT IS WHAT IT IS: FIVE WORDS THAT LEAD TO HELPLESSNESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/five-words-you-are-using-that-lead-to-helplessness/): Five little words drive me crazy, It is what it is. These are usually spoken when something has happened and you have given up. - [IT’S NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BE ABOUT YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/about-you/): When everything is about you in your marriage you are setting yourself and your marriage up for tough times. - [IT’S NOT TALKING DIRTY, IT’S TALKING CLEARLY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/its-not-talking-dirty-its-talking-clearly/): It’s been stated time and time again that communication is important in our marriages. - [IT’S TIME TO FEEL AWKWARD AND OUT OF PLACE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/its-time-to-feel-awkward-and-out-of-place/): You may feel out of place or awkward when you start asking and answering these questions about sex, finances, spirituality, friends, family, and much more. - [IT’S TIME TO START THE CONVERSATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/its-time-to-start-the-conversation/): It's time to start the conversation. Find the resources you need to rebuild your emotional intimacy with meaningful conversations. - [KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE STRONG AMID INFERTILITY AND CHILD LOSS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/keeping-your-marriage-strong-amid-infertility-and-child-loss/): Navigating infertility and child loss can put your marriage at risk, so you must take action to protect your relationship. - [Lack of Intimacy in Marriage: Understanding the Warning Signs and Rebuilding Your Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/lack-of-intimacy-in-marriage/): You didn’t notice when it started. Somewhere between diapers and deadlines, the distance crept in. - [LESSONS LEARNED WHILE PEDALING A CRUISER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/lessons-learned-while-pedaling-a-cruiser/): Thrive to have an extraordinary marriage daily as you saddle up on a cruiser and take a ride. - [Luxury Marriage Retreats: What to Look For and Whether They’re Worth the Investment](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/luxury-marriage-retreats/): You’ve been thinking about it for months. Maybe you’ve even talked about it with your spouse. - [MANNERS IN MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/manners-in-marriage/): This week we challenge you to remember the little things that really aren’t so little…manners. - [Marriage After Kids Leave: How to Rebuild Your Relationship in Your Second Chapter](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-after-kids-leave/): The house is quiet for the first time in twenty years. Your last child just left for college. Or moved into their own place. - [Marriage After Kids: How to Keep Your Relationship Strong During the Parenting Years](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-after-kids/): You used to finish each other’s sentences. Now you’re finishing each other’s chores. You used to talk about dreams, fears, and the future. - [Marriage Counseling After Infidelity: What to Expect and How to Find the Right Help](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-counseling-after-infidelity/): Discovering your spouse had an affair changes everything. The pain is overwhelming, the betrayal cuts deep, and you’re wondering: Can we even come back… - [Marriage Counseling Retreat: How to Find Professional Help for Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-counseling-retreat/): When weekly therapy sessions aren’t moving the needle—or your marriage can’t wait for months of appointments—a marriage counseling retreat offers… - [Marriage Crisis Help: What to Do When Your Relationship Feels Like It’s Breaking Apart](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-crisis-help/): If you’re searching “marriage crisis help” right now, your heart is probably racing and your mind is probably spinning. - [Marriage Retreat Cost: What to Budget in 2026 (Complete Pricing Guide)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-retreat-cost/): Before you can say yes to a marriage retreat , you need to answer a question that goes deeper than logistics: What is your marriage worth to you? - [Marriage Retreat Near Me: Finding the Right Couples Retreat for Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-retreat-near-me/): You’ve been searching “marriage retreat near me” because something needs to change. Maybe you want to reconnect before things get worse. - [Marriage Retreats California: Complete Guide to Reconnecting in the Golden State](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-retreats-california/): When was the last time you and your spouse had uninterrupted time to focus on just the two of you—no kids, no work emails, no distractions? - [Marriage Retreats in Florida: Your Complete Guide to Couples Retreats in the Sunshine State](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-retreats-florida/): Every January, thousands of couples head to Florida. Most are chasing sunshine and theme parks. - [Marriage Retreats in Texas: Find the Best Local Options and How to Choose](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-retreats-texas/): If you’re searching ” marriage retreat s in Texas,” you’ve probably already realized something needs to change. - [Menopause Gifts: 20 Thoughtful Gift Ideas for Your Midlife Wife](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/menopause-gifts/): Shopping for a wife going through menopause? These 20 thoughtful gift ideas show you understand and support her during this transition. - [Menopause Sleep Disruption: How 3 AM Wake-Ups Affect Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/menopause-sleep-disruption-how-3-am-wake-ups-affect-your-marriage/): Sleep disruption in menopause is about more than just your energy levels. These sleep disturbances also quietly impact your marriage. - [Mood Swings and Marriage: The Survival Guide Every Couple Needs](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/mood-swings-and-marriage/): Mood swings and marriage create the perfect storm of misunderstanding. This tips will help you keep your relationship strong. - [My Husband Ignores Me: What It Really Means (And How to Reconnect)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/husband-ignores-me/): You’re talking, but he’s not listening. You walk into a room and he barely looks up. - [My Wife Is Always Angry: Understanding the Real Reasons and How to Reconnect](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/my-wife-is-always-angry-understanding-and-reconnecting/): If your wife is always angry, you’re not imagining it—and it’s rarely about the dishes in the sink. - [My Wife Is Always Angry: Understanding What’s Really Going On (And How to Respond)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wife-is-always-angry/): You come home from work, say hello, and somehow you’ve already done something wrong. The tension in the air is immediate. - [New Things to Try in Bed for Married Couples: 20+ Ideas to Reignite Your Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/new-things-to-try-in-bed-married/): After years of marriage, it’s natural for things to feel… familiar. Same time, same place, same routine. But familiar doesn’t have to mean boring. - [New Year, New Marriage: How to Take Action and See Change](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/new-year-new-marriage-how-to-take-action-and-see-change/): It's time to do more than set New Year's resolutions for your marriage. It's time to take action and see change. - [NEW YEAR’S BINGO FOR MARRIED COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/new-years-bingo-for-married-couples/): Create a stronger marriage by playing the New Year's bingo card for married couples, full of fun ideas to improve your relationship. - [No Emotional Connection in Marriage? Here’s What’s Really Happening (and How to Rebuild)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/no-emotional-connection-in-marriage/): You’re lying in bed next to someone who feels like a stranger. - [Not Your Typical Marriage Getaway](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/not-your-typical-marriage-getaway/): Never underestimate what can happen when you step away from real life to focus on your marriage. - [ONE QUESTION TO KICKSTART YOUR COMMUNICATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/one-question-for-kickstarting-communication/): You know you NEED to kickstart your communicate with your spouse but most of us were never taught HOW TO do this in easy, effective and practical ways. - [Our Favorite Marriage Resources](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/our-favorite-marriage-resources/): Check out our favorite marriage resources that have been instrumental in creating and sustaining strong, healthy marriages. - [Passive Aggressive Spouse: How to Recognize the Pattern and Rebuild Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/passive-aggressive-spouse/): Your spouse says nothing is wrong, but everything feels cold. A comment dripping with sarcasm. Days of silence after a disagreement. Promises forgotten. - [Perimenopause and Divorce: 3 Things No One Told You](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/perimenopause-and-divorce-3-things-no-one-told-you/): Menopause is hard on a marriage. If perimenopause has you considering divorce, here are three important things to remember. - [Phone Addiction in Marriage: How Screens Are Stealing Your Connection (And What to Do About It)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/phone-addiction-marriage/): You’re sitting on the couch with your spouse. The TV is on, but neither of you is watching. - [Prayer for a Struggling Marriage: 12 Powerful Prayers to Restore Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/prayer-struggling-marriage/): When your marriage feels like it’s falling apart, prayer might be the only thing left that feels possible. You’ve tried the conversations. - [Prayers for Your Husband: 15 Powerful Ways to Cover Him in Faith](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/prayer-for-husband/): When I started praying for Tony during our darkest season, I didn’t know if our marriage would survive. The distance between us felt insurmountable. - [Problems With Marriage Counseling: Why It Fails and What Actually Works](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/problems-with-marriage-counseling/): You showed up. You did the homework. You tried to communicate the way the therapist said. But nothing changed – or maybe it got worse. - [Quality Time in Marriage: How to Build Meaningful Connection When Life Gets Busy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/quality-time-marriage/): “We spend time together almost every day, but we’re not actually with each other anymore.” That’s what she said during a couples’ retreat last year, and… - [Rebuilding Trust in Marriage: A Complete Guide to Healing After Betrayal](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/rebuilding-trust-in-marriage/): Rebuilding trust in marriage takes more than apologies. Learn the proven framework Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo use to help couples restore connection after betrayal. - [Reconnecting After Empty Nest: Rebuilding Your Marriage When Kids Leave Home](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/reconnecting-after-empty-nest/): The house is quiet now. Eerily quiet. You walk past your oldest’s empty bedroom. The desk where they studied for college entrance exams sits untouched. - [Romantic Gift Guide for Married Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/romantic-gift-guide-for-married-couples/): In this married couples gift guide, you'll discover some of the best gift ideas to deepen your intimacy during the holiday season. - [Romantic Ideas for Couples: Small Gestures That Deepen Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/romantic-ideas-for-couples/): When was the last time you felt truly connected to your spouse? If you have to think about it, you’re not alone. - [Second Marriage Advice: How to Build an Extraordinary Marriage This Time](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/second-marriage-advice/): Second marriages fail at a higher rate than first marriages. But they don’t have to. - [Separation vs Divorce: Making the Right Decision for Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/separation-vs-divorce/): When couples say they’re separating, what they really mean varies wildly. Some see it as a trial run before divorce. - [Signs of an Emotional Affair: How to Spot (and Stop) an Inappropriate Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/emotional-affair-signs/): You can’t quite put your finger on what’s changed. Your spouse isn’t staying out late or sneaking around, but something has shifted. - [Signs of an Unhappy Marriage: How to Recognize the Warning Signs (And What to Do Next)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/signs-of-unhappy-marriage/): Something feels off. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but the marriage you have doesn’t feel like the marriage you thought you’d have. - [Signs of Emotional Disconnection in Your Marriage (And What They Really Mean)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/signs-of-emotional-disconnection/): When was the last time you felt truly seen by your spouse? Not just acknowledged as you passed in the kitchen, but actually known —your fears, your… - [Signs Your Marriage Is Over (And When It’s NOT)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/signs-marriage-is-over/): The question “Is my marriage over?” doesn’t come from nowhere. Something happened—or stopped happening—that brought you here. - [Spicing Up Your Marriage: A Complete Guide to Rekindling Connection in Every Area of Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/spicing-up-your-marriage/): When was the last time you felt butterflies with your spouse? Not the anxious kind that come from conflict, but the excited flutter that made you want to… - [STAYING STRONG AS A COUPLE DURING BACK-TO-SCHOOL SEASON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/staying-strong-as-a-couple-during-back-to-school-season/): Staying strong as a couple, especially during the transition back to school, requires communication, flexibility, and intentionality. - [Staying Together for the Kids: The Decision That Changes Everything](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/staying-together-for-kids/): You’re standing at the intersection of obligation and misery. Your kids need both parents. - [Stonewalling in Marriage: What It Is and How to Break the Pattern](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/stonewalling-in-marriage/): Your spouse shuts down. Again. No matter what you say or how hard you try, they simply refuse to engage. The door closes. The silence grows. - [STOP CHECKING YOUR SPOUSES PHONE AND LEARN TO TRUST AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/have-you-ever-checked-your-spouses-phone/): When secrets start to creep into the marriage that’s when the accusations of snooping, spying, and checking your spouse's phone start to surface. - [STOP LIVING YOUR MARRIAGE LIKE IT’S A 30-MINUTE SITCOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/stop-living-your-marriage-like-its-a-30-minute-sitcom/): News flash! Your marriage is not a 30-minute sitcom. You live in the real world where real events happen that impact you, your spouse and your family. - [Strengthen Your Marriage This Fall: The ONE Thing That Changes Everything](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/strengthen-your-marriage-this-fall-the-one-thing-that-changes-everything/): Start a ripple effect this fall to strengthen your marriage. It all starts by choosing one thing to focus on. And we have some ideas! - [Surviving An Affair: The Complete Guide to Healing Your Marriage After Infidelity](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/surviving-an-affair/): The discovery changes everything. One moment your marriage felt solid—or at least familiar—and the next, the ground beneath you collapsed. - [The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: A Complete Framework for an Extraordinary Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-pillars-of-intimacy/): After 25+ years of marriage—including an 11-year stretch where we were more like roommates than lovers—we discovered something that changed everything:… - [The 9 Most Common Communication Problems in Marriage (And How to Fix Them)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/communication-problems-marriage/): Most couples don’t fail because they stop loving each other. They fail because they stop communicating. - [THE BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE FROM 100 REAL COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-best-marriage-advice-from-100-real-couples/): Check out the best marriage advice from the ONE Family, representing the collective wisdom of roughly 1,000 years of marriage! - [The Complete Guide to Marriage Retreats: Find the Right Path to Reconnection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hub-marriage-retreat/): Target URL : /marriage-retreat-guide/ Target Traffic : 8-10K/month Primary Keywords : marriage retreat , couples retreat, marriage intensive, christian… - [The Empty Nest Marriage Challenge: 30 Days to Reconnection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-empty-nest-marriage-challenge-30-days-to-reconnection/): You look across the dinner table and think, “Who is this person?” After twenty-plus years together, raising kids, building careers, managing a… - [THE NUMBER ONE REASON ONCE HAPPY COUPLES DIVORCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/number-one-reason-for-divorce/): When the reason for divorce comes up there are a few ways you can stop it today. - [THE POWER OF WORDS TO MAKE OR BREAK YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-power-of-words/): There are seven strategies to help you harness the power of words, improve communication with your spouse, and transform your marriage. - [THE POWER OF YOUR WORDS [VIDEO]](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-power-of-your-words/): The power of your words can bring life to you and your spouse. When you make a choice to use words that encourage you will begin to experience change. - [The Secret Power of “What If” for a Stronger Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-secret-power-of-what-if-for-a-stronger-marriage/): Asking "What if...." might be the best thing you can do for your marriage today. Will you choose comfort or take a risk for deeper intimacy? - [TOP 3 ISSUES THAT BREAK TRUST IN MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/top-3-ways-trust-is-broken-in-your-marriage/): Trust takes a long time to build and can be lost in seconds. It's time for you and your spouse to build your marriage on a foundation of trust, not secrets, love not lies. - [Trust Issues in Marriage: Root Causes, How to Recognize Them, and How to Heal](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/trust-issues-in-marriage/): If you’re reading this, something feels off. Maybe your spouse said something innocent and you spiraled into a panic. - [Vaginal Dryness During Menopause? Rediscover Pleasure Together](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/vaginal-dryness-during-menopause/): Vaginal dryness during menopause can cause pain, disconnection, and a strain in your marriage. Here's how real women are finding solutions. - [Weekend Marriage Retreat: A Complete Guide to Couples Weekend Getaways](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/weekend-marriage-retreat/): A weekend away could be exactly what your marriage needs — or it could be a missed opportunity if you choose the wrong type. - [WHAT ARE YOU TRULY GRATEFUL FOR THIS YEAR?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-are-you-truly-grateful-for-this-year/): We recently asked couples in the ONE Family what they were truly grateful for. Their answers will surprise and encourage you. - [WHAT DO WE TALK ABOUT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-do-we-talk-about/): You can have an extraordinary marriage by being able to have grown up conversations that allow you both to talk about all areas of your marriage. - [WHAT DOES PORN ADDICTION LOOK LIKE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-does-porn-addiction-look-like/): What does porn addiction look like in a marriage? We're sharing six signs of porn addiction and resources to help you overcome. - [WHAT IF YOU COULD HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-if-you-could-have-your-cake-and-eat-it-too/): When you stand to lose a lot, you also stand to gain a lot. What would your marriage be if you could have your cake and eat it too? - [WHAT IS CODEPENDENCY IN MARRIAGE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-is-codependency-in-marriage/): When you understand the signs of codependency and how to recover from its effects, you can safeguard your marriage for years to come. - [WHAT IS MY SPOUSE THINKING?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-5-best-approaches-to-opening-up-your-partner/): The next time you want the best approaches to opening up your partner about their mood or a situation, keep this advice in mind for a healthy interaction. - [WHAT MARRIED COUPLES NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE SILENT TREATMENT [VIDEO]](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-married-couples-need-know-about-the-silent-treatment/): The silent treatment is...An act of completely ignoring your spouse as a means of expressing contempt or disapproval for what they said or did. - [WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU OR YOUR SPOUSE STRUGGLES WITH ANXIETY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-to-do-when-you-or-your-spouse-struggles-with-anxiety/): When you or your spouse experience anxiety more days than not, it can strain and weaken the closeness you have with one another. - [What to Expect at a Marriage Retreat: A First-Timer’s Guide](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-to-expect-marriage-retreat/): You’re Thinking About a Marriage Retreat —But You Have Questions Maybe you’re wondering if it’s actually going to help. - [WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU’RE EMPTY NESTING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-to-expect-when-youre-empty-nesting/): Empty nesting can be challenging, but knowing what to expect can help smooth the transition and keep your relationship strong. - [WHAT YOU CAN DO TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE AFFAIR FREE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-ripple-affect-of-infidelity1/): When a marriage is affected by an affair or infidelity, it can be like dropping a pebble into water. - [When DIY Marriage Fixes Aren’t Working: How to Build Real, Lasting Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/when-diy-marriage-fixes-arent-working/): Have you tried all the quick marriage fixes, only to realize they don't offer lasting change? Here's a different approach. - [When In-Laws Are Destroying Your Marriage: How to Protect Your Unity Without Losing Your Family](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/when-in-laws-are-destroying-your-marriage/): When you said “I do,” you didn’t realize you were also saying “I do” to constant opinions about your parenting, surprise visits at dinnertime, and a… - [When In-Laws Are Destroying Your Marriage: How to Set Boundaries and Protect Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/in-laws-destroying-marriage/): If you’ve ever dreaded a family gathering, felt caught between your spouse and your parents, or wondered whether your in-laws are slowly eroding your… - [When Kids Boomerang Back: Protecting Your Marriage in the “Not Quite Empty Nest”](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/when-kids-boomerang-back-protecting-your-marriage-in-the-not-quite-empty-nest/): Your empty nest was in sight... until your kids boomeranged back home. Here are 6 tips to protect your marriage during this unique season. - [When The Kids Leave: Rediscovering Your Marriage in the Empty Nest](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/when-the-kids-leave-rediscovering-your-marriage-in-the-empty-nest/): The last kid moves out. The door closes. You turn to your spouse and realize something uncomfortable: you’re not sure what to talk about now. - [When to Give Up on Marriage: A Compassionate Guide to Your Crossroads](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/when-to-give-up-on-marriage/): You’re standing at a fork in the road. The one you didn’t plan to reach. - [When Your Husband Ignores You But Talks to Everyone Else: Why It Happens (And How to Fix It)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/husband-ignores-me-talks-others/): You watch him laugh with his coworkers. You see him charm a stranger at a party. - [When Your Spouse Won’t Communicate: 7 Steps to Break Through the Silence](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/when-spouse-wont-communicate/): There’s nothing lonelier than living with someone who won’t talk to you. The silence in your home is deafening. - [When Your Wife Won’t Talk to You: Breaking Through the Silence in Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wife-wont-talk-to-me/): You’re in the same house, maybe even the same bed, but she’s a million miles away. - [Why Emotional Maturity Is the Most Attractive Thing You Can Bring to Bed](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/why-emotional-maturity-is-the-most-attractive-thing-you-can-bring-to-bed/): Here's a word that probably doesn't show up in your bedroom fantasies: regulation. But it should, because emotional maturity is the single most underrated factor in sexual attraction. - [WHY USING THE WORD DIVORCE CAN DO PERMANENT DAMAGE TO YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/using-the-word-divorce/): Don't let divorce become part of your vocabulary. Learn why the word divorce needs to be taken off the table even if you've said it in the past. - [Why Won’t My Wife Talk To Me? Understanding The Silent Treatment (And How To Break Through)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/why-wont-my-wife-talk-to-me-understanding-the-silent-treatment/): You ask a simple question and get nothing back. One-word answers. Silence. - [WHY YOUR EMOTIONAL INTIMACY HAS HIT A BRICK WALL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/why-your-emotional-intimacy-has-hit-a-brick-wall/): For women, the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. -Isabel Allende - [Your First Valentine’s Day as a Married Couple: How to Make It Meaningful (Not Just Instagram-Worthy)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/first-married-valentines-day/): You survived the wedding planning. You made it through the honeymoon. ## Financial Intimacy - [101 EASY AND CREATIVE CHRISTMAS GIFT IDEAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/101-easy-and-creative-gift-ideas-for-the-spouse-who-has-everything/): Check out our creative gift ideas guide for the spouse who has everything and make that next gift you give them one they will never forget. - [21 Sexy Christmas Gift Ideas](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/21-sexy-christmas-gift-ideas/): Looking for sexy gifts for your wife or husband? These 21 intimate Christmas gift ideas will surprise your spouse and spice up the holidays. - [25 CHRISTMAS GIFT IDEAS FOR THAT SPECIAL MARRIED COUPLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/25-christmas-gift-ideas-for-that-special-married-couple/): Since you got married you like to get your spouse a Christmas gift that is outside the normal mix. A gift that they will open and will remember for years to come. - [25 INSANELY AWESOME BACK TO SCHOOL PURCHASES FOR BUSY PARENTS AND COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/25-insanely-awesome-back-to-school-purchases-for-busy-parents-and-couples/): Rushing around trying to get your kids ready for school? Check out these insanely awesome back to school purchases for busy parents and couples. - [26 Money Conversations for Busy Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/26-money-conversations-for-busy-couples/): Deepen your financial intimacy with these 26 money conversations. These are questions every married couple should be asking and answering! - [3 Quick Estate Planning Tips for Married Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-quick-estate-planning-tips-for-married-couples/): Protect your marriage and strengthen your financial intimacy with these three simple estate planning tips. Get the conversation started today. - [3 WILD FACTS ABOUT GIFT GIVING THAT WILL SURPRISE YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-wild-facts-about-gift-giving-that-will-surprise-you/): We found 3 surprisingly gift giving facts that eased our holiday anxiety. Check them out - then dig into a few AWESOME gift giving hit lists we made for you - [81 UNCONVENTIONAL, BUT AMAZING ANNIVERSARY GIFT IDEAS TO CELEBRATE YEAR BY YEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/amazing-anniversary-gift-ideas/): Find the perfect anniversary gift for every milestone! 81 unique ideas organized by year, from paper to gold and everything in between. - [9 TIPS FOR NAVIGATING FINANCIAL INFIDELITY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/financial-infidelity/): Financial infidelity has the power to wreck your intimacy if you aren't prepared to navigate the situation. Here are 6 practical action steps. - [[VIDEO] 15 GIFTS TO SPICE UP YOUR CHRISTMAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/15-gifts-to-spice-up-your-christmas/): As the Christmas season approaches some of the best presents are the ones you give your spouse when nobody else is around. - [Best Books for Rebuilding Trust in Marriage: 10 Resources That Actually Help](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/best-books-rebuilding-trust-marriage/): When trust shatters in a marriage, talking about it can feel impossible. The words get stuck. The emotions overwhelm. - [CHRISTMAS GIFT GUIDE FOR COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christmas-gift-guide-for-couples/): The holidays are here! Consult our Christmas Gift Guide to add more adventure and connection to your marriage this season. - [Codependency in Marriage: How to Recognize Unhealthy Patterns and Rebuild Your Authentic Self](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/codependency-in-marriage/): She checks his mood before entering the room. He makes all financial decisions to “protect” her. Neither speaks their true thoughts. Both call it love. - [DS 068: What Do We Need to Consider When Planning a Vacation for Just the Two of Us?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-068-what-do-we-need-to-consider-when-planning-a-vacation-for-just-the-two-of-us/): The most important part of any vacation is to discuss your expectations before you leave so you have an amazing time together. - [Financial Intimacy: Building Unity in Money Matters](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-financial-intimacy/): What Is Financial Intimacy? Financial intimacy is being close and connected in every financial aspect of your marriage. - [FORGET THE CUISINART!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/17-unique-wedding-gift-ideas/): Looking for a unique wedding gift for the bride and groom? These wedding gift ideas are sure to put a smile on their face and leave a lasting impression. - [HIS GEAR, HER GEAR: THE BATH AND BODY ESSENTIALS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/his-gear-her-gear-the-bath-and-body-essentials/): Get the gear that will have you feeling sexy and ready for your spouse in the morning, afternoon, or as you prepare for some fun between the sheets. - [How Financial Stress Affects Your Marriage (And What to Do About It)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/financial-stress-affecting-marriage/): Money stress is everywhere. But here’s what most couples don’t realize: financial stress isn’t really about the money. - [HOW TO PROTECT YOUR FINANCIAL INTIMACY WHILE CHRISTMAS SHOPPING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-protect-your-financial-intimacy-while-christmas-shopping/): As you and your spouse begin Christmas shopping this year, take steps to protect your financial intimacy and your marriage. - [How to Talk About Difficult Topics With Your Spouse: A Framework for Honest Conversations](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/difficult-conversations-spouse/): The conversations you’re avoiding are the ones destroying your marriage. Not the conversation itself — but the avoidance. The silence that builds walls. - [HOW-TO JOIN YOUR FINANCES FOR A FULFILLING MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-join-your-finances-for-a-fulfilling-marriage/): Finances can be a really touchy point among couples. That is why we recommend that you think long and hard about how your finances impact your marriage. - [Money and Marriage: Building Financial Intimacy and Resolving Money Conflicts](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/money-and-marriage/): Money conversations reveal more about us than almost anything else. - [Money Problems in Marriage: How to Stop Fighting About Finances and Start Building Financial Unity](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/money-problems-in-marriage/): Money is the second leading cause of divorce. Let that sink in. - [Should Couples Combine Finances? A Framework for Building Financial Unity](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/should-couples-combine-finances/): One of the first financial decisions couples face is deceptively simple: should we combine our finances or keep them separate? - [THE IMPORTANCE OF FINANCIAL INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-importance-of-financial-intimacy-in-your-marriage/): Financial intimacy is one of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®. Here are 5 practical ways to strengthen financial intimacy in your marriage. - [Top 12 Christmas Gifts for Your Husband](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/top-12-christmas-gifts-for-your-husband/): When you find the perfect Christmas gifts for your husband it is an exciting time and yet it can be daunting. Don’t worry… we're here to help you out! - [Top 12 Christmas Gifts for Your Wife](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/top-12-christmas-gifts-for-your-wife/): Find that perfect Christmas gift for your wife with these 12 creative ideas. No more stress! Just love and connection with a great gift. ## Physical Intimacy - [10 Ways to Deepen Your Physical Connection Beyond the Bedroom](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-ways-to-deepen-your-physical-connection-beyond-the-bedroom/): Touch matters in your marriage. Here are 10 practical ways to give your physical connection a boost starting today. - [3 REASONS WHY IT’S TIME TO WALK AROUND NAKED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/walk-around-naked-with-your-spouse/): Walking around naked with your spouse is a simple foreplay idea that builds physical attraction and intimacy. Here are 3 reasons to try it tonight. - [3 THINGS YOU SHOULDN’T DO IF YOU WANT AN EXTRAORDINARY LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-things-you-shouldnt-do-if-you-want-an-extraordinary-life/): It starts with something as simple as the toilet seat being left up. Before you know it there is a complete melt down between the two of you and it's all because of a toilet seat. - [3 WAYS TO EXPRESS YOUR LOVE WITHOUT SAYING “I LOVE YOU”](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-express-your-love-without-saying-i-love-you/): Tend your friendship and express your love with the fuel of vulnerability. Take off the masks and remember what drew you two together in the first place. - [3 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR SEX LIFE INCREDIBLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-make-your-sex-life-incredible/): Try something new that will bring excitement and anticipation back into your sex life. Break up the routine and gives you something to look forward to. - [5 Essential Habits for a Rock-Solid Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-essential-habits-for-a-rock-solid-marriage/): Here are 5 simple ideas you can put in as great, life giving habits to your rock solid marriage. Pick one and get started today! - [5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD CONSIDER NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-reasons-consider-natural-family-planning/): Couples who use Natural Family Planning simply observe and interpret the natural fertility indicators that result from her normal hormone cycle. - [5 Ways to Enhance Your Intimacy with Massage Cream](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-ways-to-enhance-your-intimacy-with-massage-cream/): Touch is an essential part of marriage. Learn why intimate massage cream is a great way to boost physical and sexual intimacy. - [6 BENEFITS OF CUDDLING WITH YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-benefits-of-cuddling-with-your-spouse/): Cuddling with your spouse releases oxytocin, reduces stress, and strengthens your bond. Discover 6 proven benefits of cuddling in relationships. - [7 Benefits of Hugging Your Spouse Every Day](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hugging-your-spouse/): Why are hugs important in a relationship? Hugging releases oxytocin, reduces stress, and strengthens your bond. Here are 7 reasons to hug daily. - [7 Sexy Reasons to be a Fit Couple](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-sexy-reasons-to-be-a-fit-couple/): Want to feel more attractive and enjoy deeper intimacy? Check out these seven sexy, science-backed reasons to become a fit couple! - [7 Ways to Strengthen Physical Intimacy with Massage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-ways-to-strengthen-physical-intimacy-with-massage/): Massage is a powerful way to connect with your spouse. Learn 7 massage techniques that build physical intimacy and deepen your bond. - [Bedroom Ideas for Married Couples: Creating an Intimacy-First Space](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/bedroom-ideas-married-couples/): Your bedroom reflects—and shapes—your marriage. How it looks, feels, and functions impacts whether you feel invited into physical and emotional… - [DS 053: Why Would I Want to Sleep Naked?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-053-why-would-i-want-to-sleep-naked/): Sleeping naked does make having sex easier because there’s nothing to remove and yet you’ll find that most of the time it’s not about the sex, it’s about… - [DS 054: What Can I Do When It Seems Like Everything I Do Is Wrong?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-054-what-can-i-do-when-it-seems-like-everything-i-do-is-wrong/): You don’t have to live like this. Make an intentional decision to break the cycle because neither one of you are happy with this situation. - [DS 056: What Can We Do About My Husband’s Snoring?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-056-what-can-we-do-about-my-husbands-snoring/): Snoring affects 30-40% of people. Because snoring interrupts everyone’s sleep it can have a tremendous impact on a marriage on so many levels. - [DS 060: How Can I Get My Spouse More Comfortable with Public Displays of Affection?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-060-how-can-i-get-my-spouse-more-comfortable-with-public-displays-of-affection/): It’s important to understand where your spouse is coming from and also to understand what they are comfortable with. - [DS 088: Do You Combine Sensation Oil in Your Oral Sex Fun?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-088-do-you-combine-sensation-oil-in-your-oral-sex-fun/): What you use when having oral sex can help it make it more enjoyable or it can turn you off. - [GOING DEEPER: HOW TO GET ORGANIZED WHEN YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T WANT TO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-how-to-get-organized-when-your-spouse-doesnt-want-to/): The solution to getting organized isn’t hours on Pinterest trying to find the perfect room or spending a few hundred dollars on containers and organizational systems - [HOW HOLDING HANDS CAN BOOST PHYSICAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-holding-hands-can-boost-physical-intimacy/): Holding hands is more than a simple gesture. Discover why intertwined hands boost physical intimacy and deepen your connection as a couple. - [How to Seduce Your Wife: A Husband’s Guide to Rekindling Desire](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-seduce-wife/): Seduction in marriage isn’t about tricks or techniques. It’s about becoming the husband she wants to say yes to. If that surprises you, you’re not alone. - [Husband’s Guide to Building Emotional Intimacy in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/husbands-guide-emotional-intimacy/): When was the last time you felt truly connected to your wife—not just physically present, but genuinely known ? - [Intimacy Positions During Pregnancy: A Trimester-by-Trimester Guide for Connected Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/intimacy-positions-pregnancy/): Pregnancy changes everything about your body—but it doesn’t have to change everything about your connection. - [KIM HAD CRAZY DIVORCE CONDITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/kim-had-crazy-divorce-conditions/): Kim’s divorce conditions wasn't about what she got. All she requested was that Steve give her one month before signing the divorce papers. - [Long Distance Marriage: 6 Proven Strategies to Keep Your Connection Strong Through Separation](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/long-distance-marriage/): Thirty-three percent of long-distance couples report their relationship is harder than expected. - [Marriage Bed Ideas: 25+ Ways to Honor and Enjoy Your Intimate Space](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-bed-ideas/): Your marriage bed is meant to be the safest, most enjoyable place in your relationship. - [Menopause and Intimacy: How to Stay Connected Through the Change](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/menopause-and-intimacy/): When I started experiencing menopause symptoms, I didn’t just feel my body changing. I felt myself pulling away from Tony. The hot flashes. - [Naked Cuddling: What It Does to Your Brain, Body & Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-benefits-of-naked-cuddling/): Naked cuddling strengthens your bond and releases feel-good hormones. Discover why more couples are making skin-to-skin contact part of their routine. - [NOT A TOUCHY FEELY PERSON? 17 CREATIVE WAYS TO STRENGTHEN PHYSICAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/not-a-touchy-feely-person-17-creative-ways-to-strengthen-physical-intimacy/): Discover 17 creative ways to strengthen the Physical Intimacy Pillar in your marriage, even if you're not a touchy feely person. - [Physical Intimacy: The Power of Non-Sexual Touch in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-physical-intimacy/): What Is Physical Intimacy? Physical intimacy is the closeness and connection created through loving touch. - [Pucker Up! The Benefits of Kissing Are Worth It (With Practical Tips)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/benefits-of-kissing/): Kissing is more powerful than you think! Discover the science-backed health and relationship benefits of kissing your spouse daily. - [Rebuilding Intimacy After Trauma: A Couples’ Guide to Reconnection and Healing](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/intimacy-after-trauma/): Trauma doesn’t just affect the person who experienced it. It ruptures the entire relationship system. Physical touch becomes triggering. - [Rekindling Physical Intimacy: 7 Proven Ways to Restore Closeness in Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/rekindling-physical-intimacy/): Physical touch is the most neglected pillar in struggling marriages—yet it’s the fastest way to rebuild emotional connection. - [Shower Together: 6 Strategies to Strengthen Your Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/shower-together/): Most couples shower together but miss the real opportunity. Here are 6 ways to turn your shower into a connection ritual — and how to start tonight. - [Sleeping Naked Will Do Wonders for Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sleeping-naked-will-do-wonders-for-your-marriage/): Sleeping naked with your partner releases oxytocin, deepens your bond, and improves sleep quality. Here's what the research says about skin-to-skin contact. - [THE IMPORTANCE OF PHYSICAL INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-importance-of-physical-intimacy-in-your-marriage/): Physical intimacy goes beyond sex. Learn why non-sexual touch like hugging, holding hands, and cuddling is essential for a strong marriage. - [Top 11 Ways to Cool Off Together When It’s Hot](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/top-11-ways-to-cool-off-together-when-its-hot/): Beat the summer heat as a couple! These 11 fun ideas help you and your spouse cool off together while staying connected. - [Wife’s Guide to Taking Initiative in Physical Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wifes-guide-physical-intimacy/): Introduction When was the last time you reached for your husband first? ## Recreational Intimacy - [10 Date Ideas When You Don’t Know What to Do](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-date-ideas/): Dates are important to have in your marriage. It is something that both of you have set aside time to do together and look forward to. - [10 FOAM ROLLER EXERCISES TO RELIEVE MUSCLE SORENESS AND BETTER SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-foam-roller-exercercises/): A foam roller can have a huge impact on your marriage like you didn't think was possible. - [10 REASONS TO DATE YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-reasons-date-spouse/): Make the time to date your spouse as the benefits are so worth the time and money. - [10 UNIQUE VALENTINE’S DAY EXPERIENCES TO GIVE YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-unique-valentines-day-experiences-to-give-your-spouse/): These winning gifts will refresh your gift-giving and make this Valentine’s Day your best yet. The hardest part will be to select which one. - [12 DAYS OF CHRISTMAS COUNTDOWN FOR YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/12-days-of-christmas-countdown-for-your-spouse/): This gift idea guide is all about you finding that special gift you can give to your spouse for 12 Days of Christmas. - [15 Cheap Date Night Ideas to Strengthen Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/15-cheap-date-night-ideas-to-strengthen-your-marriage/): Looking for cheap date night ideas? These 15 ideas will help you build recreational intimacy at little to no cost! - [15 CHRISTMAS ACTIVITIES TO BOOST RECREATIONAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/15-christmas-activities-to-boost-recreational-intimacy/): With so many festive activities to try, Christmas is the perfect time to be intentional about strengthening your recreational intimacy. - [15 Unique Date Ideas for Married Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/15-unique-date-ideas-for-married-couples/): Here's our list of 15 of the most exotic, creative, and enjoyable dates for married couples that will strengthen recreational intimacy. - [17 DINNERS YOU CAN SHARE ON YOUR NEXT DATE NIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/17-dinners-you-can-share-on-your-next-date-night/): The next time you go out on a date night get close to your spouse and share a meal together. - [21 SIMPLE WAYS TO SHOW YOUR SPOUSE YOU LOVE THEM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/21-simple-ways-to-show-your-spouse-you-love-them/): Here are 21 ways you can show your spouse how much you love them at different times throughout the year. - [21 Unique Christmas Gift Ideas for Married Couples](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/21-unique-christmas-gift-ideas-for-married-couples/): Looking for Christmas gifts for couples? These 21 unique ideas help married couples create memories and strengthen their connection this holiday season. - [27 BREATHTAKING PLACES TO PLANT A ROMANTIC KISS ON YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/27-breathtaking-places-to-plant-a-romantic-kiss-on-your-spouse/): Kissing, a touch with the lips as a sign of love or sexual desire, is a special act between you and your spouse. - [3 MARRIAGE LESSONS FROM MOVIES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-marriage-lessons-from-movies/): There are plenty of life (and marriage) lessons that you can learn from movies. And you can build your recreational intimacy in the process. - [3 REASONS TO GO ON A ROMANTIC GETAWAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-reasons-to-go-on-a-romantic-getaway/): Going on a long romantic getaway can be the best time for you and your spouse to experience life, as well as one another. - [3 REASONS WHY YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR SPOUSE ON YOUR TO-DO LIST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/put-your-spouse-on-your-to-do-list/): Make sure when you are planning out your day, you put your spouse at the top of you to-do list. - [3 SIMPLE WAYS TO CREATE A MORE INTIMATE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/intimate-bedroom/): Create an intimate bedroom that will be a place where you and your spouse can get away and enjoy one another. - [3 WAYS TO BOOST YOUR FITNESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-boost-your-fitness/): Though you may have never thought about it this way before, having sex is a great way to boost your fitness and burn calories! - [3 WAYS TO FINALLY FIND TIME FOR INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-finally-find-time-for-intimacy/): Scheduling sex... It’s not spontaneous, exciting, or invigorating. That’s what we told ourselves and our intimacy suffered. - [4 DAILY STEPS THAT WILL IMPROVE YOUR FITNESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-daily-steps-that-will-improve-your-fitness-and-your-marriage/): Learn how you can improve your fitness on a daily basis with these 4 steps. - [40 DAYS TO A MIND BLOWING MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/40-days-to-a-mind-blowing-marriage/): It’s time we came clean with how we find ourselves writing this blog and even talking about marriage. It all started back in August 2008. - [40 Romantic Ideas You Can Use Today to Spice Up Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/40-romantic-ideas-you-can-use-today/): It is time to get romantic in your marriage. - [5 WAYS TO RUIN DATE NIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-ways-to-ruin-date-night/): Don't squander quality time with your spouse! Here are 5 things to avoid that can ruin a date night with your spouse. - [50 Valentine’s Day Ideas To Wow Your Wife (And Strengthen Your Marriage)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/50-valentines-day-ideas-to-wow-your-wife/): Most husbands default to the same Valentine’s routine: flowers, chocolate, maybe a dinner reservation if you remembered to book early enough. - [50+ Valentine’s Day Ideas for Your Wife: Meaningful Ways to Celebrate Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/valentines-day-ideas-for-wife/): Valentine’s Day is coming. You could grab flowers at the grocery store, pick up a card that says what you couldn’t be bothered to write yourself, and call… - [7 BACK-TO-SCHOOL MICRODATE IDEAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-back-to-school-microdate-ideas/): Let’s head back-to-school with these fun mircodate ideas that will strengthen your Recreational Intimacy this school year. - [7 Days to an On-Fire Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-to-an-on-fire-marriage/): Try one of these 20 romantic gestures to create an on-fire marriage with your spouse, from deep conversations to sexy ideas and more. - [7 SIZZLING WAYS TO ADD SOME SPICE TO YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-sizzling-ways-to-add-some-spice-to-your-marriage/): Use these 7 ways to bring the sizzle and spice into your marriage as you spark the romance on your next date adventure together. - [7 STEPS TO A HAPPY, HEALTHY, & HOT MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-steps-to-a-happy-healthy-hot-marriage/): One thing we hear a lot about from many of you is that your health and fitness is hindering you from truly experiencing the intimacy you desire in your marriage. - [78 Alphabet Date Ideas](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/78-alphabet-date-ideas/): Get creative in your Recreational Intimacy Pillar! Check out these 78 alphabet date ideas to help plan your next great adventure together. - [[INFOGRAPH] HOW IMPORTANT IS ROMANCE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-important-is-romance/): Address the romance gap in yourmarriage by getting to know how your spouse most feels romanced! - [A LOVING EXPRESSION THAT WILL LEAVE AN IMPRESSION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/a-valentines-day-expression-that-will-leave-an-impression/): Take your spouse's feet in your hands, hold them, wash them, and massage each one. Taking time to wash each others feet is symbolic of your love. - [Anniversary Date Ideas: 50+ Ways to Celebrate Your Marriage Milestone](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/anniversary-date-ideas/): Your anniversary is coming up, and you want to do something special. Something more than the usual dinner reservation. - [AWESOME UNDER $20 STOCKING STUFFER IDEAS FOR YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/stocking-stuffer-ideas-for-your-spouse/): Check out our creative stocking stuffer ideas for the spouse who is excited about what you put in their stocking. - [BEYOND ROSES AND CHOCOLATES: 4 WAYS TO MAKE VALENTINE’S DAY SPECIAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/beyond-roses-and-chocolates-4-ways-to-make-valentines-day-special/): Make Valentine's Day special by celebrating the love you have for each other the way you want too. You’ll both feel more fulfilled. - [COVID-19 (CORONAVIRUS) AND YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/covid-19-coronavirus-and-your-marriage/): You can find a solution even it times when something like the coronavirus is creating havoc. This is your opportunity to be a light to those around you. - [Date Night Ideas for Married Couples: 50+ Ideas to Keep Your Marriage Fun](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/date-night-ideas-married-couples/): You used to count down the hours until you could see each other. - [DATE YOUR SPOUSE: 3 SIMPLE STEPS TO IMPROVE YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/date-your-spouse-3-simple-steps-to-improve-your-marriage/): If you want to grow closer to your spouse and experience fun and excitement in your marriage, don't underestimate the power of a date. - [DEEPEN YOUR RECREATIONAL INTIMACY BY LEARNING HOW TO DANCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/deepen-your-recreational-intimacy-by-learning-how-to-dance/): Learning how to dance as a couple helps you strengthen the emotional, physical, and recreational intimacy in your marriage. - [DS 062: What Can I Do to Spice Up My Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-062-what-can-i-do-to-spice-up-my-marriage/): There are many different ways to spice up your marriage so let’s look at some that you can start using in your marriage today. - [DS 084: How Do I Encourage My Husband to do Creative Things to Show His Love?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-084-how-do-i-encourage-my-husband-to-do-creative-things-to-show-his-love/): There may be times when your spouse doesn’t know exactly what you want. Learn how to encourage him to show his love in creative ways. - [First Valentine’s Day as a Married Couple: Make It Memorable](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/first-valentines-day-as-a-married-couple-make-it-memorable/): When you said “I do,” everything changed—including how you celebrate Valentine’s Day. - [FITNESS AND NUTRITION THAT LEADS TO SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/fitness-and-nutrition-that-leads-to-sex/): Fitness and nutrition have an impact on sexual intimacy. Nina Nelson aka "Shalom Mama" breaks down how she has been able to do just this. - [FUN BOARD GAMES YOU CAN PLAY TO SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/fun-board-games-you-can-play-to-spice-up-your-sex-life/): Looking for sexy board games to play with your spouse? These fun, intimate games will spice up your marriage and get you out of a sexual rut. - [GOING DEEPER: FEELING ADORED, SEXY AND SENSUAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-feeling-adored-sexy-and-sensual/): Learn how to create an environment where you feel adored and sexy. It doesn’t have to be impossible... It just takes a shift in your mindset. - [GOING DEEPER: OILS AND INTIMACY… IT’S ABOUT MORE THAN JUST MASSAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-oils-and-intimacy/): Oils are impacting bedrooms around the world in huge ways. Couples are finding them to be a great for setting the mood and making foreplay more enjoyable. - [HERE WE GO AGAIN! 2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/here-we-go-again-2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [How to Be a Better Wife and Mother: Strengthening Both Roles Without Losing Yourself](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-be-better-wife-mother/): Most women feel it at some point: the nagging guilt that you’re never quite doing enough at either role. - [How to Date Your Wife: A Husband’s Practical Guide](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-date-your-wife/): You pursued her once. You planned dates. You thought about what she might enjoy. You showed up early, nervous about making a good impression. - [HOW TO WRITE A ROMANTIC LOVE LETTER THAT WILL MAKE YOUR SPOUSE’S HEART SING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-write-a-romantic-love-letter-that-will-make-your-spouses-heart-sing/): Put down your computer, phone, tablet, or any other electronic device. You are going to go old school. That's right, you'll be writing a handwritten romantic love letter to your spouse today. - [KEEP HER LAUGHING — SHE’LL BE YOURS FOREVER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/keep-her-laughing-shell-be-yours-forever/): If you remember to listen to your wife, she is still really funny. Once you stop laughing with (and at) her, it means you stop noticing her. - [LIVE YOUR LIFE ONE WORD AT A TIME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/live-your-life-one-word-at-a-time/): Unlike resolutions, goals, or milestones, One Word for the Year is just that, one word you will live by for the upcoming year. - [LONG DISTANCE DATE IDEAS FOR MARRIED COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/long-distance-date-ideas-for-married-couples/): Not sure how to keep your marriage strong when you're apart? Check out these 8 long distance date ideas for married couples. - [MORE…40 DAYS TO A MIND BLOWING MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/more-40-days-to-a-mind-blowing-marriage/): “I need to think about it.” WHAT!!! He had to think about it? C’mon I had just said yes to making love to him for 60 days!!! - [PLAN A ROMANTIC SCAVENGER HUNT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/plan-a-romantic-scavenger-hunt/): A romantic scavenger hunt is a gift of fun. Strengthen your recreational intimacy pillar with a romantic scavenger hunt. - [Plan a Romantic Scavenger Hunt](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/plan-a-romantic-scavenger-hunt-2/): A romantic scavenger hunt is a gift of fun. Strengthen your recreational intimacy pillar with a romantic scavenger hunt. - [Recreational Intimacy: The Joy of Playing Together](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-recreational-intimacy/): What Is Recreational Intimacy? Recreational intimacy is all about what you do together at home, on dates, or just for fun. - [ROMANCE YOUR SPOUSE WITH THESE SEXY TEXT MESSAGES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/romance-your-spouse-with-these-sex-messages/): Simply by pushing a few buttons on your cell phone you can create a private and intimate connection to send sexy text messages between you and your spouse. - [THE IMPORTANCE OF RECREATIONAL INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-importance-of-recreational-intimacy-in-your-marriage/): Recreational intimacy is all about having fun as a couple. Discover new date ideas and learn how to overcome common obstacles. - [VALENTINE’S DAY RANT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/valentines-day-rant/): I’m not into Valentine’s Day. Never have been and I don’t think I ever will. It’s a Hallmark holiday in my opinion. ## Sexual Intimacy - [10 LUBRICANTS TO HEIGHTEN YOUR SEXUAL INTIMACY & DECREASE VAGINAL DRYNESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-lubricants-to-heighten-your-sexual-intimacy-decrease-vaginal-dryness/): Use lubrication to heighten your sexual intimacy & decrease vaginal dryness to experience that special moment with your spouse. - [10 Ways to Sexually Please Your Husband (That Actually Strengthen Your Marriage)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-please-husband-sexually/): The question most wives never ask out loud: “Am I enough for him sexually?” It’s one of the most common anxieties in marriage—and one of the least… - [100+ Sex Questions for Couples to Deepen Intimacy and Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-questions-for-couples/): “The greatest enemy of sexual wholeness today is silence.” That quote from Dr. - [11 AMAZING FOODS THAT CAN IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/11-amazing-foods-that-can-improve-your-sex-life/): Learn about 11 amazing foods that you can find everyday to help you get aroused and ready to have amazing sex with your spouse.. - [11 Must Have Items You Need In Your Bedroom](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/11-must-have-items-you-need-in-your-bedroom/): Here are 11 must-have items that you can use today to add excitement to your bedroom and explore sexual intimacy with your spouse. - [11 WAYS YOU CAN BRING EXCITEMENT TO YOUR BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/11-ways-you-can-bring-excitement-to-your-bedroom/): Many newlywed couples are ready to connect sexually and yet they’re not sure what to do when it comes to satisfying one another sexually. - [12 AMAZING CHRISTMAS GIFTS FOR MARRIED COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/12-amazing-christmas-gifts-for-married-couples/): The top 12 Christmas gifts that married couples can use together to enhance their marriage and their lives. - [13 Ideas For Spicier Foreplay](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/13-ideas-for-spicier-foreplay/): Ready for more exciting foreplay? These 13 creative ideas will help you and your spouse connect deeper and build anticipation for intimacy. - [15 Ways to Romance Your Spouse Over the Next 30 Days](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/15-ways-to-romance-your-spouse/): Go and romance your spouse over the next 30 days. Have fun as you add some spice and a spark to your marriage. - [19 QUESTIONS TO AMAZING SEX WITH YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/19-questions-to-amazing-sex-with-your-spouse/): Take time together, face your fears, and asked each other questions about what you would like or wouldn't like when it came to having amazing sex. - [21 Ways To Initiate Sex With Your Spouse](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/21-ways-to-initiate-sex-with-your-spouse/): Not sure how to initiate sex? Try these 21 creative ideas from dirty talk to playful surprises that will get your spouse excited. - [25 TOP RESOURCES FOR OVERCOMING PORNOGRAPHY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/top-resources-for-overcoming-pornography/): Overcoming pornography is a man's issue and a woman's issue. Both husband and wife can be addicted to the images that are on electronic devices. - [27 SEX TIPS FOR A RED-HOT MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/27-sex-tips-for-a-red-hot-marriage/): Ready for a red-hot marriage? These 27 expert sex tips will reignite passion, boost seduction, and bring you closer than ever. - [2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 1 – LET’S GET IT STARTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-1-lets-get-it-started/): ex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 2 – WHAT’S ON YOUR CALENDAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-2-whats-on-your-calendar/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 3 – LOOK OUTSIDE YOUR BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-3-look-outside-your-bedroom/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 4 – THE QUICKIE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-4-the-quickie/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 5 – HEAVEN HELP US](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-5-heaven-help-us/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 6 – I’M TOO SEXY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-6-im-to-sexy/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 7 – WE DID IT!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-7-we-did-it/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [3 CREATIVE WAYS TO SQUEEZE IN SEX DURING THE HOLIDAYS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-creative-ways-to-squeeze-in-sex-during-the-holidays/): When you are intentional about your marriage and sex during the holidays the smiley faces come out as you experience something fun together. - [3 Deep Penetration Sex Positions to Try This Week](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-deep-penetration-sex-positions/): Want deeper connection in the bedroom? Try these 3 deep penetration sex positions that bring couples closer physically and emotionally. - [3 New Sex Positions for Married Couples to Try](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-new-sex-positions-for-married-couples-to-try/): Enhance your sexual intimacy and try one of these new sex positions for married couples! It's a quick way to spice things up. - [3 REASONS WHY SEX ISN’T A DIRTY WORD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-reasons-why-sex-isnt-a-dirty-word/): When sex isn’t a dirty word, it opens you up to many possibilities! - [3 REASONS WHY YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS THE 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE [VIDEO]](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/why-your-marriage-needs-the-7-days-of-sex-challenge/): The 7 Days of Sex Challenge is about both of you committing to each other as you make your marriage the priority for one week. - [3 Steps to Better Sex with Liberator Sex Furniture](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-steps-to-better-sex-with-liberator-sex-furniture/): Liberator sex furniture can spice things up in your marriage in just 3 easy steps! Explore how to enhance your sex life today. - [3 STEPS TO REVEAL YOUR DESIRES DURING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-steps-to-reveal-your-desires-during-sex/): The ability to reveal your desires in a straight forward and clear manner gives you and your spouse the best opportunity to improve your sexual intimacy. - [3 STEPS TO SCHEDULE SEX IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-steps-to-schedule-sex-in-your-marriage/): The Intimacy Lifestyle is about making sexual intimacy a priority in your marriage each and every week throughout the year. - [3 STRATEGIES FOR AMAZING VACATION SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-strategies-for-amazing-vacation-sex/): Vacation sex... This is your time to connect in a whole new way, and make memories you’ll share with one another for years to come. - [3 Things You Need to Know Before Initiating Sex](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-things-you-need-to-know-before-initiating-sex/): Like a lot of sexual predispositions, where you came from and how you learned about sex, can influence what you think about initiating with your partner. - [3 UNDERWEAR SECRETS THAT WILL SPICE UP YOUR SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-underwear-secrets-that-will-spice-up-your-sex-life/): If your relationship with your spouse is the most important in your world, than the underwear only your spouse can see is your most important outfit. - [3 WAYS STRESS AFFECTS SEX AND INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-stress-affects-sex-and-intimacy/): Understanding the science behind stress can help you stop the stress cycle and improve your sex drive and intimacy with your spouse. - [3 Ways to Escape the Rut of Sexual Boredom](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-escape-the-rut-of-sexual-boredom/): Explore the top 3 ways to overcome sexual boredom and make your sex life as satisfying and enjoyable as you've always dreamed! - [3 WAYS TO REDISCOVER YOUR SEX LIFE FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-rediscover-your-sex-life-for-a-happy-marriage/): Over time what happens in the bedroom can become routine. It's time to rediscover your sex life for a happy marriage. - [3 WAYS TO TAKE YOUR SEXUAL INTIMACY TO THE NEXT LEVEL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-to-take-your-sexual-intimacy-to-the-next-level/): You and your spouse can experience a shift when your sexual intimacy is a regular part of your marriage. - [3 WAYS YOU CAN MAKE SEX A PRIORITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-ways-you-can-make-sex-a-priority/): When you and your spouse empower one another to share your desires during sex this is when you can experience a deep connection in your sexual intimacy. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Get Ready!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-get-ready/): Join us for the 3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge from May 6th - 13th, 2012. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Get Set!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-get-set/): Do you want to succeed. We want you to be successful. If there is one thing we want more than anything is for you to walk away from your 7 Days of Sex Challenge with a renewed sense of passion, romance, and intimacy in your marriage. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Let’s Get It On](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-lets-get-it-on/): There is nothing better than a quick romp in a new place to get the heart beating and the sexual desires filled. Today we celebrate the quickie for the joys and pleasures it brings to our marriage. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Love Triangle](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-love-triangle/): This years challenge is about you as a couple getting closer spiritually and sexually. Both go hand and hand as we have come to learn over the years. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Our Flame](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-our-flame/): Today get every candle you have in your house and set them up in your bedroom. Look at them together as they burn brightly to allow each of you to see each other. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Rejoice in the Body I Gave You](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-rejoice-in-the-body-i-gave-you/): We know that many of you have hang ups about your body. Because of this you only have sex at night with the lights off. There is no way that you are going to expose yourself, fully naked in front of your spouse like this. We know because we didn't have leave the lights on for many, many years. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Sealed with a Kiss](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-sealed-with-a-kiss/): Remember back to the days when you first meet and kissing each other was a huge deal. Do you have that image in your mind? Do you recall that first kiss together? Now go kiss like that! - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: Up The Romance](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-up-the-romance/): In your day-to-day married life I bet that romance is probably at the bottom of your list of what needs to be done. - [3rd Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge: You Did IT!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3rd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-you-did-it/): Way to go! We are so proud of you for taking on the 7 Days of Sex Challenge and completing it. Give yourselves a high five because You Did IT. - [4 TIPS FOR SEXTING YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-tips-for-sexting-your-spouse/): Sexting your spouse is an exciting way to deepen your intimacy as a couple. Here are our top four tips for sexting your spouse. - [4 TIPS TO AMAZING INTIMACY AND ECSTASY IN YOUR BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-tips-to-amazing-intimacy-and-ecstasy-in-your-bedroom/): Sex sells cars, hamburgers, clothing choices, and even hair dye. - [4 WAYS TO ESCAPE THOSE SEXUAL ROUTINES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/4-ways-to-escape-those-sexual-routines/): Amidst all of the reasons to potentially NOT talk about sex, learn to see that discussing your sex life will break those sexual routines. - [5 BEST SEX TOYS FOR MARRIED COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-best-sex-toys-for-married-couples/): Deepen your sexual intimacy with the top sex toys for married couples and learn why these can enhance your marriage! - [5 CREATIVE WAYS TO INITIATE SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-creative-ways-to-initiate-sex/): Feeling stumped about the best ways to initiate sex with your spouse? Here are five creative and practical ideas you can try today. - [5 LIES ABOUT RESPONSIVE DESIRE AND SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-lies-about-responsive-desire-and-sex/): Discover the true about responsive desire by busting these FIVE lies so you can experience stronger sexual intimacy intimacy. - [5 REASONS TO ADD SEX FURNITURE TO YOUR MARRIAGE TOOLBOX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-reasons-to-add-sex-furniture-to-your-marriage-toolbox/): What is a sex chair and why do couples love them? Discover the benefits of sex furniture including chairs, pillows, and couches for better intimacy. - [5 REASONS WHY YOU HAVE A DISMAL SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-reasons-why-you-have-a-dismal-sex-life/): It's time for the both of you to talk about what you desire in your sex life before you have sex. It's that simple and it's that hard. - [5 Senses to Heighten Your Sexual Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-senses-to-heighten-your-sexual-connection/): You have five senses that you can use to connect with your partner. The thing is are you using one or all five to enhance your relationship. - [5 STEPS TO REKINDLE THE SEXUAL INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-steps-to-rekindle-the-sexual-intimacy-in-your-marriage/): When it comes to getting the sexual intimacy back in your bedroom there should be more time spent on where you are mentally than physically. - [5 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO IMPROVE YOUR SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-things-you-can-do-to-improve-your-sex-life/): Give yourself permission to step out of the routine. No matter if you've been married 5 days or 50 years you can improve your sex life. - [5 TIPS TO DECLUTTER YOUR BEDROOM FOR GREAT SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-tips-to-declutter-your-bedroom-for-great-sex/): Learn what you can do to enjoy great sex with your spouse when you should declutter your room and strengthen your sexual intimacy. - [5 WAYS YOU CAN LAST LONGER IN BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-ways-you-can-last-longer-in-bed/): Are you ejaculating early? When it comes to making love would you be overwhelmed with joy if the intercourse portion would last longer? Let's make it happen - [6 Tips to Get the Fire Blazing in Your Sex Life](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/6-tips-to-get-the-fire-blazing-in-your-sex-life/): Does sex feel like a chore? If so, these 6 tips can help you spice things up in the bedroom again. - [7 *MERRY* DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-merry-days-of-sex-challenge/): “I highly recommend that every married couple complete the 7 Days of Sex Challenge – you’ll love it!” —Dustin Riechmann with Engaged Marriage - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: ARE YOU READY?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-are-you-ready/): We sure hope so because we’re having 7 straight days of it starting June 6th. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 1 – HERE WE GO!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-1-here-we-go/): “Every journey begins with a single step.” – Christen Murphy Resmo Are you excited? Nervous? Wondering what you gotten yourselves into? - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 2 – CHANGE IT UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-2-change-it-up/): Do something different! God intended us to enjoy sex so make sure you do. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 3 – CELEBRATE THE QUICKIE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-3-celebrate-the-quickie/): 5 minutes no problem! Make every minute count. [powerpress] With a quickie you can do just that and just about any place you choose. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 4 – HUMP DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-4-hump-day/): Half way there and the two of you are doing great. You might be a bit fatigued at this time or you may be flying high. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 5 – I’M LIKING THIS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-5-im-liking-this/): Take some time today to look back over the last 4 days and the passion, romance, and intimacy you have had. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 6 – PRAYER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-6-prayer/): Praying for sex and your marriage is vital. Today take the time to look to Jesus to make your sex life and marriage extraordinary. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: DAY 7 – WE DID IT!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-day-7-we-did-it/): Congratulations are in order to those of you who have completed the 7 Days of Sex Challenge. Way to put your marriage first this week. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: HOW TO ROCK YOUR SEX LIFE & YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex/): Today is the day for you to regain that sexual flame in your marriage, get back the passion, romance and feel fantastic about your sex life. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: IT’S A WRAP!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-its-a-wrap/): We made it! Saturday June 12th, 2010 at 11:59pm was the official end to the 1st Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge. - [7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE: UPDATES & PRIZES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-days-of-sex-challenge-updates-prizes/): There is only 10 days left before the 1st Annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge from June 6th-12th, 2010 and it is going to be amazing. - [7 Mistakes You’re Making in the Bedroom (and How to Fix Them Fast!)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-mistakes-youre-making-in-the-bedroom/): Are you making one of these mistakes in the bedroom? Here are 7 common problems and quick fixes to help you revamp your sex life! - [7 Ways to Stay Warm During Winter Sex](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/7-ways-to-stay-warm-during-winter-sex/): Dont let cold weather kill your sex life! These 7 cozy tips help couples stay warm while keeping intimacy hot all winter long. - [9 FOREPLAY IDEAS TO REVAMP YOUR SEXUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/9-foreplay-ideas-to-revamp-your-sexual-intimacy/): Revamp your love life with these 9 sexy foreplay ideas for married couples. Try a few tonight and watch the sparks fly! - [[INFOGRAPH] SEX & ORGASMS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/infograph-sex-orgasms/): Let's be real about sex & orgasms. There’s no one right method to do marriage, sex, or life, and yet we can learn from each other. - [ANNOUNCING THE 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/announcing-7-days-of-sex-challenge/): At the most basic level it is you and your spouse having sex for 7 days straight from June 6th to June 12th, 2010. But it really is so much more than just sex. - [Average Sex Life in Marriage: What the Research Shows (And What Actually Matters)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/average-sex-life-marriage/): “Is our sex life normal?” It’s the question that pulls you to Google at 2 AM when your spouse is asleep. - [BE AS LOUD AS YOU WANT DURING SEX WITH A SOUND MACHINE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/be-as-loud-as-you-want-during-sex-with-a-sound-machine/): With a Sound+Sleep Machine, you can feel comfortable to be as loud as you want during sex, even with kids or other guests in the home. - [BEDROOM SPRING CLEANING CHECKLIST FOR BETTER SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/bedroom-spring-cleaning-checklist-for-better-sex/): Your bedroom plays a major role in your marriage. Use this bedroom spring cleaning checklist to declutter your room and enjoy better sex. - [Best Books on How to Be a Better Husband: 12+ Must-Reads Organized by What Your Marriage Actually Needs](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/books-on-how-to-be-a-better-husband/): You want to be a better husband . That’s already a good sign. But here’s the problem: walk into any bookstore or browse Amazon, and you’ll find hundreds… - [BRING IT ON! 2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/bring-it-on-2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge/): Sex, making love, sexual intimacy, and other words like these conjure up images and thoughts in our minds of some of the most amazing times in our marriage beds. There is passion, romance, toe curling excitement that send shivers down our backs. Are you tracking with me? Sex is AWESOME!!! - [Christian Sex Positions: A Biblical Guide to Intimacy in Your Marriage Bed](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christian-sex-positions/): Do you ever wonder if what you want in the bedroom is “allowed”? You’re not alone. - [CHRISTMAS 7 DAY SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christmas-7-day-sex-challenge/): A sex challenge is a fun and exciting way to prioritize sexual intimacy during the busy Christmas season. It's about more than just sex! - [Comfortable Positions for Older Couples: 8 Low-Impact Ways to Stay Intimate](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/comfortable-positions-older-couples/): The myth that great sex ends at 50 is exactly that—a myth. But here’s what nobody tells you: your body at 60 isn’t your body at 30, and pretending… - [Couples Therapy for Sexless Marriage: Does It Work and What to Expect](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/couples-therapy-sexless-marriage/): You’ve been living more like roommates than lovers, and you’re wondering if a therapist can help. - [Creative Intimacy Ideas For Married Couples: Strengthen All 6 Pillars](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/creative-intimacy-ideas-for-married-couples/): When most people hear “intimacy ideas,” they immediately think about the bedroom. - [Creative Intimacy Ideas: 30+ Ways to Build Connection Across All 6 Pillars](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/creative-intimacy-ideas/): When you hear “intimacy,” what comes to mind? For most couples, it’s sex. And while sexual intimacy matters, it’s only one piece of a much bigger picture. - [DEAR COUPLES, REJECTION IS CRUSHING YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/rejection-is-crushing-your-spouse/): Rejection in the bedroom hurts deeply. Learn how constant rejection affects your spouse and what you can do to rebuild intimacy and connection. - [Desire Discrepancy in Marriage: How to Bridge the Gap When You Want Different Things](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/desire-discrepancy-marriage/): Almost no couple has perfectly matched desire. That’s not the problem. The problem is what happens when you don’t know how to talk about it. - [DS 048: What Tips or Encouragement Do You Have for Two Virgins About to Get Married?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-048-what-tips-or-encouragement-do-you-have-for-two-virgins-about-to-get-married/): Sex is one of those areas of our lives that the more we practice, the better we know our spouses, the better it becomes. - [DS 049: How Do I Get Out of My Sexual Rut After Having 4 Kids in 7 Years?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-049-how-do-i-get-out-of-my-sexual-rut-after-having-4-kids-in-7-years/): There is a lot happening when you have kids and yet you can be the sexy wife again. It’s just different than it was before. - [DS 050: What Do I Do When it Seems Like All Our Friends Have Perfect Marriages and We Are Struggling?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-050-what-do-i-do-when-it-seems-like-all-our-friends-have-perfect-marriages-and-we-are-struggling/): Caught in the comparrison trap with not move you forward in your marriage so it’s time to look at where you are and where you are going. - [DS 052: How Important is Personal Hygiene to My Sex Life?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-052-how-important-is-personal-hygiene-to-my-sex-life/): There are enough barriers to husbands and wives having sex, hygiene doesn’t need to be another one. - [DS 055: What Can I Do If I Have a Problem with Delayed Ejaculation?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-055-what-can-i-do-if-i-have-a-problem-with-delayed-ejaculation/): There are three areas that could be causing delayed ejaculation. T ake one step toward identifying the cause and work towards a solution starting today. - [DS 058: How Can We Make Sex a Priority During the Summer?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-058-how-can-we-make-sex-a-priority-during-the-summer/): Intimacy does not go on vacation. It doesn’t take a break. It’s something that you are intentional about no matter the season. - [DS 073: How Do You Keep Your Sex Life Alive When You Are Trying to Conceive?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-073-how-do-you-keep-your-sex-life-alive-when-you-are-trying-to-conceive/): In dealing with infertility, sex can become a task. It can become all about timing and cycles and body temperature and ovulation. - [DS 075: Is It Acceptable For Us to Have Naughty Sex?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-075-is-it-acceptable-for-us-to-have-naughty-sex/): Naughty is one of those words that means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. - [DS 081: How Do You Pull Off the Logistics of Morning Sex?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-081-how-do-you-pull-off-the-logistics-of-morning-sex/): When it comes to morning sex make sure that you discuss what this looks like for you and for your spouse. What you know helps you both to make it happen. - [DS 083: Can Poor Body Image Affect a Woman’s Ability to Have An Orgasm?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-083-can-poor-body-image-affect-a-womans-ability-to-have-an-orgasm/): Body image isn’t just about what you see, it’s about how you feel about what you see. - [DS 085: How Can I Share the Importance of Maintaining One’s Appearance After Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-085-how-can-i-share-the-importance-of-maintaining-ones-appearance-after-marriage/): Discussing the appearence of your spouse can be a touchy topic. - [DS 086: How Do You Sleep in the Same Bed as Your Spouse When the Two of You Have Opposite Body Temps?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-086-how-do-you-sleep-in-the-same-bed-as-your-spouse-when-the-two-of-you-have-opposite-body-temps/): Not enough covers or to many covers can sometimes be a question you’re asking each other. Especially when the two of you have different body temperature. - [DS 087: Is It Wrong of Me to Want My Wife to Dress Skanky?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-087-is-it-wrong-of-me-to-want-my-wife-to-dress-skanky/): The words you choose to use can have an impact on how your spouse responds to you. - [DS 093: How Can We Be Sexually Intimate When We Don’t Even Sleep Together Because of a Back Injury?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-093-how-can-we-be-sexually-intimate-when-we-dont-even-sleep-together-because-of-a-back-injury/): Physical limitations due to injuries can and will happen. Knowing some strategies to approach this will be beneficial to being sexually intimate. - [DS 094: How Do I Talk to My Kids About Sex?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-094-how-do-i-talk-to-my-kids-about-sex/): As a parent m ake a commitment to answer your children truthfully about sex, even if it means that you have to do a little research to answer their… - [DS 095: What If I Don’t Know What I Like?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-095-what-if-i-dont-know-what-i-like/): If you don’t know what you like it’s time to start your own personal sex ed class in your bedroom with your spouse. - [DS 096: How Do We Handle Cleaning Up After Sex?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-097-how-do-we-handle-cleaning-up-after-sex/): No matter where you make love there is the clean up that comes afterwards. - [DS 098: Is It OK for a Married Couple to Use Sex Toys?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-098-is-it-ok-for-a-married-couple-to-use-sex-toys/): Toys can enhance sexual pleasure, create a spark and bring excitement to you sex life. Learn how to discuss your comfort level with toys in your bedroom. - [DS 101: How Do We Maintain Our Sex Life in a Small House With Teenagers and a Baby?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-101-how-do-we-maintain-our-sex-life-in-a-small-house-with-teenagers-and-a-baby/): Anyone who has kids knows that when kids enter the picture your sex life enters a new phase. - [DS 102: How Do I Handle My Wife’s Feelings Around Her Lack of Arousal?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-102-how-do-i-handle-my-wifes-feelings-around-her-lack-of-arousal/): Arousal and what that looks like or means to you both can change over time. - [DS 103: How Can Scheduling Sex Benefit Our Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-103-how-can-scheduling-sex-benefit-our-marriage/): Honestly… scheduling sex IS spontaneous, intimate and much more! - [DS 104: What’s The Idea Behind a Sex Challenge?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-104-whats-the-idea-behind-a-sex-challenge/): Starting a sex challenge isn’t just about sex. It’s about fostering your emotional intimacy, eliminating rejection and trying something new with your… - [DS 105: Why Do a Sex Challenge Around a Holiday?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-105-why-do-a-sex-challenge-around-a-holiday/): Holidays, celebrations, birthdays are typically a one day event. - [DS 106: How Do You Keep Sex From Becoming Routine During a Sex Challenge?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-106-how-do-you-keep-sex-from-becoming-routine-during-a-sex-challenge/): Prior to starting you want to think about how you can be creative throughout your challenge. - [DS 107: How Can We Do a Sex Challenge If Our Levels of Desire Are So Different?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-107-how-can-we-do-a-sex-challenge-if-our-levels-of-desire-are-so-different/): The time you spend with each other during a challenge serves as a way to break out of the different mindsets each of you have around sex as well as the… - [DS 109: How Do You Create Intimacy with a Large Family?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-109-how-do-you-create-intimacy-with-a-large-family/): As your family grows there are more moving parts which can cause a disconnect when it comes to your sexual intimacy. - [DS 110: Does It Matter If We Don’t Go to Bed at the Same Time?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-110-does-it-matter-if-we-dont-go-to-bed-at-the-same-time/): There are many studies that conclude that going to bed together has a positive benefit on both you and your spouse. - [DS 111: How Do You Reconcile Different Needs for Affection?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-111-how-do-you-reconcile-different-needs-for-affection/): Touch is an important part of any marriage union and yet when it’s overt or non-existent it can cause tension between you and your spouse. - [DS 112: How Do You Keep the Intimacy Lifestyle Routine When You Are Outside of Your Home?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-112-how-do-you-keep-the-intimacy-lifestyle-routine-when-you-are-outside-of-your-home/): There will be times when you are traveling together that you’ll need to have a plan for staying consistent with your intimacy lifestyle Submit your… - [Foreplay Ideas for Married Couples: 25 Ways to Build Anticipation and Deepen Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/foreplay-ideas/): Meta Description : Looking for foreplay ideas to spice up your marriage? - [Godly Marriage Principles: Building a Lasting Marriage on Biblical Foundations](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/godly-marriage-principles/): The strongest marriages aren’t built on feelings or chemistry. They’re built on principles. Godly principles. We learned this the hard way. - [GOING DEEPER: CREATE THE SEXY LIFE YOU DESIRE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/create-the-sexy-life-you-desire/): Create the sexy life you desire as you give yourself permission to carve out time and space to make great things happen in all areas of your life. - [GOING DEEPER: HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE – YARLAP AND THE FEMALE ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-happy-wife-happy-life-yarlap-and-the-female-orgasm/): Yarlap is an at-home device used to treat urinary incontinence by re-educating the muscles of a woman’s pelvic floor and open the door for stronger orgasms. - [GOING DEEPER: HOLY SEX THE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-holy-sex-the-purpose-of-marriage/): When you choose to take action and be intention in the bedroom, you can have the holy sex you were designed to have. - [GOING DEEPER: HOW TO KEEP YOUR WIFE HAPPY WITH GAINSWAVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-keep-your-wife-happy-with-gainswave/): "Humans are social animals. Intimacy is an extremely important part of our health." —Dr. Richard Gaines, GAINSWave Founder - [GOING DEEPER: MENOPAUSE AND MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-menopause-and-marriage/): Menopause doesn’t have to be this scary unknown because with the right resources both you and your spouse will make it through this season together. - [GOING DEEPER: WHEN “IT” JUST AIN’T THERE NO MO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-when-it-just-aint-there-no-mo/): Contessa Louise Cooper is the founder of the Delicious Life Network where she shows women how to get exactly what they want in and out of the bedroom. - [GOING DEEPER: WHY CHURCH GIRLS TEND TO GET IT BACKWARDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/going-deeper-why-church-girls-tend-to-get-it-backwards/): There is a generation of church girls who are frustrated and struggling how to enjoy this intimate time with their spouse. - [HELP! I lOVE MY SPOUSE BUT OUR SEX LIFE IS SO BORING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/help-i-love-my-spouse-but-our-sex-life-is-so-boring/): You know that having healthy sexual intimacy is SO important to your relationship. Heck, a great sex life makes your whole outlook on life happier. - [HOW DO I FORGIVE MYSELF WHEN I HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE [#AskTonyAndAlisa]](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-do-i-forgive-myself-when-i-had-sex-before-marriage/): Learn what can you do today to forgive yourself when you have had sex before marriage. - [How Lingerie Can Boost Confidence, Desire, and Sexual Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-lingerie-can-boost-confidence-desire-and-sexual-intimacy/): Your naked body is a gift to your spouse. And lingerie is like the sexiest wrapping paper you’ve ever seen. - [How Much Sex Is Normal in Marriage? (The Question Every Couple Asks But Few Answer Honestly)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-much-sex-normal-marriage/): “Are we normal?” It’s the question you’ve been silently asking yourself. Maybe after talking to friends who mentioned their sex life. - [How Often Do Married Couples Have Sex? Statistics, Science, and What Actually Matters](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-often-married-couples-have-sex/): “Am I normal?” It’s the question couples secretly type into Google at midnight, wondering if their sex life measures up. - [How Often Do Married Couples Have Sex? What’s Actually Normal](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-often-do-married-couples-have-sex-whats-normal/): You’re lying in bed next to your spouse, wondering if other couples have sex more often than you do. - [How Often Should Married Couples Have Sex? The Real Answer May Surprise You](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-often-should-married-couples-have-sex/): “How often is normal?” If you’ve ever wondered whether your sex life measures up, you’re not alone. - [How Sex Drive Changes by Decade: A Couple’s Guide to Navigating Intimacy Through Every Life Stage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-drive-changes-by-decade/): What couples rarely discuss before marriage is how dramatically their sex drives will evolve—sometimes in sync, often not. - [HOW TO ADDRESS MISMATCHED LIBIDO IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-adress-mismatched-libido-in-your-marriage/): Mismatched libido is a common challenge for many couples, but you can take action to keep sexual intimacy strong in your marriage. - [How To Be More Intimate: A Complete Guide to Deepening Connection in Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-be-more-intimate/): When was the last time you felt truly close to your spouse? Not just sharing the same space or managing the same household, but genuinely connected in a… - [HOW TO DEAL WITH HORMONAL IMBALANCES AS A COUPLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-deal-with-hormonal-imbalances-as-a-couple/): Learn the five specific actions you can take to keep your marriage strong as you work through hormonal imbalances. - [How to Fix a Sexless Marriage: A Practical Guide to Rebuilding Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-fix-sexless-marriage/): You’ve noticed the distance growing. Weeks turn into months, and somehow you’ve become roommates sharing a house instead of lovers sharing a life. - [How to Improve Intimacy in Marriage: A Complete Guide to the 6 Pillars](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/improving-intimacy-in-marriage/): Learn the 6 Pillars of Intimacy framework to strengthen your marriage. Practical tips for emotional, physical, sexual, financial, spiritual, and recreational connection. - [How to Initiate Sex: The Complete Guide to Confident, Connected Initiation in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-initiate-sex/): Who initiates sex in your marriage? If you had to think about that for more than a second, you probably already know the answer – and it might be causing… - [How to Keep the Spark Alive in Your Marriage (It’s Not What You Think)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/keeping-spark-alive-marriage/): “Plan more date nights.” “Surprise each other with flowers.” “Keep things exciting in the bedroom.” You’ve heard this advice before. We’ve all heard it. - [How to Please Your Wife Sexually: A Husband’s Guide to Understanding Desire and Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-please-wife-sexually/): You want to please your wife sexually. If you’re reading this, you probably already care—and that’s the right starting point. - [How to Renew Sexual Intimacy in a Sexless Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-renew-sexual-intimacy-in-a-sexless-marriage/): A sexless marriage lacks vital sexual intimacy between spouses. But there are many ways to reinvigorate your sex life with your spouse. - [Husband Rejected Sexually: Why It Hurts and How to Rebuild](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/husband-rejected-sexually/): The Pain of Being Unwanted You reach for her in the darkness, hopeful. You can feel her body tense. - [I LOVE MY HUSBAND, BUT I’M NEVER IN THE MOOD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/i-love-my-husband-but-im-never-in-the-mood/): When you're never in the mood or have the desire to want sex this can cause feelings of disconnect, resentment and even rejection. - [INTIMACY KILLERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/intimacy-killers/): What kills the intimacy in your marriage? We’ve been asked this question many times because many of you want to be more intimate in your marriages, but… - [Is My Marriage Sexless? Take This Quiz to Find Out (And What Your Answers Mean)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/is-my-marriage-sexless-quiz/): You’ve been wondering for a while now. The intimacy that used to come naturally feels forced—or maybe it’s stopped entirely. - [JUMP START YOUR SEX DRIVE WITH LIBIDO BOOSTING VITAMINS AND MINERALS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/jump-start-your-sex-drive-with-libido-boosting-vitamins-and-minerals/): Struggling with low libido? These 10 natural vitamins and minerals can help boost your sex drive. Science-backed recommendations for both men and women. - [Low Libido During Menopause: 12 Natural Ways to Boost Sex Drive](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/low-libido-during-menopause-12-natural-ways-to-boost-sex-drive/): Struggling with low libido during menopause? Here are 12 natural solutions that help support your hormones and marriage. - [Low Libido Husband: Understanding, Supporting, and Reconnecting When He’s Lost Interest](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/low-libido-husband/): Most articles about low libido assume it’s the wife who doesn’t want sex. But what happens when it’s your husband? - [Low Libido Wife: Understanding Her Experience and Strengthening Your Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/low-libido-wife/): She’s not broken. And neither is your marriage. If you’re reading this article, you’re probably searching for answers. - [Making Love vs Having Sex: What’s The Difference (And Why It Matters for Your Marriage)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/making-love-vs-having-sex-whats-the-difference/): Have you ever had sex with your spouse and felt… empty afterward? You went through the motions, you both reached orgasm, but something was missing. - [Making Love vs Having Sex: What’s the Real Difference in Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/making-love-vs-having-sex/): When was the last time you felt completely connected to your spouse during sex? Not just physically present, but emotionally and spiritually intertwined? - [Mismatched Libido in Marriage: Understanding Desire Differences and Finding Your Rhythm](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/mismatched-libido-marriage/): You want sex. Your spouse doesn’t. Again. Or maybe you’re on the other side of that equation. - [MY WIFE HAS KICKED ME OUT OF THE BEDROOM [#AskTonyAndAlisa]](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/my-wife-has-kicked-me-out-of-the-bedroom/): Your wife has suddenly kicked you out of the bedroom for no good reason. Most likely there were triggers leading up to this moment. - [ONE WEEK: 2ND ANNUAL 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE UPDATE & PRIZES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/one-week-2nd-annual-7-days-of-sex-challenge-update-prizes/): One week = 7 days. Join us and the ONE community as we have sex for 7 days and nights. It's an amazing opportunity for you and your spouse to come together as you experience intimacy in a whole new way. - [Painful Sex in Marriage: Understanding, Communicating, and Finding Solutions Together](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/painful-sex-marriage/): You’re not broken, and you’re not alone. If sex has become something you dread rather than desire, something you endure rather than enjoy, we want you to… - [Painful Sex? How the Liberator Jaz Motion Can Help](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/painful-sex-how-the-liberator-jaz-motion-can-help/): For many couples, sexual intimacy is something they deeply desire because of the connection, pleasure, and closeness it can create. But when painful sex becomes part of the experience, that desire can quickly become mixed with apprehension. Instead of looking forward to being together, you may fi... - [Performance Anxiety in Marriage: Breaking the Pressure Cycle Together](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/performance-anxiety-marriage/): The moment you start worrying about whether you can perform, your body proves you right. - [Physical Intimacy Issues in Marriage: Why Touch Matters (And How to Reconnect)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/physical-intimacy-issues-marriage/): It’s late evening. You and your spouse are in bed—the same bed you’ve shared for years—but you might as well be on opposite sides of the house. - [PORNOGRAPHY IS REWIRING YOUR BRAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/pornography-is-rewiring-your-brain/): Repetitive pornography viewing can lead to a rewiring of your brain, which may lead to sexual problems in your marriage. - [Praying Together As A Couple: Why It’s More Intimate Than Sex (And How to Start)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/praying-together-as-couple/): Sex is amazing. But praying together? It takes you somewhere even deeper. That might sound counterintuitive. - [Reviving a Sexless Marriage: Practical Steps to Reconnect](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/reviving-sexless-marriage/): Quick Answer A sexless marriage doesn’t have to be permanent. Most couples can revive sexual intimacy in 6-12 weeks by addressing the real issue—which is… - [ROMANCE FOR HIM & HER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/romance-for-him-her/): Romance is essential for both husband and wife. Defining romance and taking action will help keep your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® strong. - [SCHEDULING SEX…](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/scheduling-sex-a-quick-intimacy-lifestyle-overview/): Scheduling sex is about giving you and your spouse a way to be sexually intimate on a regular basis that is best for the two of you. - [Sex After 40: What Changes (And Why Your Best Years May Be Ahead)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-after-40/): Your 40s mark a turning point for intimacy – but not in the way you might fear. If you’re reading this, you’ve probably noticed something shifting. - [Sex After 50: Why Your Best Years of Intimacy May Be Ahead (Not Behind)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-after-50/): When was the last time you had sex that left you both feeling completely connected—body, mind, and soul? - [Sex After 60: Why This Decade Can Be Your Most Fulfilling (A Married Couple’s Guide)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-after-60/): Here’s a statistic that might surprise you: 37% of married people over 60 make love once or more per week. - [Sex After Baby: How to Reconnect With Your Spouse After Childbirth](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-after-baby/): Nobody prepares you for this part. The parenting books cover feeding schedules, sleep training, and developmental milestones. - [Sex Frequency By Age: What’s Actually Normal for Married Couples?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-frequency-by-age/): “Are we having enough sex?” It’s the question couples ask themselves but rarely voice out loud. - [Sex in Long Term Marriage: Why It Can Get Better (Not Worse) With Time](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-in-long-term-marriage/): Somewhere along the way, you heard it: Sex fizzles out in marriage. The longer you’re together, the less you want each other. It’s just what happens. - [SEX STACK WILL EXPAND YOUR SEXUAL HORIZONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-stack/): The sexual activities we do when we play Sex Stack have helped us break the routine in our sex life and we hope it will do the same for you. - [Sex Toys for Beginners](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sex-toys-for-beginners/): New to sex toys? This beginners guide helps married couples explore intimate products safely and find what works for your relationship. - [Sexless Marriage Advice for Husbands: A Compassionate Guide to Reconnection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-advice-husbands/): If you’re a husband in a sexless marriage , you probably feel like you’re the only one dealing with this. - [Sexless Marriage Advice for Wives: Understanding Your Experience and Finding Your Path Forward](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-advice-wives/): I said no. Again. As Tony walked away, I felt relief… followed immediately by guilt. - [Sexless Marriage and Divorce: Is Lack of Intimacy Grounds to End Your Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-and-divorce/): You’ve probably searched this in private browsing mode. Maybe late at night, maybe in a parking lot before going home. - [Sexless Marriage Christian: Biblical Hope and Practical Steps to Reconnect](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-christian/): If you’re a Christian in a sexless marriage, you may feel like you’re failing at something God designed to be good. The silence is deafening. - [Sexless Marriage Effect on Husband: Beyond the Bedroom](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-effect-husband/): If you’re a husband in a sexless marriage , you probably feel like you’re going crazy—and nobody understands why. - [Sexless Marriage Statistics: The Real Data (And Why It Matters)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-statistics/): Fifteen to twenty percent of married couples aren’t having sex. Let that number sit for a moment. That’s roughly one in five marriages. - [Sexless Marriage: Understanding Why It Happens and How to Reconnect](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage/): When was the last time you felt truly desired by your spouse? If you have to stop and think about it, you’re not alone. We know this pain firsthand. - [Sexless Marriage: Why It Happens and How to Rebuild Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage/): Struggling with a sexless marriage? Learn the real reasons behind intimate disconnection and discover the 3-step approach that has helped thousands of couples rebuild passion and closeness. - [Sexual Intimacy Guide: Building a Thriving Sex Life in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/hub-sexual-intimacy-guide/): What Is Sexual Intimacy in Marriage? Sexual intimacy is far more than intercourse. - [Sexual Intimacy: Building a Thriving Sex Life in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-sexual-intimacy/): What Is Sexual Intimacy? Sexual intimacy encompasses everything about your sexual connection with your spouse. - [Signs of a Sexless Marriage (And What They’re Really Telling You)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/signs-of-sexless-marriage/): You haven’t had sex in weeks. Maybe months. But is your marriage officially “sexless”—or is this just a dry spell? - [Spiritual Intimacy in Marriage: The Connection That Goes Deeper Than Sex](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/spiritual-intimacy-in-marriage/): For many couples, spiritual intimacy can be more intimate than sex. That might sound strange. - [THE #1 MUST HAVE ITEM FOR YOUR BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-1-must-have-item-for-your-bedroom/): The #1 Must Have Item that has allowed us to be more free sexually, even with having kids in the house. - [The Emotional Impact: Understanding How a Sexless Marriage Affects a Wife](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-effect-wife/): Introduction Do you feel invisible to your husband? Like your needs don’t matter in the marriage anymore? - [THE IMPACT OF PREMATURE EJACULATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/premature-ejaculation/): Don't let premature ejaculation impact you and your marriage any longer. It's time that you experience the sexual intimacy you desire with your spouse. - [THE IMPORTANCE OF SEXUAL INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-importance-of-sexual-intimacy-in-your-marriage/): Sexual intimacy is more than physical connection. Discover why prioritizing your sex life strengthens emotional bonds and builds a thriving marriage. - [THE MENTAL PERSPECTIVE OF AN ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-mental-perspective-of-an-orgasm/): An orgasm is as much a mental experience as it is physical. Here are five strategies that can help you overcome mental obstacles and enhance your intimacy. - [THE TRUTH ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND AND SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-truth-about-your-husband-and-sex/): Don’t be afraid to talk about sex on a regular basis in your marriage. Encourage your husband to share openly and honestly. - [THINGS ARE BACK TO NORMAL AFTER THE 7 DAYS OF SEX CHALLENGE [#AskTonyAndAlisa]](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/things-are-back-to-normal-after-the-7-days-of-sex-challenge/): Learn what you can do after completing the 7 Days of Sex Challenge so your sexual intimacy doesn't go back to the way it was. - [What a Quickie Can Do for Your Marriage (And How to Make It Work)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/quickie-marriage/): A quickie isn't just fast sex — it's a marriage connection tool. Learn why quickies matter and how to make them work for your relationship. - [What Is Foreplay and Why It Matters for Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-is-foreplay/): When most people hear “foreplay,” they think of the few minutes right before sex. A little kissing, some touching, and then on to the main event. - [What’s Normal? Understanding Sex Frequency in Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/normal-sex-frequency-married/): “How often should we be having sex?” It’s one of the most-searched questions about marriage—and one of the most anxiety-inducing. - [When to Walk Away from a Sexless Marriage: Signs, Questions, and the Hard Decisions](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/when-to-walk-away-sexless-marriage/): We believe in fighting for marriage. We’ve told thousands of couples to take divorce off the table. But today, we need to have a different conversation. - [When Your Wife Rejects You Sexually: Understanding Why and What to Do Next](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wife-rejected-sexually/): The sting of reaching for your wife and feeling her pull away is one of the loneliest experiences a husband can have. - [Why A Sex Challenge Should Be On Your Bucket List](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/why-a-sex-challenge-should-be-on-your-bucket-list/): Add this to your bucket list! You'll be surprised at what can happen in your marriage when you decided to do something beyond what you thought imaginable. - [Why Marriages Become Sexless: Understanding the Real Causes](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/sexless-marriage-causes/): You probably didn’t wake up one day and decide to stop having sex with your spouse. It happened gradually—and you’re not quite sure why. ## Spiritual Intimacy - [10 Day Prayer Challenge](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-day-prayer-challenge/): Strengthen your spiritual intimacy with this 10 Day Prayer Challenge. Pray for your spouse, your self, and your relationship. - [10 Ways You Can Love Your Spouse By Reading the Bible](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/10-ways-you-can-love-your-spouse-by-reading-the-bible/): 10 bible passages focus in on proven ways that you can love your spouse. Post them where you will see them, read them, and apply them to your marriage each day. - [3 GREAT REASONS YOU SHOULD PRAY WITH YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-great-reasons-you-should-pray-with-your-spouse/): When you pray with your spouse, it strengthens your spiritual intimacy and helps you see things from a higher point of view. - [3 REASONS WHY YOU NEED CLARITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-reasons-you-need-clarity/): No matter if you've been married for a year or 40+ years, you need to know where are you right now? - [3 REASONS WHY YOUR FAMILY NEEDS A SIDE INCOME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-reasons-why-your-family-needs-a-side-income/): Starting a side income could help you and your family achieve financial security, save for more of the things you love and plan your future. - [3 Simple Secrets of Spiritual Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-simple-secrets-of-spiritual-intimacy/): Learn the simple secrets that are time tested and battle tried to help you experience a new level of spiritual intimacy with your spouse. - [3 TIPS TO READ THE BIBLE WITH YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/3-tips-to-read-the-bible-with-your-spouse/): Learn to read the Bible with your spouse that will allow the both of you to bask in the joy and calmness that comes from God’s word. - [30 Powerful Prayers For Your Marriage (That Actually Work)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/30-powerful-prayers-for-your-marriage/): When was the last time you prayed with your spouse? If you’re like most couples, the answer is “rarely” or “never.” Research shows that less than 8% of… - [5 Ways to Grow Spiritually as a Couple (Without the Awkwardness)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/5-ways-to-grow-spiritually-as-a-couple/): It can be hard to grow spiritually as a couple without a plan. Here are 5 ideas for how to build spiritual intimacy with your spouse. - [A PRAYER FOR MY HUSBAND: 10 THINGS TO PRAY OVER YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/a-prayer-for-my-husband/): Looking for a prayer for your husband? These 10 heartfelt prayers cover his health, strength, protection, and your marriage. Start praying over your spouse today. - [A PRAYER FOR MY WIFE: 10 THINGS TO PRAY OVER YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/a-prayer-for-my-wife/): Looking for a prayer for your wife? These 10 heartfelt prayers cover her health, strength, peace, and your marriage. Start praying over your spouse today. - [Bible Verses for Husbands: 20 Scriptures Every Married Man Needs to Know](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/bible-verses-husbands/): Every husband wants to be good at it. But most men never received a roadmap. The Bible provides one – if you know where to look. - [Bible Verses for Marriage Problems: A Complete Guide](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-problems-bible-verses/): When was the last time you and your spouse opened the Bible together? If you have to think about it, you’re not alone. - [Bible Verses for Wives: 25 Scriptures to Strengthen Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/bible-verses-wives/): Have you ever found yourself wondering what it really means to be a godly wife? - [Catholic Marriage Retreats: Strengthen Your Marriage Through Faith](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/catholic-marriage-retreat/): Quick Answer A Catholic marriage retreat is a structured program designed for Catholic couples that combines marriage counseling, faith-centered teaching,… - [Christian Marriage Advice: Biblical Foundations for a Thriving Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/christian-marriage-advice/): Christian marriage isn’t just about following biblical rules. It’s about building deeper intimacy with your spouse through faith. - [DS 066: How Do You Build a Stronger Spiritual Life as a Couple?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-066-how-do-you-build-a-stronger-spiritual-life-as-a-couple/): Building a spiritual life is a process. It is as important as building your emotional connection, your physical connection and your financial connection. - [DS 069: What Do I Do About the Resentment That I Feel Having to Constantly Clean Up After My Husband?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-069-what-do-i-do-about-the-resentment-that-i-feel-having-to-constantly-clean-up-after-my-husband/): Cleaning up after another person without any response/help or acknowledgement can easily lead to resentment. - [DS 074: How Do You Find Love, Specifically a Godly Man, After a Divorce?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ds-074-how-do-you-find-love-specifically-a-godly-man-after-a-divorce/): It might seem unusual for us to answer a question about how to find a man. - [GOD MOMENTS – CARING FOR OTHERS WHEN IT SEEMS INCONVENIENT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/god-moments-caring-for-others-when-it-seems-inconvenient/): Caring for others is a God Moments that takes you out of your comfort zone as you impact your marriage and experience the joy God desires for you. - [GOD MOMENTS – HOW MANY TIMES SHOULD YOU EXTEND FORGIVENESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/god-moments-how-many-times-should-you-extend-forgiveness/): Forgiveness. It's vital to your marriage and for you to experience the joy God desires for you. - [GOD MOMENTS – YOU BE THE CHANGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/god-moments-you-be-the-change/): Learn what you can do to step forward and be the change in your life and your marriage. - [God’s Plan for Marriage: The Complete Biblical Foundation](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/gods-plan-for-marriage/): God didn’t just invent marriage in passing. He designed it with specific purposes and dimensions in mind. - [How To Fall In Love Again After The Kids Move Out](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-fall-in-love-again-after-the-kids-move-out/): The day your last child walks out the door should feel like freedom. - [How to Prepare for a Marriage Retreat: The Complete Guide](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/how-to-prepare-for-marriage-retreat/): You’ve made one of the best decisions for your marriage: investing in a retreat. - [Intimate Questions for Couples: 100+ Questions to Deepen Connection Across All 6 Pillars](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/intimate-questions-couples/): When was the last time you asked your spouse a question you didn’t already know the answer to? - [Marriage Burnout: Why You Feel Disconnected and How to Reignite Your Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-burnout/): That moment when you realize you’re going through the motions—sharing a life but not really living it together. You still love each other. - [Marriage Covenant in the Bible: Understanding God’s Design for Lifelong Commitment](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-covenant-bible/): When was the last time you thought about your marriage as a covenant? Not just a commitment. Not just vows you made years ago. - [Marriage in the Bible: God’s Design for Lifelong Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/marriage-in-the-bible/): What if everything you needed to build a thriving marriage was already written down thousands of years ago? - [Prayer for Wife: 15 Powerful Prayers Every Christian Husband Should Pray](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/prayer-for-wife/): When you hear your spouse praying or worshipping, you see them in a different light. - [Prayer Journal For Married Couples: A 30-Day Guide to Deeper Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/prayer-journal-for-married-couples-a-30-day-guide/): When was the last time you prayed WITH your spouse, not just FOR them? - [Praying for Your Marriage: A Practical Guide to Spiritual Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/praying-for-your-marriage/): You know you should probably pray for your marriage. You’ve heard it mentioned at church, read it in a book, maybe even discussed it with your spouse once… - [Praying For Your Spouse When You’re Struggling: A Guide to Spiritual Intimacy in Hard Times](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/praying-for-your-spouse-when-youre-struggling/): When your marriage is in crisis, prayer can feel like the last thing you want to do. How can you pray for someone who hurt you? - [Scripture for Marriage Struggles: 7 Bible Verses to Strengthen Your Marriage Through Hard Times](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/scripture-for-marriage-struggles/): When your marriage is struggling, loneliness feels suffocating. You and your spouse might be sleeping in the same bed but living separate lives. - [Scriptures to Strengthen Marriage: 20+ Bible Verses That Build Lasting Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/scriptures-to-strengthen-marriage/): When was the last time you opened your Bible and thought, “This is going to help my marriage”? - [Spiritual Intimacy: The Deepest Connection in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/guide-to-spiritual-intimacy/): What Is Spiritual Intimacy? Spiritual intimacy encompasses your religious beliefs and observed religious practices as a couple. - [Spiritual Leadership in Marriage: What It Is (and What It Isn’t)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/spiritual-leadership-marriage/): The phrase “spiritual leader” makes many husbands feel inadequate and many wives feel cautious. - [The Biblical Role of a Wife: What Scripture Actually Teaches About Marriage Partnership](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/wife-role-bible/): The “biblical wife” often gets reduced to two words: submission and homemaking. - [THE IMPORTANCE OF SPIRITUAL INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-importance-of-spiritual-intimacy-in-your-marriage/): Spiritual intimacy is an important part of a long-lasting marriage. Here are 5 ways to strengthen spiritual intimacy in your marriage. - [The Role of a Husband in the Bible: 7 Biblical Responsibilities Every Man Should Know](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/husband-role-bible/): What does it mean to be a biblical husband? If you’re asking that question, you’re already ahead of most men. - [What Does the Bible Say About Marriage? God’s Design for Your Relationship](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-does-bible-say-about-marriage/): Marriage wasn’t invented by governments. It wasn’t created by cultures. ## Blog - [Menopause, Marriage, and Motherhood: How the Perimenopause Season Affects Relationships](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/menopause-marriage-and-motherhood-how-the-perimenopause-season-affects-relationships/): Menopause affects every area of your life, including your marriage, family, and other relationships. Here's what I learned. - [ONE EXTRAORDINARY MARRIAGE MIDWEST MEETUP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/meetup/): Come out and join Tony and Alisa for a fun meetup in Columbus, Indianapolis or St. Louis this July, 2014. - [Roommate Syndrome in Marriage: Signs, Causes & How to Rebuild](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/roommate-syndrome-marriage/): Feeling more like roommates than lovers? Learn what causes roommate syndrome, why it happens even in strong marriages, and a proven path to rebuild real connection. - [The Africa Tour: How The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Transforms Marriages Across the World](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/the-africa-tour-how-the-6-pillars-of-intimacy-transforms-marriages-across-the-world/): Two weeks. Two countries. Hundreds of couples in Africa eager to apply The 6 Pillars of Intimacy to their marriage. - [TONY AND ALISA DILORENZO: UPCOMING EVENTS & INTERVIEWS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/interviews/): Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo are highly sought-after marriage experts who have appeared as special guests in a variety of spaces. Find them here! - [What is Happening With My Body?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/what-is-happening-with-my-body/): No one told me what to expect with perimenopause, and I know so many other women share the same story... Here's what I wish I had known. ## Podcast - [004: LISTENER FEEDBACK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/004-one-extraordinary-marriage-listener-feedback/) - [005: SEX – QUANTITY VS QUALITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/005-sex-quantity-vs-quality/) - [006: POWER OF PRAYER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/006-power-of-prayer/) - [007: PORNOGRAPHY – A SECRET THAT CAN DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/007-pornography-a-secret-that-can-destroy-your-marriage/) - [008: EYES WIDE OPEN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/008-eyes-wide-open/) - [009: ARE YOU DATING YOUR SPOUSE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/009-are-you-dating-your-spouse/) - [010: CAN YOU ADMIT WHEN YOU ARE WRONG?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/010-can-you-admit-when-you-are-wrong/) - [011: OUR BEGINNING…HOW THE ROMANCE STARTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/011-our-beginning-how-the-romance-started/) - [012: FIREPROOF](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/012-fireproof/) - [013: THE DIFFERENCE ONE WEEK CAN MAKE IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/013-the-difference-one-week-can-make-in-your-marriage/) - [014: FAMILY GATHERINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/014-family-gatherings/) - [015: HOW DO YOU LIKE TO BE TOUCHED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/015-how-do-you-like-to-be-touched/) - [016: AN ATTITUDE OF SERVICE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/016-an-attitude-of-service/) - [017: ARE YOU TOO TIRED TO TRY?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/017-are-you-to-tired-to-try/) - [018: FACEBOOK AND YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/018-interview-facebook-and-your-marriage/) - [019: GOD WANTS YOU TO MAKE AN IMPACT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/019-god-wants-you-to-make-an-impact/) - [020: SHAKING THINGS UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/020-shaking-things-up/) - [021: ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/021-all-is-fair-in-love-and-marriage/) - [023: GET UNPLUGGED AND FIND YOUR CONNECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/023-get-unplugged-and-find-your-connection/) - [022: IS IT SAFE TO SHARE MY EMOTIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/023-is-it-safe-to-share-my-emotions/) - [024: WHEN IT’S NOT ON THE RADAR SCREEN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/024-when-its-not-on-the-radar-screen/) - [025: GETTING AWAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/025-getting-away/) - [026: IT’S SUMMERTIME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/026-its-summertime/) - [027: THE WHOLE ENCHILADA](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/027-the-whole-enchilada/) - [028: LIFE INSURANCE, IS IT WORTH IT?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/028-life-insurance-is-it-worth-it/) - [029: BUT NOTHING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/029-but-nothing/) - [030: SEX IN THE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/030-sex-in-the-bedroom/) - [031: QUEEN SIZE BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/031-queen-size-bed/) - [032: HOME SWEET HOME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/032-home-sweet-home/) - [033: FROM THE TOP DOWN & MORE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/033-from-the-top-down-more/) - [034: CAN WE TALK?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/034-can-we-talk/) - [035: PENCIL ME IN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/035-pencil-me-in/) - [036: WHAT IF?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/036-what-if/) - [037: LOOKING GOOD AND FEELING GOOD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/037-looking-good-and-feeling-good/) - [038: IS YOUR BEDROOM A SANCTUARY?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/038-is-your-bedroom-a-sanctuary/) - [039: HEAVEN HELP US!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/039-heaven-help-us/) - [040: SCREW THE KIDS…THIS IS OUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/040-screw-the-kids-this-is-our-marriage/) - [041: IS YOUR MARRIAGE AN ADVENTURE OR A BURDEN?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/041-is-your-marriage-an-adventure-or-a-burden/) - [042: DO I REALLY WANT TO MAKE A CHANGE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/042-do-i-really-want-to-make-a-change/) - [043: I DON’T WANT THE WORLD, I WANT YOU!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/043-i-dont-want-the-world-i-want-you/) - [044: ON THE ROAD AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/044-on-the-road-again/) - [045: CAN YOU FACE THE MUSIC?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/045-can-you-face-the-music/) - [046: ARE YOU KEEPING SCORE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/046-are-you-keeping-score/) - [047: GETTING ON THE SAME PAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/047-getting-on-the-same-page/) - [048: COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/048-count-your-blessings/) - [049: TIS THE SEASON TO HAVE SEX!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/049-tis-the-season-to-have-sex/) - [050: SHHH! I’VE GOT A SECRET](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/050-shhh-ive-got-a-secret/) - [051: TRUE FRIENDSHIP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/051-true-friendship/) - [052: THE CHRISTMAS STORY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/052-the-christmas-story/) - [053: GREAT EXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/053-great-expectations/) - [054: HEAR US ROAR!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/054-hear-us-roar/) - [055: HAPPY ANNIVERSARY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/055-happy-anniversary/) - [056: THE STRAIN OF CHANGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/056-the-strain-of-change/) - [057: COMING HOME AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/057-coming-home-again/) - [058: ARE YOU LOOKING TO SCORE? SHOOT FOR THE GOAL!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/058-are-you-looking-to-score-shoot-for-the-goal/) - [059: EXCUSE ME!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/059-excuse-me/) - [060: BROKEN HEARTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/060-broken-hearts/) - [061: THERE’S A WHITE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/061-theres-a-white-elephant-in-the-room/) - [062: IN SICKNESS & HEALTH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/062-in-sickness-health/) - [063: WHAT’S FOR DINNER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/063-whats-for-dinner/) - [064: O YES, THAT’S THE SPOT!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/064-o-yes-thats-the-spot/) - [065: WHAT’S IN YOUR SUITCASE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/065-whats-in-your-suitcase/) - [066: DID NOT FINISH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/066-did-not-finish/) - [067: A BIG DECISION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/067-a-big-decision/) - [068: A LITTLE BIT OF PARADISE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/068-a-little-bit-of-paradise/) - [069: ARE YOU AWARE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/069-are-you-aware/) - [070: LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/070-let-the-good-times-roll/) - [071: WHEN THE CRAP HITS THE FAN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/071-when-the-crap-hits-the-fan/) - [072: DOLLARS AND SENSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/072-dollars-and-sense/) - [073: WE DID IT!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/073-we-did-it/) - [074: DON’T STOP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/074-dont-stop/) - [075: I’M FINISHED…I WANT OUT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/075-im-finished-i-want-out/) - [076: AS LONG AS LIFE SHALL LAST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/076-as-long-as-life-shall-last/) - [077: CHECK ENGINE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/077-check-engine/) - [078: WHAT DID YOU SAY?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/078-what-did-you-say-2/) - [079: TAKING STOCK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/079-taking-stock/) - [080: IT’S NOT JUST ABOUT THE SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/080-its-not-just-about-the-sex/) - [081: I WANNA LEAVE A LEGACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/081-i-wanna-leave-a-leagacy/) - [082: ART OF MANLINESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/082-art-of-manliness/) - [083: SOMETHING’S BUGGING ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/083-somethings-bugging-me/) - [084: AT WIT’S END](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/084-at-wits-end/) - [085: LIVING, LOVING & LEARNING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/085-living-loving-learning/) - [086: THE BEAUTIFUL BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/086-the-beautiful-bed/) - [087: WHEN DISASTER STRIKES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/087-when-disaster-strikes/) - [088: A FORK IN THE ROAD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/088-a-fork-in-the-road/) - [089: WHEN DARKNESS FALLS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/089-when-darkness-falls/) - [090: DO I LET YOU REALLY SEE ME?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/090-do-i-let-you-really-see-me/) - [091: BACK WHEN THE WORLD MADE SENSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/091-back-when-the-world-made-sense/) - [092: YOU’RE STILL THE ONE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/092-youre-still-the-one/) - [093: NOW YOU’RE TELLING ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/093-now-you-tell-me/) - [094: GIVE ME EVERYTHING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/094-give-me-everything/) - [095: ARE THOSE REAL?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/095-are-those-real/) - [096: THANKFUL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/096-thankful/) - [097: DO YOU HAVE A PLAN THIS CHRISTMAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/097-do-you-have-a-plan-this-christmas/) - [098: COMING HOME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/098-coming-home/) - [099: DO YOU REALLY HAVE THE TIME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/099-do-you-really-have-the-time/) - [100: CELEBRATE GOOD TIMES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/100-celebrate-good-times/) - [101: OFF AND RUNNING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/101-off-and-running/) - [102: WILL YOU GO OUT WITH ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/102-will-you-go-out-with-me/) - [103: HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/103-home-is-where-the-heart-is/) - [104: RIGHT NOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/104-right-now/) - [105: BOOM BOOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/105-boom-boom/) - [106: IMPACTING MARRIAGES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/106-impacting-marriages/) - [107: SPICE UP THE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/107-spice-up-the-bedroom/) - [108: CAN YOU FOCUS NOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/108-can-you-focus-now/) - [109: HONORING THE VOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/109-honoring-the-vow/) - [110: TRUST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/110-trust/) - [111: HIGH DESIRE, LOW DESIRE, WHAT ARE YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/111-high-desire-low-desire-what-are-you/) - [112: FLAMES BURING BRIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/112-flames-burning-bright/) - [113: WANDERING EYES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/113-wandering-eyes/) - [114: THE SIMPLE LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/114-the-simple-life/) - [115: THE GRASS ISN’T ALWAYS GREENER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/115-the-grass-isnt-always-greener/) - [116: MAD, PASSIONATE, LOVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/116-mad-passionate-love/) - [117: WHERE IS GOD IN MY MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/117-where-is-god-in-my-marriage/) - [118: GREAT EXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/118-great-expectations/) - [119: WHY CAN’T WE HAVE A BABY?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/119-why-cant-we-have-a-baby/) - [120: OH THE PLACES YOU’LL GO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/120-oh-the-places-youll-go/) - [121: RESILIENCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/121-resilience/) - [122: SAY ONE THING DO ANOTHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/122-say-one-thing-do-another/) - [123: THE BATTLEFIELD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/123-the-battlefield/) - [124: JOINT OR SEPARATE CHECKING ACCOUNTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/124-joint-or-separate-checking-accounts/) - [125: FANTASIZE WITH ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/125-fantasize-with-me/) - [126: LAUGHTER FOR THE SOUL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/126-laughter-for-the-soul/) - [127: ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/127-ask-and-you-shall-receive/) - [128: PLAYING ON THE SAME TEAM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/128-playing-on-the-same-team/) - [129: A NEW NORMAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/129-a-new-normal/) - [130: JESUS IN MY BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/130-jesus-in-my-bedroom/) - [131: BIRDS AND THE BEES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/131-birds-and-the-bees/) - [132: BEING BRAVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/132-being-brave/) - [133: STATE OF THIS MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/133-state-of-this-marriage/) - [134: ROLE REVERSAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/134-role-reversal/) - [135: THE POWER OF TOUCH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/135-the-power-of-touch/) - [136: AUTHENTICALLY YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/136-authentically-you/) - [137: LOVE DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/137-love-does-make-a-difference/) - [138: WIND BENEATH MY WINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/138-wind-beneath-my-wings/) - [139: POSITION IT THIS WAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/139-position-it-this-way/) - [140: SCHEDULING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/140-scheduling-sex/) - [141: FLIRTING YOUR WAY BACK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/141-flirting-your-way-back/) - [142: BLENDED FAMILIES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/142-blended-families/) - [143: ARE YOU LIVING A LIE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/143-are-you-living-a-lie/) - [144: I’M THANKFUL FOR…](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/144-im-thankful-for/) - [145: MAKE TIME FOR A SEXY MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/145-make-time-for-a-sexy-marriage/) - [146: MY MARRIAGE IS GREAT BUT…](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/146-my-marriage-is-great-but/) - [147: THEN AND NOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/147-then-and-now/) - [148: FROM MOURNING TO JOY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/148-from-mourning-to-joy/) - [149: UNWRAPPING EACH OTHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/149-unwrapping-each-other/) - [150: READY, SET, GO!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/150-ready-set-go/) - [151: SLIPPERY SLOPE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/151-slippery-slope/) - [152: RUB-A-DUB THERE’S A COUPLE IN THE TUB](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/152-rub-a-dub-dub-theres-a-couple-in-the-tub/) - [153: CHEERING FOR THE HOME TEAM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/153-cheering-for-the-home-team/) - [154: WRITE ME A LETTER, SPEAK TO MY HEART](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/154-write-me-a-letter-speak-to-my-heart/) - [155: HOW-TO MAKE A DAILY DEVOTIONAL PART OF YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/155-how-to-make-a-daily-devotional-part-of-your-marriage/) - [156: VALENTINE’S DAY IS MORE THAN JUST ONE DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/156-valentines-day-is-more-than-just-one-day/) - [157: HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR PARENTS AND YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/157-how-to-deal-with-your-parents-and-your-marriage/) - [158: SEIZE THE DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/158-seize-the-day/) - [159: SEX ON THE ROLLER COASTER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/159-sex-on-the-roller-coaster/) - [160: FLIP THE SWITCH TO GOOD SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/160-flip-the-switch-to-good-sex/) - [161: I DON’T CARE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/161-i-dont-care/) - [162: WALK ON WATER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/162-walk-on-water/) - [163: WHEN THINGS GO WRONG AS THEY SOMETIMES WILL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/163-when-things-go-wrong-as-they-sometimes-will/) - [164: IS YOUR SEX LIFE GETTING ENOUGH SLEEP?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/164-is-your-sex-life-getting-enough-sleep/) - [165: CUDDLE UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/165-cuddle-up/) - [166: HOLEY UNDERWEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/166-holey-underwear/) - [167: PLAY BALL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/167-play-ball/) - [168: FLYING HIGH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/168-flying-high/) - [169: IS THIS ABUSE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/169-is-this-abuse/) - [170: WHAT’S WRONG WITH MY MARRIAGE…I AM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/170-whats-wrong-with-my-marriage-i-am/) - [171: SEX HURTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/171-sex-hurts/) - [172: THOSE WEIRD NOISES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/172-those-weird-noises/) - [173: CRANK UP YOUR SEX DRIVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/173-crank-up-your-sex-drive/) - [174: COVENANT OR CONTRACT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/174-covenant-or-contract/) - [175: CONTRACT OF RECONCILIATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/175-contract-of-reconciliation/) - [176: HOLD MY HAND](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/176-hold-my-hand/) - [177: BICYCLE BUILT FOR TWO (OR NOT)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/177-bicycle-built-for-two-or-not/) - [178: SEXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/178-sexpectations/) - [179: WARNING SIGNS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/179-warning-signs/) - [180: EWWW, THAT’S GROSS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/180-ewww-thats-gross/) - [181: WARRIOR OR WALKOVER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/181-warrior-or-walkover/) - [182: KEEPING SECRETS ABOUT THE KIDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/182-keeping-secrets-about-the-kids/) - [183: THE IMPACT OF PORNOGRAPHY ON YOUR WIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/183-the-impact-of-pornography-on-your-wife/) - [184: BE A HALL OF FAMER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/184-be-a-hall-of-famer/) - [185: LISTEN TO ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/185-listen-to-me/) - [186: DON’T WAIT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/186-dont-wait/) - [187: CHANGE IS GOOD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/187-change-is-good/) - [188: MAKE A PROMISE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/188-make-a-promise/) - [189: ARE YOU DOING TOO MUCH?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/189-are-you-doing-too-much/) - [190: TO TEXT OR NOT TO TEXT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/190-to-text-or-not-to-text/) - [191: MASTURBATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/191-masturbation/) - [192: GIVE ME A CHANCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/192-give-me-a-chance/) - [193: DIVORCE IS OFF THE TABLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/193-divorce-is-off-the-table/) - [194: TOUGH TO SWALLOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/194-tough-to-swallow/) - [195: SHOW EMOTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/195-showing-emotion/) - [196: SEX TOYS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/196-sex-toys/) - [197: AROUND THE WORLD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/197-around-the-world/) - [198: WANT TO OR NEED TO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/198-want-to-or-need-to/) - [199: IT WON’T HAPPEN TO US](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/199-it-wont-happen-to-us/) - [200: WOOHOO!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/200-woohoo/) - [201: I’M SORRY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/201-im-sorry/) - [202: TEMPTATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/202-temptation/) - [203: CONNECT EVEN WHEN YOU’RE APART](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/203-connect-even-youre-apart/) - [204: WE WILL FIGHT (FOR OUR MARRIAGE)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/204-we-will-fight/) - [205: WORK, KIDS, LAUNDRY, & DISHES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/205-work-kids-laundry-dishes/) - [206: INITIATING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/206-initiating-sex/) - [207: OUT OF WORK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/207-work/) - [208: FERTILITY AWARENESS METHOD (NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/208-fertility-awareness-method-natural-family-planning/) - [209: YOU SAID VS I HEARD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/209-said-vs-heard/) - [210: PRAYING OR PROCRASTINATING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/210-praying-procrastinating/) - [211: GET YOUR SEXY BACK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/211-get-sexy-back/) - [212: I WANT SPONTANEOUS SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/212-i-want-spontaneous-sex/) - [213: SEX IS NOT A COMPLETE BAROMETER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/213-sex-complete-barometer-relationship/) - [214: STRANGER DANGER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/214-stranger-danger/) - [215: SEPARATE BEDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/215-separate-beds/) - [216: UGHH! INTERRUPTED AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/216-ughh-interrupted/) - [217: I WISH I WOULD HAVE KNOWN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/217-i-wish-i-would-have-known/) - [218: IT’S NOT ALL GOOD OR ALL BAD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/218-all-good-or-all-bad/) - [219: I LOVE YOU, BUT I’M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/219-i-love-you-but-im-not-in-love-with-you/) - [220: FOREPLAY PLEASE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/220-foreplay-please/) - [221: IT’S NOT ABOUT THE NUMBER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/221-its-not-about-the-number/) - [222: THE CHOICES YOU MAKE EVERY DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/222-the-choices-you-make-every-day/) - [223: SUMMER DAZE (SEX WHEN THE KIDS ARE HOME)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/223-summer-daze/) - [224: IMPROVE YOUR PHYSICAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/224-improve-your-physical-intimacy/) - [225: WHEN KIDS TAKE PRIORITY IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/225-when-kids-take-priority-in-your-marriage/) - [226: (WO) MAN IN THE MIRROR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/226-man-in-the-mirror/) - [227: BACK AGAINST THE WALL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/227-back-against-the-wall/) - [228: STRESS AND YOUR LIBIDO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/228-stress-and-your-libido/) - [229: WHEN FACETIME MATTERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/229-facetime-matters/) - [230: VULNERABILITY WHEN TRYING NEW SEXUAL POSITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/230-vulnerability-trying-new-sexual-positions/) - [231: IS IT MY DAYS OR YOUR DAYS TO INITIATE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/231-is-it-my-days-or-your-days-to-initiate/) - [232: YOUR PERSONALITY TYPE AND SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/232-your-personality-type-and-sex/) - [233: ADVICE GIVEN IN LOVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/233-advice-given-in-love/) - [234: MARRIAGE BONK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/234-marriage-bonk/) - [235: SPEAK UP…VOCALIZE YOUR SATISFACTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/235-speak-up/) - [236: LOVE IS GREATER THAN FEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/236-love-is-greater-than-fear/) - [237: PUTTING THE KIDS FIRST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/237-putting-kids-first/) - [238: COMMON COURTESY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/238-common-courtesy/) - [239: IT’S NOT A PROBLEM, PORNOGRAPHY IS AN ADDICTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/239-its-not-a-problem-pornography-is-an-addiction/) - [240: BRING YOUR GOOD TIMES AND YOUR LAUGHTER TOO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/240-bring-your-good-times-and-your-laughter-too/) - [241: THIS WOMAN’S HEALTH (MAMMOGRAM, ULTRASOUND & STERILIZATION)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/241-this-womans-health/) - [242: LET’S TOUCH EACH OTHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/242-lets-touch-each-other/) - [243: STOP STUFFING IT DOWN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/243-stop-stuffing-it-down/) - [244: INTENTIONAL INTERRUPTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/244-intentional-interruption/) - [245: CREATE A FINANCIAL PEACE MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/245-create-a-financial-peace-marriage/) - [246: THE FIRST TIMES: SEX IN DIFFERENT SITUATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/246-the-first-times-sex-in-different-situations/) - [247: THANKFUL FOR YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/247-thankful-for-you/) - [248: FOOD COMA](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/248-food-coma/) - [249: SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/249-sex-before-marriage/) - [250: UNDER THE SHEETS AND NAKED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/250-under-the-sheets-and-naked/) - [251: TRUST ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/251-trust-me/) - [252: MORE THAN JUST AN ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/252-more-than-just-an-orgasm/) - [253: GOOD TO GREAT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/253-good-to-great/) - [254: PREMATURE EJACULATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/254-premature-ejaculation/) - [255: DELAYED EJACULATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/255-delayed-ejaculation/) - [256: SEX WHEN THE KIDS ARE HOME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/256-sex-when-the-kids-are-home/) - [257: EROTICA… MY DIRTY LITTLE SECRET](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/257-erotica-dirty-little-secret/) - [258: THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/258-the-truth-shall-set-you-free/) - [259: BACK TO BASICS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/259-back-to-basics/) - [260: WHERE ARE YOUR PRIORITIES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/260-priorities/) - [261: BEFORE AND AFTER SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/261-before-and-after-sex/) - [262: SAVE MY MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/262-save-my-marriage/) - [263: LESSONS LEARNED FROM HAVING SEX (A LOT)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/263-lessons-learned-from-having-sex/) - [264: MARRIAGE THROUGH YOUR SPOUSE’S EYES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/264-marriage-through-your-spouses-eyes/) - [265: RUN THE RACE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/265-run-the-race/) - [266: TAKE HOPE FROM A FANTASY TO A FORCE IN YOUR LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/266-take-hope-from-a-fantasy-to-a-force-in-your-life/) - [267: BE PREPARED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/267-be-prepared/) - [268: WHY ARE YOU ACTING LIKE THIS?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/268-why-are-you-acting-like-this/) - [269: ABSENCE DOESN’T MAKE THE HEART GROW FONDER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/269-absence-doesnt-make-the-heart-grow-fonder/) - [270: A TRENCHCOAT AND HIGH HEELS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/270-a-trenchcoat-and-high-heels/) - [271: RUNNING BELOW EMPTY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/271-running-below-empty/) - [272: WALKING IN THE DOOR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/272-walking-in-the-door/) - [273: TIME FOR AN OIL CHANGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/273-time-for-an-oil-change/) - [274: IT’S TIME TO TAKE THE LEAD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/274-its-time-to-take-the-lead/) - [275: COMMUNICATION DOESN’T END WITH FOREPLAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/275-communication-doesnt-end-with-foreplay/) - [276: MONEY IN THE BANK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/276-money-in-the-bank/) - [277: DRUG OF CHOICE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/277-drug-of-choice/) - [278: THE SECRET VALUE OF THE QUICKIE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/278-the-secret-value-of-the-quickie/) - [279: LIVE THIS DECADE WITH PURPOSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/279-live-this-decade-with-purpose/) - [280: THESE WILL FAN THE FLAMES OF YOUR SEXUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/280-these-will-fan-the-flames-of-your-sexual-intimacy/) - [281: CAN’T DO ANYTHING RIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/281-cant-do-anything-right/) - [282: LOOK UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/282-look-up/) - [283: THE HAPPINESS MYTH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/283-the-happiness-myth/) - [284: COCONUT OIL, VIBRATOR AND THE GAME OF LOVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/284-coconut-oil-vibrator-and-the-game-of-love/) - [285: WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/285-words-of-encouragement/) - [286: SEX IS A PART OF MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/286-sex-is-a-part-of-marriage/) - [287: THE IMPACT OF TONE AND TIMING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/287-the-impact-of-tone-and-timing/) - [288: DISCOVERING YOUR TRUE VALUES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/288-discovering-your-true-values/) - [289: WALK AROUND NAKED AT HOME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/289-walk-around-naked-at-home/) - [290: GROUNDHOG DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/290-groundhog-day/) - [291: THE MARRIED COUPLES GUIDE TO PMS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/291-the-married-couples-guide-to-pms/) - [292: IT’S BEEN TOO LONG SINCE WE’VE HAD SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/292-its-been-too-long-since-weve-had-sex/) - [293: HOLD ON TIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/293-hold-on-tight/) - [294: YOU HAVE 168 HOURS EACH WEEK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/294-you-have-168-hours-each-week/) - [295: THE NO REJECTION ZONE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/295-the-no-rejection-zone/) - [296: YOUR MARRIAGE MANUAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/296-your-marriage-manual/) - [297: DE-STRESS THE HOLIDAYS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/297-de-stress-the-holidays/) - [298: TRULY THANKFUL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/298-truly-thankful/) - [299: YOUR SEXUAL INTIMACY DURING THE HOLIDAYS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/299-your-sexual-intimacy-during-the-holidays/) - [300: WE NEVER THOUGHT WE WOULD BE HERE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/300-we-never-thought-we-would-be-here/) - [301: THOSE COMPETING VOICES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/301-those-competing-voices/) - [302: WHEN DRIFT BEGINS TO HAPPEN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/302-when-drift-begins-to-happen/) - [303: ARE YOU BEING PRESENT?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/303-are-you-being-present/) - [304: YOUR BEST YEAR EVER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/304-your-best-year-ever/) - [305: TWICE IN ONE DAY (MAKING LOVE THAT IS)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/305-twice-in-one-day-making-love-that-is/) - [306: A GOOD HUSBAND ISN’T SO HARD TO FIND](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/306-a-good-husband-isnt-so-hard-to-find/) - [307: STRENGTH TRAINING YOUR MARRIAGE MUSCLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/307-strength-training-your-marriage-muscles/) - [308: TWO BECOME ONE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/308-two-become-one/) - [309: SEX IS NOT A DUTY IT’S A GIFT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/309-sex-is-not-a-duty-its-a-gift/) - [310: VALENTINE’S DAY, MAKE IT MORE THAN JUST ONE DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/310-valentines-day-make-it-more-than-just-one-day/) - [311: JEALOUSY (THE GREEN EYED MONSTER)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/311-jealousy-the-green-eyed-monster/) - [312: WHAT YOUR HUSBAND IS THINKING BEFORE AND DURING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/312-what-your-husband-is-thinking-before-and-during-sex/) - [313: PACK THE BOXES, IT’S TIME TO MOVE ON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/313-pack-the-boxes-its-time-to-move-on/) - [314: STOP HOPING, START DOING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/314-stop-hoping-start-doing/) - [315: CLEANING UP AFTER SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/315-cleaning-up-after-sex/) - [316: NO KIDS ALLOWED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/316-no-kids-allowed/) - [317: TEXTING IS NOT TALKING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/317-texting-is-not-talking/) - [318: YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS YOU TO GROW UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/318-your-marriage-needs-you-to-grow-up/) - [319: ESP (EXTRASENSORY PERCEPTION)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/319-esp-extrasensory-perception/) - [320: CHANGE OF SCENERY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/320-change-of-scenery/) - [321: RENEWING YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/321-renewing-your-marriage-license/) - [322: IT’S TIME TO INITIATE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/322-its-time-to-initiate/) - [323: SEX IS NOT ALWAYS THE ANSWER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/323-sex-is-not-always-the-answer/) - [324: THE KEY TO YOUR HAPPINESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/324-the-key-to-your-happiness/) - [325: TEMPORARY WEDDING VOWS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/325-temporary-wedding-vows/) - [326: SUMMERTIME SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/326-summertime-sex/) - [327: I WANT OUT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/327-i-want-out/) - [328: THE INTIMACY LIFESTYLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/328-the-intimacy-lifestyle/) - [329: RISK REWARD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/329-risk-reward/) - [330: DETOURS TO SUCCESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/330-detours-to-success/) - [331: HAVING SEX OR MAKING LOVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/331-having-sex-or-making-love/) - [332: RELEASING RESENTMENT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/332-releasing-resentment/) - [333: REDEFINING THE INTIMACY LIFESTYLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/333-redefining-the-intimacy-lifestyle/) - [334: THE EMASCULATED MAN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/334-the-emasculated-man/) - [335: SHE’S NOT YOUR MOTHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/335-shes-not-your-mother/) - [336: YOUR SPOUSE ISN’T THE PROBLEM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/336-your-spouse-isnt-the-problem/) - [337: FUN AND GAMES TO BREAK THE SEXUAL ROUTINE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/337-fun-and-games-to-break-the-sexual-routine/) - [338: BEAUTIFUL WIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/338-beautiful-wife/) - [339: SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/339-sex-before-marriage/) - [340: 5 STIMULATING SENSES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/340-5-stimulating-senses/) - [341: STOP THOSE OLD, COMFORTABLE AND INEFFECTIVE PATTERNS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/341-stop-those-old-comfortable-and-ineffective-patterns/) - [342: WHY KNOWING HER MENSTRUAL CYCLE IS IMPORTANT TO YOUR SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/342-why-knowing-her-menstrual-cycle-is-important-to-your-sex-life/) - [343: WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW IN THE BEDROOM CAN HURT YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/343-what-you-dont-know-in-the-bedroom-can-hurt-you-and-your-marriage/) - [344: CELEBRATION TIME (WEDDING ANNIVERSARY STYLE)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/344-celebration-time/) - [345: LACK OF SEXUAL DESIRE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/345-lack-of-sexual-desire/) - [346: UNMET EXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/346-unmet-expectations/) - [347: SOMEONE’S KNOCKING ON THE DOOR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/347-someones-knocking-on-the-door/) - [348: YOU’RE SNORING TOO LOUD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/348-youre-snoring-too-loud/) - [349: LIES BECOME A CANCER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/349-lies-become-a-cancer/) - [350: YOUR SEXY UNDERWEAR MATTERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/350-your-sexy-underwear-matters/) - [351: ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/351-attitude-of-gratitude/) - [352: PERSONAL HYGIENE FOR A GREAT SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/352-personal-hygiene-for-a-great-sex-life/) - [353: I’M FINE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/353-im-fine/) - [354: AWAKE SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/354-awake-sex/) - [355: TWAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/355-twas-the-night-before-christmas/) - [356: GOING NEXT LEVEL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/356-going-next-level/) - [357: HONEST, OPEN AND TWO WAY LISTENING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/357-honest-open-and-two-way-listening/) - [358: THE POWER OF AN APOLOGY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/358-the-power-of-an-apology/) - [359: WHAT DO WE DO TOGETHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/359-what-do-we-do-together/) - [360: TOUCH ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/360-touch-me/) - [361: MONEY MATTERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/361-money-matters/) - [362: ON YOUR KNEES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/362-on-your-knees/) - [363: HEATING UP YOUR BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/363-heating-up-your-bedroom/) - [364: VACATION EXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/364-vacation-expectations/) - [365: I HAVE A HEADACHE… LET’S HAVE SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/365-i-have-a-headache-lets-have-sex/) - [366: LET’S GO TO BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/366-lets-go-to-bed/) - [367: I CAN’T TALK ABOUT SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/367-i-cant-talk-about-sex/) - [368: LAST LONGER IN BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/368-last-longer-in-bed/) - [369: MEN NEED FRIENDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/369-men-need-friends/) - [370: CHANGE STARTS WITH ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/370-change-starts-with-me/) - [371: YOU CAN BE A SPONTANEOUS LOVER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/371-you-can-be-a-spontaneous-lover/) - [372: STOP THE NAGGING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/372-stop-the-nagging/) - [373: ARE YOU UP FOR A SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/373-are-you-up-for-a-sex-challenge/) - [374: YOU’VE LOST THOSE LOVING FEELINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/374-youve-lost-those-loving-feelings/) - [375: WHEN TRANSITIONS HAPPEN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/375-when-transitions-happen/) - [376: THOSE PARENTING BEHAVIORS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/376-those-parenting-behaviors/) - [377: I’M OFFENDED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/377-im-offended/) - [378: LET’S HAVE MIND-BLOWING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/378-lets-have-mind-blowing-sex/) - [379: WHEN HE CAN’T ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/379-when-he-cant-orgasm/) - [380: THE ULTIMATE MARATHON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/380-the-ultimate-marathon/) - [381: SUMMER FUN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/381-summer-fun/) - [382: FOREPLAY FUN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/382-foreplay-fun/) - [383: CANCER CAN’T STOP THE ADVICE FROM A FATHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/383-cancer-cant-stop-the-advice-from-a-father/) - [384: BEING SENSUAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/384-being-sensual/) - [385: WHAT DO YOU WANT IN THE BEDROOM?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/385-what-do-you-want-in-the-bedroom/) - [386: RULES FOR A BETTER MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/386-rules-for-a-better-marriage/) - [387: WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/387-what-are-you-looking-at/) - [388: SHOULD AN ORGASM BE THE ULTIMATE GOAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/388-should-an-orgasm-be-the-ultimate-goal/) - [389: WE CAN HANDLE IT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/389-we-can-handle-it/) - [390: ENOUGH DRAMA ALREADY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/390-enough-drama-already/) - [391: LUBE IT UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/391-lube-it-up/) - [392: CAN’T SEEM TO DO ANYTHING RIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/392-cant-seem-to-do-anything-right/) - [393: IS YOUR VIBRATOR A CRUTCH?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/393-is-your-vibrator-a-crutch/) - [394: TOTALLY EXHAUSTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/394-totally-exhausted/) - [395: THAT TIME OF THE MONTH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/395-that-time-of-the-month/) - [396: HONOR YOUR WORDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/396-honor-your-words/) - [397: FEELING REJECTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/397-feeling-rejected/) - [398: THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/398-christmas-is-coming/) - [399: WORK SPOUSE DANGER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/399-work-spouse-danger/) - [400: HUGS FROM NEAR AND FAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/400-hugs-from-near-and-far/) - [401: MOAN OUT LOUD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/401-moan-out-loud/) - [402: HOLIDAY MARRIAGE HACKS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/402-holiday-marriage-hacks/) - [403: A THANKFUL HEART](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/403-a-thankful-heart/) - [404: ROCK YOUR SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/404-rock-your-sex-life/) - [405: WE DID IT! NOW WHAT?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/405-we-did-it-now-what/) - [406: FAKING IT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/406-faking-it/) - [407: SEXY GAMES TO HEAT THINGS UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/407-sexy-games-to-heat-things-up/) - [408: WRAPPING UP THIS SEASON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/408-wrapping-up-this-season/) - [409: WHAT CAN I DO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/409-what-can-i-do/) - [410: FIND YOUR PRECIOUS MOMENTS EACH WEEK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/410-find-your-precious-moments-each-week/) - [411: FORGIVENESS WILL SET YOU FREE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/411-forgiveness-will-set-you-free/) - [412: HOW ABOUT THESE POSITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/412-how-about-these-positions/) - [413: LIKE A BROKEN RECORD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/413-like-a-broken-record/) - [414: SEXPLORATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/414-sexploration/) - [415: WHAT’S YOUR LOVE STORY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/415-whats-your-love-story/) - [416: A LONG HOT SHOWER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/416-a-long-hot-shower/) - [417: CRYSTAL CLEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/417-crystal-clear/) - [418: CAUGHT IN THE COMPARISON TRAP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/418-caught-in-the-comparison-trap/) - [419: WE HAVE TROUBLE TALKING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/419-we-have-trouble-talking/) - [420: CONFIDENCE IN THE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/420-confidence-in-the-bedroom/) - [421: TELLING YOUR SPOUSE YOU STRUGGLE WITH PORN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/421-telling-your-spouse-you-struggle-with-porn/) - [422: WHAT IS THE INTIMACY LIFESTYLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/422-what-is-the-intimacy-lifestyle/) - [423: PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/423-paycheck-to-paycheck/) - [424: ANATOMY OF AN ERECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/424-anatomy-of-an-erection/) - [425: OH BABY!](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/425-oh-baby/) - [426: SEX IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/426-sex-is-good-for-your-health/) - [427: TALKING TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/427-talking-to-your-kids-about-sex/) - [428: DOES THIS OUTFIT MAKE ME LOOK FAT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/428-does-this-outfit-make-me-look-fat/) - [429: SUMMER LOVIN’](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/429-summer-lovin/) - [430: SEXUALLY SATISFIED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/430-sexually-satisfied/) - [431: MARRIAGE BUILDING HABITS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/431-marriage-building-habits/) - [432: THE END OF REJECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/432-the-end-of-rejection/) - [433: SETTING UP GUARDRAILS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/433-setting-up-guardrails/) - [434: LESSONS FROM THE BEACH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/434-lessons-from-the-beach/) - [435: HE’S NOT YOUR CHILD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/435-hes-not-your-child/) - [436: SEX DURING HER PERIOD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/436-sex-during-her-period/) - [437: THE ART OF MANSCAPING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/437-the-art-of-manscaping/) - [438: DO THE OPPOSITE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/438-do-the-opposite/) - [439: STOP SERVING THOSE LEFTOVERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/439-stop-serving-those-leftovers/) - [440: WHAT MEN GET FROM FOREPLAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/440-what-men-get-from-foreplay/) - [441: CRITICAL FEEDBACK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/441-critical-feedback/) - [442: NEVER TOO OLD FOR SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/442-never-too-old-for-sex/) - [443: HONEST TRUTH ABOUT THE FEMALE ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/443-honest-truth-about-the-female-orgasm/) - [444: KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/444-keep-the-romance-alive/) - [445: WE DIDN’T KNOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/445-we-didnt-know/) - [446: MORNING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/446-morning-sex/) - [447: MAKE INTIMACY A PRIORITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/447-make-intimacy-a-priority/) - [448: WORKING OUT FORGIVENESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/448-working-out-forgiveness/) - [449: WHAT DID YOU SAY?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/449-what-did-you-say/) - [450: THOSE BODILY FUNCTIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/450-those-bodily-functions/) - [451: QUANTITY AND QUALITY SEX LIFE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/451-quantity-and-quality-sex-life/) - [452: MULTIPLE ORGASMS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/452-multiple-orgasms/) - [453: FEAR IS CRIPPLING MARRIAGES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/453-fear-is-crippling-marriages/) - [454: DEALING WITH THE IN-LAWS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/454-dealing-with-the-in-laws/) - [455: EXPRESSING GRATITUDE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/455-expressing-gratitude/) - [456: BEING INTIMATE THIS HOLIDAY SEASON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/456-being-intimate-this-holiday-season/) - [457: 12 SEXY DAYS OF CHRISTMAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/457-12-sexy-days-of-christmas/) - [458: BETTER THAN YESTERDAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/458-better-than-yesterday/) - [459: TRADITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/459-traditions/) - [460: MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM AROUND THE WORLD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/460-merry-christmas-from-around-the-world/) - [461: IN THE MOMENT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/461-in-the-moment/) - [462: GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD AND INTO YOUR BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/462-get-out-of-your-head-and-into-your-bed/) - [463: TIME FOR THE MONEY CONVERSATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/463-time-for-the-money-conversation/) - [464: BEING PREGNANT AND MARRIED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/464-being-pregnant-and-married/) - [465: DATE NIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/465-date-night/) - [466: THE CHALLENGE WITH A SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/466-the-challenge-with-a-sex-challenge/) - [467: TIME FOR BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/467-time-for-bed/) - [468: ORAL SEX FOR HIM AND FOR HER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/468-oral-sex-for-him-and-for-her/) - [469: THOSE SWEET BEDROOM SOUNDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/469-those-sweet-bedroom-sounds/) - [470: WHAT COLOR IS YOUR UNDERWEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/470-what-color-is-your-underwear/) - [471: THE DANGER OF ISOLATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/471-the-danger-of-isolation/) - [472: MAKE UP SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/472-make-up-sex/) - [473: ROOMMATE SYNDROME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/473-roommate-syndrome/) - [474: OVERCOMING THE “NO”](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/474-overcoming-the-no/) - [475: TAX TIME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/475-tax-time/) - [476: WHEN “OK” IS NOT OK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/476-when-ok-is-not-ok/) - [477: EMOTIONAL EXHAUSTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/477-emotional-exhaustion/) - [478: DEEPEN YOUR SEXUAL CONNECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/478-deepen-your-sexual-connection/) - [479: OUR MARRIAGE VOWS PART 1 — I TAKE YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/479-our-marriage-vows-part-1-i-take-you/) - [480: LEAVING THE TOILET SEAT UP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/480-leaving-the-toilet-seat-up/) - [481: OUR MARRIAGE VOWS PART 2 — TO HAVE AND TO HOLD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/481-our-marriage-vows-part-2-to-have-and-to-hold/) - [482: PLAN THE PERFECT VACATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/482-plan-the-perfect-vacation/) - [483: OUR MARRIAGE VOWS PART 3 — FOR RICHER, FOR POORER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/483-our-marriage-vows-part-3-for-richer-for-poorer/) - [484: KISS ME LIKE YOU MEAN IT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/484-kiss-me-like-you-mean-it/) - [485: OUR MARRIAGE VOWS PART 4 — FOR BETTER OR WORSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/485-our-marriage-vows-part-4-for-better-or-worse/) - [486: YOU NEED TO FIX OUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/486-you-need-to-fix-our-marriage/) - [487: OUR MARRIAGE VOWS PART 5 — AS LONG AS LIFE SHALL LAST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/487-our-marriage-vows-part-5-as-long-as-life-shall-last/) - [488: KEGEL TO BETTER SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/488-kegel-to-better-sex/) - [489: MEDIA AND MARRIAGE: PART 1 — WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/489-media-and-marriage-part-1-what-are-you-listening-to/) - [490: ALCOHOL AND YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/490-alcohol-and-your-marriage/) - [491: MEDIA AND MARRIAGE: PART 2 — WHAT ARE YOU WATCHING?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/491-media-and-marriage-part-2-what-are-you-watching/) - [492: SEXLESS MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/492-sexless-marriage/) - [493: MEDIA AND MARRIAGE: PART 3 — WHERE ARE YOU SCROLLING?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/493-media-and-marriage-part-3-where-are-you-scrolling/) - [494: SEX BEFORE DATE NIGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/494-sex-before-date-night/) - [495: MONEY AND MARRIAGE: PART 1 — BRINGING FINANCES TOGETHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/495-money-and-marriage-part-1-bringing-finances-together/) - [496: ADULT TOYS IN THE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/496-adult-toys-in-the-bedroom/) - [497: MONEY AND MARRIAGE: PART 2 — THOSE MONEY CONVERSATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/497-money-and-marriage-part-2-those-money-conversations/) - [498: EXPRESS YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/498-express-your-sexual-desire/) - [499: MONEY AND MARRIAGE: PART 3 — DEALING WITH DEBT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/499-money-and-marriage-part-3-dealing-with-debt/) - [500: THE POWER OF A HUG](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/500-the-power-of-a-hug/) - [501: MONEY AND MARRIAGE: PART 4 — SIDE HUSTLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/501-money-and-marriage-part-4-side-hustle/) - [502: FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/502-feel-more-comfortable-when-you-talk-about-sex/) - [503: MONEY AND MARRIAGE: PART 5 — PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/503-money-and-marriage-part-5-planning-for-the-future/) - [504: LONELINESS IN MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/504-loneliness-in-marriage/) - [505: MONEY AND MARRIAGE: PART 6 — ESTATE PLANNING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/505-money-and-marriage-part-6-estate-planning/) - [506: MARRIAGE IS A TEAM SPORT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/506-marriage-is-a-team-sport/) - [507: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 1 — NEWLY WED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/507-marriage-through-the-years-part-1-newly-wed/) - [508: MUTUAL MASTURBATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/508-mutual-masturbation/) - [509: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 2 — CHILD REARING YEARS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/509-marriage-through-the-years-part-2-child-rearing-years/) - [510: BACK TO SCHOOL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/510-back-to-school/) - [511: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 3 — CHORE WAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/511-marriage-through-the-years-part-3-chore-war/) - [512: THE CHATTER IN MY HEAD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/512-the-chatter-in-my-head/) - [513: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 4 — WORK-LIFE BALANCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/513-marriage-through-the-years-part-4-work-life-balance/) - [514: IDENTITY CRISIS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/514-identity-crisis/) - [515: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 5 — MOVING DAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/515-marriage-through-the-years-part-5-moving-day/) - [516: SEX OUT OF OBLIGATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/516-sex-out-of-obligation/) - [517: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 6 — GETTING OLDER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/517-marriage-through-the-years-part-5-getting-older/) - [518: THE BENEFITS OF CUDDLING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/518-the-benefits-of-cuddling/) - [519: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 7 — SANDWICH GENERATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/519-marriage-through-the-years-part-7-sandwich-generation/) - [520: SEX OUTSIDE YOUR BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/520-sex-outside-your-bedroom/) - [521: MARRIAGE THROUGH THE YEARS: PART 8 — GOLDEN YEARS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/521-marriage-through-the-years-part-8-golden-years/) - [522: LOVE LANGUAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/522-love-language/) - [523: WALKING OUR FAITH: PART 1 — GETTING STARTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/523-walking-our-faith-part-1-getting-started/) - [524: WHEN REJECTION HAPPENS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/524-when-rejection-happens/) - [525: WALKING OUR FAITH: PART 2 — BELIEFS ABOUT SPIRITUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/525-walking-our-faith-part-2-beliefs-about-spiritual-intimacy/) - [526: INTIMACY REQUIRES VULNERABILITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/526-intimacy-requires-vulnerability/) - [527: WALKING OUR FAITH: PART 3 — ACTS OF LOVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/527-walking-our-faith-part-3-acts-of-love/) - [528: WHAT’S FOR DINNER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/528-whats-for-dinner/) - [529: LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX: PART 1 — AN IMPORTANT CONVERSATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/529-lets-talk-about-sex-part-1-an-important-conversation/) - [530: SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/530-sex-challenge/) - [531: LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX: PART 2 — AS NEWLYWEDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/531-lets-talk-about-sex-part-2-as-newlyweds/) - [532: IF YOU LOVED ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/532-if-you-loved-me/) - [533: LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX: PART 3 — WITH OUR FRIENDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/533-lets-talk-about-sex-part-3-with-our-friends/) - [534: SNIP SNIP IT’S TIME FOR A VASECTOMY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/534-snip-snip-its-time-for-a-vasectomy/) - [535: LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX: PART 4 — AFTER HAVING KIDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/535-lets-talk-about-sex-part-4-after-having-kids/) - [536: I DO MORE THAN YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/536-i-do-more-than-you/) - [537: LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX: PART 5 — TO OUR KIDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/537-lets-talk-about-sex-part-5-to-our-kids/) - [538: A SIMPLE THANK YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/538-a-simple-thank-you/) - [539: LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX: PART 6 — WHEN HEALTH GETS IN THE WAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/539-lets-talk-about-sex-part-6-when-health-gets-in-the-way/) - [540: THE INTIMACY LIFESTYLE DURING TOUGH SEASONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/540-the-intimacy-lifestyle-during-tough-seasons/) - [541: DREAM AGAIN: PART 1 — THE POWER OF A DREAM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/541-dream-again-part-1-the-power-of-a-dream/) - [542: GIVE YOUR MARRIAGE AN UPGRADE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/542-give-your-marriage-an-upgrade/) - [543: DREAM AGAIN: PART 2 — BRIDGING THE EMOTIONAL GAP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/543-dream-again-part-2-bridging-the-emotional-gap/) - [544: HOLIDAY SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/544-holiday-sex/) - [545: DREAM AGAIN: PART 3 — SPEND TIME TOGETHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/545-dream-again-part-3-spend-time-together/) - [546: CHRISTMAS (EVE) MAGIC](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/546-christmas-eve-magic/) - [547: DREAM AGAIN: PART 4 — LET’S GET PHYSICAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/547-dream-again-part-4-lets-get-physical/) - [548: LEAVE IT BEHIND](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/548-leave-it-behind/) - [549: MORE THAN A RESOLUTION: PART 1 — WHERE DO I START](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/549-more-than-a-resolution-part-1-where-do-i-start/) - [550: POWER OF EXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/550-power-of-expectations/) - [551: MORE THAN A RESOLUTION: PART 2 — WHAT KEEPS ME FROM HAVING SUCCESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/551-more-than-a-resolution-part-2-what-keeps-me-from-having-success/) - [552: 10 YEAR ANNIVERSARY SHOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/552-10-year-anniversary-show/) - [553: MORE THAN A RESOLUTION: PART 3 — YOUR GAME PLAN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/553-more-than-a-resolution-part-3-your-game-plan/) - [554: SEXUAL DESIRE DIFFERENCES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/554-sexual-desire-differences/) - [555: DATING YOUR SPOUSE: PART 1 — WHAT YOU EXPECT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/555-dating-your-spouse-part-1-what-you-expect/) - [556: SPONTANEOUS VS SCHEDULED SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/556-spontaneous-vs-scheduled-sex/) - [557: DATING YOUR SPOUSE: PART 2 — CREATIVE DATE IDEAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/557-dating-your-spouse-part-2-creative-date-ideas/) - [558: DON’T TAKE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR GRANTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/558-dont-take-your-marriage-for-granted/) - [559: DATING YOUR SPOUSE: PART 3 — LOW COST DATE IDEAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/559-dating-your-spouse-part-3-low-cost-date-ideas/) - [560: GO BARE DOWN THERE?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/560-go-bare-down-there/) - [561: DATING YOUR SPOUSE: PART 4 — HOW TO DATE AT HOME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/561-dating-your-spouse-part-4-how-to-date-at-home/) - [562: WHAT SHE WANTS YOU TO KNOW ABOUT HER ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/562-what-she-wants-you-to-know-about-her-orgasm/) - [563: STEP INTO A SEX CHALLENGE: PART 1 — MORE THAN JUST SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/563-step-into-a-sex-challenge-part-1-more-than-just-sex/) - [564: REBUILDING TRUST WITH YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/564-rebuilding-trust-with-your-spouse/) - [565: STEP INTO A SEX CHALLENGE: PART 2 — WHAT YOU NEED TO CONSIDER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/565-step-into-a-sex-challenge-part-2-what-you-need-to-consider/) - [566: POLITICAL DIFFERENCES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/566-political-differences/) - [567: STEP INTO A SEX CHALLENGE: PART 3 — PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/567-step-into-a-sex-challenge-part-3-putting-it-all-together/) - [568: VIDEO GAMES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/568-video-games/) - [569: DEALING WITH CONFLICT: PART 1 — WHAT ARE WE FIGHTING ABOUT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/569-dealing-with-conflict-part-1-what-are-we-fighting-about/) - [570: WHY IS INITIATING SEX SO DIFFICULT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/570-why-is-initiating-sex-so-difficult/) - [571: DEALING WITH CONFLICT: PART 2 — I WISH YOU WOULD JUST…](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/571-dealing-with-conflict-part-2-i-wish-you-would-just/) - [572: MARRIAGE IN THE CORONAVIRUS PANDEMIC](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/572-marriage-in-the-coronavirus-pandemic/) - [573: DEALING WITH CONFLICT: PART 3 — HOW I HANDLE THINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/573-dealing-with-conflict-part-3-how-i-handle-things/) - [574: EXCUSES USED TO AVOID HAVING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/574-excuses-used-to-avoid-having-sex/) - [575: DEALING WITH CONFLICT: PART 4 — OUR CONFLICT PLAN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/575-dealing-with-conflict-part-4-our-conflict-plan/) - [576: MAKE YOUR BEDROOM A SANCTUARY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/576-make-your-bedroom-a-sanctuary/) - [577: NAVIGATE THE PANDEMIC TOGETHER: PART 1 — OUR NEW NORMAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/577-navigate-the-pandemic-together-part-1-our-new-normal/) - [578: INTIMACY WITH EVERYONE HOME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/578-intimacy-with-everyone-home/) - [579: NAVIGATE THE PANDEMIC TOGETHER: PART 2 — INTROVERTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/579-navigate-the-pandemic-together-part-2-introverts/) - [580: ALL THE LITTLE THINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/580-all-the-little-things/) - [581: NAVIGATE THE PANDEMIC TOGETHER: PART 3 — EXTROVERTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/581-navigate-the-pandemic-together-part-3-extroverts/) - [582: SLEEP NAKED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/582-sleep-naked/) - [583: NAVIGATE THE PANDEMIC TOGETHER: PART 4 — WORK DYNAMICS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/583-navigate-the-pandemic-together-part-4-work-dynamics/) - [584: WATCH ME UNDRESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/584-watch-me-undress/) - [585: NAVIGATE THE PANDEMIC TOGETHER: PART 5 — FIGURE OUT YOUR FINANCES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/585-navigate-the-pandemic-together-part-5-figure-out-your-finances/) - [586: I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD DO THAT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/586-i-never-thought-i-would-do-that/) - [587: ROMANCE DEFINED: PART 1 — WHAT’S THE DEAL WITH THIS WORD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/587-romance-defined-part-1-whats-the-deal-with-this-word/) - [588: THE UPS AND DOWNS OF HER CYCLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/588-the-ups-and-downs-of-her-cycle/) - [589: ROMANCE DEFINED: PART 2 — WHAT YOUR WIFE WANTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/589-romance-defined-part-2-what-your-wife-wants/) - [590: CRYING DURING SEX OR AFTER ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/590-crying-during-sex-or-after-orgasm/) - [591: ROMANCE DEFINED: PART 3 — WHAT YOUR HUSBAND WANTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/591-romance-defined-part-3-what-your-husband-wants/) - [592: CONVERSATIONS AROUND ORAL SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/592-conversations-around-oral-sex/) - [593: OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE: PART 1 — FEEDBACK LOOP](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/593-out-of-your-comfort-zone-part-1-feedback-loop/) - [594: BEYOND COLOR BLIND](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/594-beyond-color-blind/) - [595: OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE: PART 2 — HANDLING FINANCES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/595-out-of-your-comfort-zone-part-2-handling-finances/) - [596: HEADACHE BEFORE ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/596-headache-before-orgasm/) - [597: OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE: PART 3 — TALKING ABOUT SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/597-out-of-your-comfort-zone-part-3-talking-about-sex/) - [598: COMING TOO SOON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/598-coming-too-soon/) - [599: OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE: PART 4 — SPIRITUAL CONNECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/599-out-of-your-comfort-zone-part-4-spiritual-connection/) - [600: CELEBRATE THE WINS IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/600-celebrate-the-wins-in-your-marriage/) - [601: OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE: PART 5 — THE DATING ROUTINE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/601-out-of-your-comfort-zone-part-5-the-dating-routine/) - [602: YOUR VIEW OF SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/602-your-view-of-sex/) - [603: THE KISSING GAME: PART 1 — OUR KISSING PATTERNS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/603-the-kissing-game-part-1-our-kissing-patterns/) - [604: THAT’S SO IRRITATING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/604-thats-so-irritating/) - [605: THE KISSING GAME: PART 2 — THE SCIENCE OF A KISS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/605-the-kissing-game-part-2-the-science-of-a-kiss/) - [606: TAKE THE CEILING OFF YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/606-take-the-ceiling-off-your-marriage/) - [607: THE KISSING GAME: PART 3 — WHAT KEEPS US FROM KISSING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/607-the-kissing-game-part-3-what-keeps-us-from-kissing/) - [608: STRUGGLING WITH DESIRE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/608-struggling-with-desire/) - [609: THE KISSING GAME: PART 4 — YOUR KISSING CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/609-the-kissing-game-part-4-your-kissing-challenge/) - [610: HONOR YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/610-honor-your-spouse/) - [611: I DON’T KNOW IF I LIKE YOU RIGHT NOW](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/611-i-dont-know-if-i-like-you-right-now/) - [612: EXPRESS YOUR NEEDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/612-express-your-needs/) - [613: INTENTIONAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/613-intentional-intimacy/) - [614: WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE’S ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/614-what-you-dont-know-about-your-spouses-orgasm/) - [615: SET THE MOOD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/615-set-the-mood/) - [616: A HEALTHY MARRIAGE TAKES WORK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/616-a-healthy-marriage-takes-work/) - [617: NOTHING TO SAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/617-nothing-to-say/) - [618: ANATOMY OF A FEMALE ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/618-anatomy-of-a-female-orgasm/) - [619: PLEASE BE HONEST WITH ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/619-please-be-honest-with-me/) - [620: LET GO OF PAST RELATIONSHIPS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/620-let-go-of-past-relationships/) - [621: STRENGTHEN YOUR CONNECTION AFTER SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/621-strengthen-your-connection-after-sex/) - [622: BEST FRIEND, LOVER OR BOTH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/622-best-friend-lover-or-both/) - [623: KEEPING SECRETS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/623-keeping-secrets/) - [624: SEXUAL CONFIDENCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/624-sexual-confidence/) - [625: BODY IMAGE ISSUES CAN BE A SERIOUS STRUGGLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/625-body-image-issues-can-be-a-serious-struggle/) - [626: EXPRESS APPRECIATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/626-express-appreciation/) - [627: CHRISTMAS SHOPPING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/627-christmas-shopping/) - [628: NAVIGATE THOSE HOLIDAY CONVERSATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/628-navigate-those-holiday-conversations/) - [629: HAVE YOURSELF A SEXY CHRISTMAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/629-have-yourself-a-sexy-christmas/) - [630: END THE YEAR WITH A 7 DAY SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/630-end-the-year-with-a-7-day-sex-challenge/) - [631: KICK-START YOUR NEW YEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/631-kick-start-your-new-year/) - [632: KEEP IT EXCITING… TRY NEW THINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/632-keep-it-exciting-try-new-things/) - [633: THE WORDS YOU SPEAK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/633-the-words-you-speak/) - [634: SCHEDULING SEX ISN’T WORKING FOR ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/634-scheduling-sex-isnt-working-for-me/) - [635: SEX OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/635-sex-outside-the-bedroom/) - [636: COMPARISON IS DANGEROUS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/636-comparison-is-dangerous/) - [637: EXPRESS YOUR LOVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/637-express-your-love/) - [638: TAKE TIME TO GRIEVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/638-take-time-to-grieve/) - [639: YOU SEXY BEARDED MAN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/639-you-sexy-bearded-man/) - [640: AM I DOING ENOUGH SEXUALLY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/640-am-i-doing-enough-sexually/) - [641: FALL IN LOVE AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/641-fall-in-love-again/) - [642: UNPACK YOUR BAGGAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/642-unpack-your-baggage/) - [643: WHY FOREPLAY MATTERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/643-why-foreplay-matters/) - [644: IT’S HARD TO TALK ABOUT SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/644-its-hard-to-talk-about-sex/) - [645: THAT WAS UNEXPECTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/645-that-was-unexpected/) - [646: IT’S IMPORTANT TO SAY “I’M SORRY”](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/646-its-important-to-say-im-sorry/) - [647: I NEED YOU TO TOUCH ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/647-i-need-you-to-touch-me/) - [648: ERECTION KILLERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/648-erection-killers/) - [649: CONTINUOUSLY INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/649-continuously-invest-in-your-marriage/) - [650: MIDLIFE CRISIS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/650-midlife-crisis/) - [651: STUCK IN A NEGATIVE SEXUAL MINDSET](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/651-stuck-in-a-negative-sexual-mindset/) - [652: WHEN LIFE DOESN’T GO AS PLANNED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/652-when-life-doesnt-go-as-planned/) - [653: THE MOST EPIC VACATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/653-the-most-epic-vacation/) - [654: QUALITY TIME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/654-quality-time/) - [655: LUBE… IT’S NOT A DIRTY WORD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/655-lube-its-not-a-dirty-word/) - [656: CHANGING SEASONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/656-changing-seasons/) - [657: TIGHTY WHITIES AND GRANNY PANTIES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/657-tighty-whities-and-granny-panties/) - [658: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GIVING FLOWERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/658-what-you-should-know-about-giving-flowers/) - [659: SEX ED FOR MARRIED COUPLES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/659-sex-ed-for-married-couples/) - [660: INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/660-invest-in-your-marriage/) - [661: STOP KEEPING SCORE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/661-stop-keeping-score/) - [662: WALK AND TALK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/662-walk-and-talk/) - [663: ORAL SEX — CUNNILINGUS AND FELLATIO](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/663-oral-sex-cunnilingus-and-fellatio/) - [664: I CHOOSE TO BE IN LOVE WITH YOU](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/664-i-choose-to-be-in-love-with-you/) - [665: START YOUR MORNING WITH A BANG](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/665-start-your-morning-with-a-bang/) - [666: NOT TODAY DEVIL, WE PRAY TOGETHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/666-not-today-devil-we-pray-together/) - [667: IT’S SO GOOD TO MOAN DURING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/667-its-so-good-to-moan-during-sex/) - [668: THE PAIN OF REJECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/668-the-pain-of-rejection/) - [669: THE SIZE OF YOUR BED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/669-the-size-of-your-bed/) - [670: MAKE MARRIAGE FUN AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/670-make-marriage-fun-again/) - [671: SILVER ANNIVERSARY (REFLECTING ON 25 YEARS)](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/671-silver-anniversary-reflecting-on-25-years/) - [672: WHAT’S THE DEAL WITH MULTIPLE ORGASMS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/672-whats-the-deal-with-multiple-orgasms/) - [673: SIZING UP THE PENIS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/673-sizing-up-the-penis/) - [674: EMOTIONALLY DRAINED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/674-emotionally-drained/) - [675: BABY STEPS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/675-baby-steps/) - [676: THE 6 PILLARS OF INTIMACY®](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/676-the-6-pillars-of-intimacy/) - [677: WHAT’S IN YOUR TOOLBOX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/677-whats-in-your-toolbox/) - [678: GRATEFUL FOR US](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/678-grateful-for-us/) - [679: SEX DOESN’T HAVE TO TAKE A CHRISTMAS BREAK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/679-sex-doesnt-have-to-take-a-christmas-break/) - [680: SECURITY FEATURES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/680-security-features/) - [681: CHRISTMAS TRADITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/681-christmas-traditions/) - [682: HAVE YOURSELF A SEXY LITTLE CHRISTMAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/682-have-yourself-a-sexy-little-christmas/) - [683: BELIEVING FOR BREAKTHROUGH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/683-believing-for-breakthrough/) - [684: CAST VISION TO MAKE THIS YOUR BEST YEAR YET](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/684-cast-vision-to-make-this-your-best-year-yet/) - [685: WHEN SEX DOESN’T GO AS PLANNED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/685-when-sex-doesnt-go-as-planned/) - [686: STOP THE NAME CALLING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/686-stop-the-name-calling/) - [687: LOW DESIRE, HIGH DESIRE TUG OF WAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/687-low-desire-high-desire-tug-of-war/) - [688: MAKING MARRIAGE SIMPLE AGAIN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/688-making-marriage-simple-again/) - [689: TRAVELING WITH MORE THAN JUST YOUR CLOTHES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/689-traveling-with-more-than-just-your-clothes/) - [690: ALWAYS OR NEVER STATEMENTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/690-always-or-never-statements/) - [691: TAKING CARE OF YOUR FINANCIAL FUTURE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/691-taking-care-of-your-financial-future/) - [692: A QUICKIE IS ABOUT MORE THAN JUST SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/692-a-quickie-is-about-more-than-just-sex/) - [693: PRAYING OUT LOUD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/693-praying-out-loud/) - [694: 6 PILLARS OF INTIMACY® AND PARENTING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/694-6-pillars-of-intimacy-and-parenting/) - [695: DO YOU COMPLAIN OR DO YOU CELEBRATE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/695-do-you-complain-or-do-you-celebrate/) - [696: SEXUAL TUG-OF-WAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/696-sexual-tug-of-war/) - [697: STUCK IN A DATE NIGHT RUT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/697-stuck-in-a-date-night-rut/) - [698: WHEN THE INTIMACY LIFESTYLE GOES OFF THE RAILS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/698-when-the-intimacy-lifestyle-goes-off-the-rails/) - [699: BREAK THE ROOMMATE CYCLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/699-break-the-roommate-cycle/) - [700: BELIEVING FOR A BREAKTHROUGH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/700-believing-for-a-breakthrough/) - [701: ACTIVELY REBUILDING BROKEN TRUST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/701-actively-rebuilding-broken-trust/) - [702: STRUGGLING TO GET AN ERECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/702-struggling-to-get-an-erection/) - [703: IDENTIFY AND COMMUNICATE YOUR EXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/703-identify-and-communicate-your-expectations/) - [704: SECRET SPENDING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/704-secret-spending/) - [705: WILL YOU FORGIVE ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/705-will-you-forgive-me/) - [706: ARE YOU MAKING EXCUSES TO AVOID HAVING SEX?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/706-are-you-making-excuses-to-avoid-having-sex/) - [707: LET’S GO TO BED NAKED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/707-lets-go-to-bed-naked/) - [708: THEY’RE PLAYING OUR SONG](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/708-theyre-playing-our-song/) - [709: INFLATION IS CREATING FINANCIAL STRESS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/709-inflation-is-creating-financial-stress/) - [710: Summer Sex Challenge](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/710-summer-sex-challenge/) - [711: REKINDLE THE ROMANCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/711-rekindle-the-romance/) - [712: WHEN WORDS HURT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/712-when-words-hurt/) - [713: WHAT’S THE ISSUE WITH SOLO MASTURBATION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/713-whats-the-issue-with-solo-masturbation/) - [714: TAKE ME ON A DATE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/714-take-me-on-a-date/) - [715: WHAT ARE WE FOCUSED ON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/715-what-are-we-focused-on/) - [716: SOLVING THE PROBLEM OF UNVOICED EXPECTATIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/716-solving-the-problem-of-unvoiced-expectations/) - [717: WHAT IF YOU COULD CHANGE THE FUTURE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/717-what-if-you-could-change-the-future/) - [718: TOO BUSY OR TOO TIRED FOR SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/718-too-busy-or-too-tired-for-sex/) - [719: ALCOHOL AND INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/719-alcohol-and-intimacy/) - [720: DOUBLE STANDARDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/720-double-standards/) - [721: INFORMATION OVERLOAD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/721-information-overload/) - [722: EROGENOUS ZONES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/722-erogenous-zones/) - [723: WHO ARE YOU FLIRTING WITH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/723-who-are-you-flirting-with/) - [724: I WANNA QUIT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/724-i-wanna-quit/) - [725: THOSE CONTROLLING BEHAVIORS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/725-those-controlling-behaviors/) - [726: DUTY SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/726-duty-sex/) - [727: LACK OF CONFIDENCE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/727-lack-of-confidence/) - [728: IT’S ME OR THE DOG](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/728-its-me-or-the-dog/) - [729: I THOUGHT WE WERE GOING TO HAVE SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/729-i-thought-we-were-going-to-have-sex/) - [730: EXPRESS THANKFULNESS AND GRATITUDE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/730-express-thankfulness-and-gratitude/) - [731: ‘TIS THE SEASON WHEN SEX DOESN’T HAPPEN](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/731-tis-the-season-when-sex-doesnt-happen/) - [732: FINDING JOY IN TRADITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/732-finding-joy-in-traditions/) - [733: OH, IT’S COLD OUTSIDE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/733-oh-its-cold-outside/) - [734: CHOOSING BETWEEN GIFTS AND EXPERIENCES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/734-choosing-between-gifts-and-experiences/) - [735: FORGET THE RESOLUTION: GET FOCUSED AND DO SOMETHING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/735-forget-the-resolution-get-focused-and-do-something/) - [736: Edging for Increased Sexual Arousal](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/736-edging-for-increased-sexual-arousal/) - [737: SEX PILLOWS AND WEDGES TO SUPPORT FUN POSITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/737-sex-pillows-and-wedges-to-support-fun-positions/) - [738: SEASONAL AFFECTIVE DISORDER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/738-seasonal-affective-disorder/) - [739: ROMANCE ISN’T DEAD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/739-romance-isnt-dead/) - [740: WHAT ARE YOU FIGHTING AGAINST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/740-what-are-you-fighting-against/) - [741: THE SNORING IS IMPACTING US](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/741-the-snoring-is-impacting-us/) - [742: I LOVE YOU IN MANY WAYS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/742-i-love-you-in-many-ways/) - [743: WHAT’S UP WITH THE HORMONES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/743-whats-up-with-the-hormones/) - [744: MASSAGE ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/744-massage-me/) - [745: SEXY GAMES TO PLAY IN THE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/745-sexy-games-to-play-in-the-bedroom/) - [746: FOREPLAY IS NOT AN AFTERTHOUGHT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/746-foreplay-is-not-an-afterthought/) - [747: NAP TIME IS PRIME TIME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/747-nap-time-is-prime-time/) - [748: SMART DEVICES ARE DESTROYING YOUR INTIMATE MOMENTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/748-smart-devices-are-destroying-your-intimate-moments/) - [749: SEX CHALLENGE DERAILED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/749-sex-challenge-derailed/) - [750: PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE FROM INFIDELITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/750-protect-your-marriage-from-infidelity/) - [751: LET’S GETAWAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/751-lets-getaway/) - [752: MORE THAN JUST “LET’S HAVE SEX”](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/752-more-than-just-lets-have-sex/) - [753: DO THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/753-do-the-little-things-that-matter/) - [754: IS SEXUAL INTIMACY MORE THAN INTERCOURSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/754-is-sexual-intimacy-more-than-intercourse/) - [755: YOUR CONFLICT CYCLE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/755-your-conflict-cycle/) - [756: IF I ONLY HAD A MARRIAGE MANUAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/756-if-i-only-had-a-marriage-manual/) - [757: THE IMPACT OF HORMONE THERAPY ON SEXUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/757-the-impact-of-hormone-therapy-on-sexual-intimacy/) - [758: EYES WIDE OPEN DURING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/758-eyes-wide-open-during-sex/) - [759: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU FEEL EMOTIONALLY EXHAUSTED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/759-what-to-do-when-you-feel-emotionally-exhausted/) - [760: TAKE A LOOK AT YOUR UNDERWEAR DRAWER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/760-take-a-look-at-your-underwear-drawer/) - [761: YOU’RE NOT WEARING YOUR WEDDING RING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/761-youre-not-wearing-your-wedding-ring/) - [762: SUMMER VACATION AND SEXUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/762-summer-vacation-and-sexual-intimacy/) - [763: BEDROOM BLOOPERS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/763-bedroom-bloopers/) - [764: FIRST DATE MEMORIES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/764-first-date-memories/) - [765: BIRTHDAY BUST](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/765-birthday-bust/) - [766: WHAT TIME OF DAY DO YOU HAVE SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/766-what-time-of-day-do-you-have-sex/) - [767: WHEN YOUR IMAGINATION RUNS WILD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/767-when-your-imagination-runs-wild/) - [768: MICRO-DATING FOR DEEPER INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/768-micro-dating-for-deeper-intimacy/) - [769: YOU DON’T LOVE ME](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/769-you-dont-love-me/) - [770: Do You Struggle with Initiating Sex](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/770-do-you-struggle-with-initiating-sex/) - [771: THE CHECK ENGINE LIGHT IS ON](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/771-the-check-engine-light-is-on/) - [772: SOLO MASTURBATION IN MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/772-solo-masturbation-in-marriage/) - [773: SHOWERING TOGETHER IS A FORM OF INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/773-showering-together-is-a-form-of-intimacy/) - [774: I DON’T FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/774-i-dont-feel-like-having-sex/) - [775: WHAT ARE YOU SAYING ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/775-what-are-you-saying-about-your-spouse/) - [776: CELEBRATE YOUR ANNIVERSARY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/776-celebrate-your-anniversary/) - [777: THERE ARE A VARIETY OF POSITIONS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/777-there-are-a-variety-of-positions/) - [778: INTENTIONAL GRATITUDE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/778-intentional-gratitude/) - [779: WIVES NEED COMMUNITY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/779-wives-need-community/) - [780: GET YOUR MARRIAGE ON THE CALENDAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/780-get-your-marriage-on-the-calendar/) - [781: VACATION SEX CHALLENGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/781-vacation-sex-challenge/) - [782: BLESSINGS UPON BLESSINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/782-blessings-upon-blessings/) - [783: SPENDING MONEY AT CHRISTMAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/783-spending-money-at-christmas/) - [784: THE RIGHT QUESTIONS FOR DEEPER SEXUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/784-the-right-questions-for-deeper-sexual-intimacy/) - [785: CHRISTMAS DATES TO KEEP THE SPARKLE ALIVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/785-christmas-dates-to-keep-the-sparkle-alive/) - [786: YOU ARE MY FAVORITE PRESENT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/786-you-are-my-favorite-present/) - [787: COUNTDOWN TO CONNECTION BY EMBRACING YOUR 6 PILLARS OF INTIMACY®](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/787-countdown-to-connection-by-embracing-your-6-pillars-of-intimacy/) - [788: WHEN SEX BRINGS YOU CLOSER EMOTIONALLY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/788-when-sex-brings-you-closer-emotionally/) - [789: HORMONAL IMBALANCES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/789-hormonal-imbalances/) - [790: THE GREATEST THREAT TO OUR MARRIAGE IS APATHY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/790-the-greatest-threat-to-our-marriage-is-apathy/) - [791: WHEN YOU FEEL STUCK](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/791-when-you-feel-stuck/) - [792: MONEY FIGHTS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/792-money-fights/) - [793: SEDUCTIVE BEGINNINGS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/793-seductive-beginnings/) - [794: SPECIAL VALENTINE’S DAY IDEAS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/794-special-valentines-day-ideas/) - [795: MARITAL CONFLICT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/795-marital-conflict/) - [796: BOO BOOS AND SEX INJURIES IN THE BEDROOM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/796-boo-boos-and-sex-injuries-in-the-bedroom/) - [797: BREAKING OUT OF “VANILLA” SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/797-breaking-out-of-vanilla-sex/) - [798: THERE’S MORE THAN ONE CHOICE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/798-theres-more-than-one-choice/) - [799: WE HAVE NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/799-we-have-nothing-to-talk-about/) - [800: 60 DAY SEX CHALLENGE REVISITED](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/800-60-day-sex-challenge-revisited/) - [801: IT’S TAKING TOO LONG TO ORGASM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/801-its-taking-too-long-to-orgasm/) - [802: PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT…OR DOES IT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/802-practice-makes-perfect-or-does-it/) - [803: GETAWAY TOGETHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/803-getaway-together/) - [804: EMOTIONAL REJECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/804-emotional-rejection/) - [805: MAKE YOUR OWN RULES WHEN IT COMES TO SCHEDULING SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/805-make-your-own-rules-when-it-comes-to-scheduling-sex/) - [806: I DON’T KNOW IF I WANT TO DO THAT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/806-i-dont-know-if-i-want-to-do-that/) - [807: INVESTING IN US](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/807-investing-in-us/) - [808: WHEN SIDE EFFECTS ARE HURTING YOUR MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/808-when-side-effects-are-hurting-your-marriage/) - [809: RESPONSIVE DESIRE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/809-responsive-desire/) - [810: GET ON THE SAME FINANCIAL PAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/810-get-on-the-same-financial-page/) - [811: DESSERT BEFORE DINNER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/811-dessert-before-dinner/) - [812: OUR FIRST KISS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/812-our-first-kiss/) - [813: SEEN AND HEARD](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/813-seen-and-heard/) - [814: WHAT WILL THE REST OF YOUR YEAR LOOK LIKE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/814-what-will-the-rest-of-your-year-look-like/) - [815: Touch Me In A Way That Matters](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/815-touch-me-in-a-way-that-matters/) - [816: CHOOSE TO LOVE YOUR SPOUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/816-choose-to-love-your-spouse/) - [817: MOVING AND MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/817-moving-and-marriage/) - [818: EXPLORE SEXUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/818-explore-sexual-intimacy/) - [819: CROSS COUNTRY MOVING ADVENTURES](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/819-cross-country-moving-adventures/) - [820: I’M ONLY HAVING SEX BECAUSE YOU WANT IT](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/820-im-only-having-sex-because-you-want-it/) - [821: MENOPAUSE MEETS MARRIAGE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/821-menopause-meets-marriage/) - [822: MAKING COUPLE FRIENDSHIPS TOGETHER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/822-making-couple-friendships-together/) - [823: WHO IS INITIATING FOREPLAY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/823-who-is-initiating-foreplay/) - [824: THE GREAT TOILET DEBATE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/824-the-great-toilet-seat-debate/) - [825: WORKING TOGETHER ISN’T ALL IT’S CRACKED UP TO BE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/825-working-together-isnt-all-its-cracked-up-to-be/) - [826: THE ROLE OF LINGERIE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/826-the-role-of-lingerie/) - [827: WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT TOUCH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/827-what-i-learned-about-touch/) - [828: BREAK THE SILENCE AROUND MENOPAUSE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/828-break-the-silence-around-menopause/) - [829: ANTICIPATING THE STORM](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/829-anticipating-the-storm/) - [830: PILLOWS, WEDGES, AND A FRESH TAKE ON SEXUAL INTIMACY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/830-pillows-wedges-and-a-fresh-take-on-sexual-intimacy/) - [831: UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/831-up-close-and-personal/) - [832: FORGIVING WITHOUT FORGETTING](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/832-forgiving-without-forgetting/) - [833: AVOIDING THE HOLIDAY FINANCIAL HANGOVER](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/833-avoiding-the-holiday-financial-hangover/) - [834: PHYSICAL INTIMACY WHEN LIFE GETS BUSY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/834-physical-intimacy-when-life-gets-busy/) - [835: TURNING THANKFULNESS INTO DEEPER CONNECTION](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/835-turning-thankfulness-into-deeper-connection/) - [836: GIFT GIVING THAT SPEAKS LOVE](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/836-gift-giving-that-speaks-love/) - [837: WHEN KIDS FIND YOUR SEX TOY STASH](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/837-when-kids-find-your-sex-toy-stash/) - [838: COZYING UP TO YOUR SPOUSE DURING THE CHRISTMAS CHAOS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/838-cozying-up-to-your-spouse-during-the-christmas-chaos/) - [839: REFLECTING ON THE YEAR GONE BY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/839-reflecting-on-the-year-gone-by/) - [840: NEW YEAR, NEW FOCUS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/840-new-year-new-focus/) - [841: Living Like Roommates](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/841-living-like-roommates/) - [842: Breaking the Silence in the Bedroom](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/842-breaking-the-silence-in-the-bedroom/) - [843: When Words Get In The Way](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/843-when-words-get-in-the-way/) - [844: Romance the One You Love](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/844-romance-the-one-you-love/) - [845: Where Do I Get Help](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/845-where-do-i-get-help/) - [846: The Intersection of Emotional Intimacy and Sexual Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/846-the-intersection-of-emotional-intimacy-and-sexual-intimacy/) - [847: Make Time For One Another](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/847-make-time-for-one-another/) - [848: Little Actions, Big Changes](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/848-little-actions-big-changes/) - [849: Pornography Kills Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/849-pornography-kills-intimacy/) - [850: Sexual Arousal](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/850-sexual-arousal/) - [851: Hot Flashes, Hormones and Your Husband](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/851-hot-flashes-hormones-and-your-husband/) - [852: Sex Challenge #19—What Happened](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/852-sex-challenge-19-what-happened/) - [853: Outside the Comfort Zone](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/853-outside-the-comfort-zone/) - [854: Your Marriage Bucket List](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/854-your-marriage-bucket-list/) - [855: Make Space for Extraordinary Connections](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/855-make-space-for-extraordinary-connections/) - [856: Orgasm for Your Health](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/856-orgasm-for-your-health/) - [857: Male Hormonal Transition](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/857-male-hormonal-transition/) - [858: Emotional Let Down](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/858-emotional-let-down/) - [859: Oral Sex for Your Husband](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/859-oral-sex-for-your-husband/) - [860: Not Good Enough](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/860-not-good-enough/) - [861: It’s Not You, It’s Me](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/861-its-not-you-its-me/) - [862: Marriage Advice](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/862-marriage-advice/) - [863: Not Mentally Present During Sex](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/863-not-mentally-present-during-sex/) - [864: Art of the Tender Topic](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/864-art-of-the-tender-topic/) - [865: Sex Talk](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/865-sex-talk/) - [866: The Masks We Wear in Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/866-the-masks-we-wear-in-marriage/) - [867: How Long Should Sex Last](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/867-how-long-should-sex-last/) - [868: Hard Reset](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/868-hard-reset/) - [869: Boudoir Photography](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/869-boudoir-photography/) - [870: Spiritual Mentors](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/870-spiritual-mentors/) - [871: I’m Not a Mind Reader](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/871-im-not-a-mind-reader/) - [872: Surviving Infidelity Together](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/872-surviving-infidelity-together/) - [873: A Home Restored](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/873-a-home-restored/) - [874: Slow Down to Speed Up Your Sexual Satisfaction](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/874-slow-down-to-speed-up-your-sexual-satisfaction/) - [875: Should You Ask AI About Your Marriage?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/875-should-you-ask-ai-about-your-marriage/) - [876: What Kind of Lover Am I?](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/876-what-kind-of-lover-am-i/) - [877: Get Stripped Down](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/877-get-stripped-down/) - [878: Beyond ‘In Sickness and In Health’](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/878-beyond-in-sickness-and-in-health/) - [879: Sexual Myths Sabotaging Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/879-sexual-myths-sabotaging-marriage/) - [880: Adventures Beyond the Bedroom](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/880-adventures-beyond-the-bedroom/) - [881: Put the Phones Down](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/881-put-the-phones-down/) - [882: The Silent Treatment](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/882-the-silent-treatment/) - [883: I Don’t Know What to Do to Fix My Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/883-i-dont-know-what-to-do-to-fix-my-marriage/) - [884: Sexual Intimacy Isn’t Optional…It’s Essential](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/884-sexual-intimacy-isnt-optional-its-essential/) - [885: Performance Anxiety](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/885-performance-anxiety/) - [886: Art and Science of Non-Sexual Touch](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/886-art-and-science-of-non-sexual-touch/) - [887: Gratitude Over Grumbling](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/887-gratitude-over-grumbling/) - [888: Coffee, Cocoa and Conversations](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/888-coffee-cocoa-and-conversations/) - [889: Deck the Halls and Drop the Drama](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/889-deck-the-halls-and-drop-the-drama/) - [890: Unwrap Me…Keep Sex Fun During the Holidays](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/890-unwrap-me-keep-sex-fun-during-the-holidays/) - [891: O Come Let Us Adore Him](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/891-o-come-let-us-adore-him/) - [892: Countdown to Connection](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/892-countdown-to-connection/) - [893: When Good Intentions Aren’t Enough](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/893-when-good-intentions-arent-enough/) - [894: Conversations That Never Get Old](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/894-conversations-that-never-get-old/) - [895: The Real Reason Sex Fades](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/895-the-real-reason-sex-fades/) - [896: More Than Roses and Romance](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/896-more-than-roses-and-romance/) - [897: Connection Is a Skill](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/897-connection-is-a-skill/) - [898: How to Say What You Actually Need](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/898-how-to-say-what-you-actually-need/) - [899: Oooh That Underwear Drawer](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/899-oooh-that-underwear-drawer/) - [900: The Truth About Marriage Today](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/900-the-truth-about-marriage-today/) - [901: If It’s Not Working, Fix It](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/901-if-its-not-working-fix-it/) - [902: Why Midlife Sex Feels Different](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/902-why-midlife-sex-feels-different/) - [903: Change Your Environment, Change Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/903-change-your-environment-change-your-marriage/) - [904: Weekly Rhythms That Keep Marriages Strong](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/904-weekly-rhythms-that-keep-marriages-strong/) - [905: Invite God Into Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/905-invite-god-into-your-marriage/) - [906: You’re Married, Not Boring](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/906-youre-married-not-boring/) - [907: This is Bigger Than Us](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/907-this-is-bigger-than-us/) - [908: Everyday Life Is Hurting Your Marriage](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/908-everyday-life-is-hurting-your-marriage/) - [909: Timing Matters in Your Sex Life](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/909-timing-matters-in-your-sex-life/) - [910: When You Stop Rushing This Happens](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/910-when-you-stop-rushing-this-happens/) - [911: I Want a Future With You](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/911-i-want-a-future-with-you/) - [912: When Intentionality Feels Like Pressure](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/912-when-intentionality-feels-like-pressure/) - [913: When Time Off Becomes Another To Do List](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/913-when-time-off-becomes-another-to-do-list/) - [914: Summer Connection Doesn’t Just Happen](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/914-summer-connection-doesnt-just-happen/) - [915: The Joy of Foreplay](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/915-the-joy-of-foreplay/) - [916: See Me, Know Me, Celebrate Me](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/916-see-me-know-me-celebrate-me/) - [917: Connection Multiplier](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/917-connection-multiplier/) - [918: Under the Surface](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/918-under-the-surface/) - [919: When Intimacy Is Off The Table](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/919-when-intimacy-is-off-the-table/) - [920: Treat Your Spouse as a Child of God](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/920-treat-your-spouse-as-a-child-of-god/) - [921: The Not-So-Invisible Marriage Competition](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/921-the-not-so-invisible-marriage-competition/) - [922: The Hardest Part Was Coming Home](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/922-the-hardest-part-was-coming-home/) - [923: What You’re Really Fighting About](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/923-what-youre-really-fighting-about/) - [924: Redefine Sexual Intimacy](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/924-redefine-sexual-intimacy/) - [925: When Fun Doesn’t Go As Planned](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/925-when-fun-doesnt-go-as-planned/) - [926: How Often Should Married Couples Have Sex](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/926-how-often-should-married-couples-have-sex/) - [927: The Words Your Spouse Needs to Hear](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/927-the-words-your-spouse-needs-to-hear/) - [001: 60 DAYS OF SEX](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/episode-001-60-days-of-sex/) - [002: CAN WE TALK? GOING BEYOND THE WEATHER AND THE KIDS](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/episode-002-can-we-talk/) - [003: REJECTION – OUR MCDONALD’S THEORY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/episode-003-rejection-our-mcdonalds-theory/) - [SPRECIAL EDITION: HAPPY NEW YEAR](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/happy-new-year/) - [SPECIAL EDITION: MERRY CHRISTMAS ONE FAMILY](https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/special-edition-merry-christmas-one-family/)